SO glad to find folks that are familiar with this surgery! My Dad is pretty much beside himself and we are all really worried....any suggestions for the recovery period? How bad was it? He is not happy about spending 2 weeks in the face down position
. We are all planning a family cruise in August to Alaska, his surgeon has assured him that he will be fine to fly by then? They are using a fast dissipating gas? I am in WV and Dad is in NC~should I take time off of work to be there for this surgery? My Mom will be taking off work for two weeks to make sure Dad is staying face down and putting in the eye drops.... (So many questions...sorry
) Any info is greatly appreciated~Glad you are doing well Kevin!
Thank you for the good wishes
The recovery is the hardest part.
Ask your DR for the brochure for the place that rents equipment to help with this surgery....but do it in advance. I ordered it after the surgery and it took several days to get here. By the time it did, I didnt need it any longer.
At first I was told I would need to be face down for two weeks....but it turns out it was only 1 week.
I found it inpossible to lay flat on my stomach. I laid on my side with my face down toward the bed.
When I rode in the car, I brought a bed pillow and rode with my face down. I did the same when "listening" to television.
One of the things I found unbelievably helpful was my iPhone and / or iPod Touch. I went on iTunes and bought a bunch of movies and TV shows. It was easy to hold in my hands when my head was down. I did this in the chair and in bed. If you dont have one.....it's worth the investment.
I also recorded a bunch of stuff on the DVR that I liked but had seen before. It was easy to listen to stuff I has seen and not have to look at it. I also watched / listened to alot of talk shows, cooking shows, music, radio etc....stuff that didnt require me watching / looking at the screen.
Something else to keep in mind...as this drove everyone around me crazy because it's not something anyone else has to go through......your Dad is going to have to sit in a position that most people associate with some one who is VERY sad. He will need to sit bent forward, probably with his forhead in his hands and most likely his eye will leak/ run/ drip etc.
His position will be the clasic "I'M REALLY SAD" position. Everyone that sees him in this position will ask him whats wrong.
He is already going to be uncomfortable...not only physically uncomfortable, but mentally uncomfortable because he will have lost a lot of his independence for a while.
I would suggest that you make the deal that if there is something wrong.....he needs to TELL you. Everyone that sees him sitting like this will automatically assume something is terribly wrong and ask him "whats wrong". If he's like me....his patience will last about 24 hours before he explodes.
Just be as patient as possible. The surgery isnt painful. I had very little pain afterwards. I only took Tylenol. The worst part is the recovery.
Chances are also very good that his taste buds will be out of whack for several days. I understand this is quite common. Foods I normally love made me gag. I ate scrambled eggs with no salt, no pepper, no nothing for three days.
The gas bubble will block his vision for a few weeks and as it starts to disolve, he will be able to see light around it. Something to keep in mind....as the bubble gets smaller, it will start to move around. This scared the daylights out me and resulted in an emergency trip to the eye DR (who came in on a Saturday to find me me near hysteria). It turnes out it was just the bubble moving about. I was told it would take 6 to 8 weeks to disolve and it took 7 weeks.
As for taking time off....I cant tell you what to do, but John pretty much took care of everything. He now tells me I was a pain in the butt. I dont remember being a pain the butt....but apparently I was. John tells me that your Dad will need someone to monitor that the drops are done at the right time. He also tells me that I wasnt a physical "burden"(other than being led around) but I was a mental "burden". Let me explain....he tells me that I had to be coerced into being face down all the time. He says he'd come in and find me laying on my back (because it was more comfortable) and he'd have to convince me return to being face down.
I'm just hearing this for the first time. I thought I was the model patient.
I dont wish this recovery on anyone, but I do wish him all the best and that he does well with it.