Your plan is a bit off to me
Day 1 check into Manhattan club.
You are hung up on the hotel that ABD uses, you can get just as nice hotels in the same area for far less money and honestly when you are going to be out and about so much, there is no need for 2 bathrooms for 2 people!
Ride the bus thing called the ride
Im confused, what is this???
Day 2 Statue of Liberty crown then Ellis island. Do u tour ellis at your own pace or do u recommend an official tour? See play tonight. Wicked?
How are you going to get here? The Manhatten Club Hotel is on 56th street in the middle of the island, the ferry to Liberty Island and Ellis Island is at Battery Park at the end of the island. Thats 55 blocks between the two, which will cost a fortune in a taxi and could take over 2 hours!
Have you looked at the website for Liberty Island
http://www.libertyellisfoundation.org/visiting-liberty-island You can do a self guided tour of the island with an audio guide, there is a muesum exhibition in the base of the statue and then you walk up stairs to the two observation platforms. The top observation platform in The Crown gets crowded, which is why they have limited acces and timed admission.
Ellis Island
http://www.libertyellisfoundation.org/about-the-ellis-island is a self guided walk through museum. There is soo much to see here. I brought my mom and aunt and we spent over 3 hours here
Day 3 tenement museum
Play - dd wants to see les mis. As I mentioned earlier I've seen many Broadway plays on nyc day trips. I never got wowed by them. Just not my thing
Again you are hung up on things on the ABD , when New York has soooo much more authentic real life attractions and places to see. SO whats your travel plans for this day, how are you going to get around, where will you eat????
If your daughter wants to see Les Mis, then book tickets ASAP. This would be the first thing I would do, then plan your trip around that
Day 4 - museum of natural history
9-11 museum
This to me is totally illogical and not workable. The Natural History Museum is up town, and 911 museum is at the far end of the island. How on earth are you going to get from one to the other and back to your hotel
Seriously, just suck it up. This trip is for your daughter, who may want to go to college there. If so she will have to use the subway. You want to give her experiences and show her the city but you are not really understanding how big it is, how far things are apart and the fact that you will need to use some form of public transport.
Sorry if this seems harsh but every poster who has replied to this thread , including people who live there have given you some brilliant advise. I have been to New York 4 times, we know the city, take our advice