chucking stuff is a good plan, the things dh is travelling in will certainly be chucked, too hot to wear out there in any case, I'm leaving a change of clothes (warm things) in our van at the airport hotel for him to wear on our drive home.
shampoo, toothpaste and so on I'll buy and use while we're there... his medication will be lighter on the return too as he'll have used two bottles of syrup.
I'm feeling so much better about this, I've got a few things ticked off my "to do" list and can now have a look at enjoying this trip, lol.
I only have two pairs of shoes, comfy (but weighty) boots which I'll wear over and a pair of light sandals. no high heels hgre, I trip up wearing them, lol, I'm not too ladylike!