first some generalizations...,
...yes tammy, we do not buy puppies @ any pet store. and yes, mr.
"grey", human dynamics are very telling if one has listening skills.
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well tammy? i don't know..but from our experiences, most dvc
members have friends that are owners? what's the old adage ?
"while in dvc do as disney sez"? .....why not have them get
you on the ship as a friend? does it matter being official invited?
...maybe i am wrong?...does any other timeshares have a member
cruise? nor have i seen any caps or merchandise when vacationing.
dvc is directly connected to wdw & the best parks in the world.
i don't know any other timeshare with such crossover draw. there
are hundreds of gifts we have received since being members.
of course, they stamp diseny all over them but none of them
been return since sharing them our community. in reality, we
get requests from family, friends, co-workers, & the families
we sponsering. if they say rci , i don't think there would be the same
reaction/s. we had some really special memories made last christmas.
not @ the parks, or blt....but @ the merry mixer. do the other timeshares
have special christmas parties? { my friends 2 work didn't know of any?]
i know , been reading how "poor" this past member cruise was. it was
our second. we thought this year lil'suitcase was more functioning
than last year. last year gym bag, i really liked & using. the pins we
collected are lil'tokens that we have been using to "mark" our trips
since 1992.
this year cruise....they gave a ton of gingerbread cookies out free.
is one worth it? in 2006 we first learn about ducky williams. him
alone, i think make a cruise very ,very special. there are 5 of
us, & we have been lucky to won 11 of his drawings....for the
kids' room. the thing that impressed me most, was his banker
years. in less than 10 years & vice president- tells of a quality
person with great people skills, but also trust.
basically, i am nothing special, no stardom , talents, or anything
worth noticing. i run an unit . but coworkers seek my input because
they also see my work. really, to do my job, being a nobody is a
positive....because all the merits are redirected back to the values
from what i call "human dynamics. dvc gives me the chance
encounters with those i would seldom be able. funny how things
can go. on the cruise, another person took my seat @ the table.
so i ended up with another family...that took me awhile to realized
it was mr. joey fartone singer. he was gracious to take pictures
with my wife/daughter. that gave me "brownie points"
my lots in life has not been easy, but more rewarding than i could
ever dream. we had a daughter after 10 years we decided no more.
without her, we would never done dvc. beyond normal genetics,
she has my mother red hair. the ariel kind. i was never a disney
fan..did not want to go & fight the crowds. bleak! that all changed
by not a cast member or any extra thing or knicker blocker. on the
lil'boats back to wl , i noticed this lil'girl, who kept tugging @ her
mother...insisting/begging for something. a toy? a doll? she must
have been around 3 or less years. finally the mother said excused
me, can our daughter sit besides your daughter..she believes
that she is the "real ariel". of course. our daughter was only 5,
and did not understand. but that's ok, because this lil'girl
was jsut thrilled, watching her with awe. what a wonderful
gift she gave us . i will never forget her.
we can go anytime and/or stay anywhere we desire. that is not
what we know to be anything special. all our trips are building
the dream we started ..from a time long ago. our first apartment
was not as big as our current living. no matter, we stayed
in cheap hotels, & skimped on anything we can except our
kids. those memories are just as important as the ones
we are making today. they have all their stuff, even that old
musket that i had to dragged all over the parks.
so when many get into ratings, i just don't think they are as
important as being there & the encounters. as for resales vs.
direct, i feel each family have the need to decide "what" their
dvc should be- in~deeds...for them to be happy. costs should
be by their budget not their egos. if it is below 50% per
resales then go direct or don't go @ all.