We stay here and love it. It does have the Disney feel, but is relaxing. I don't know if you have kids, but my kids love it. We are staying again in August.
The pool is really nice. It has a big slide in it. They also have an area for little kids that is a pirate ship with a slide. They also have tennis courts, basketball, volleyball and activity field. They have a nine-hole mini golf and a croquet lawn. They have an arcade and ping pong tables. They have an exercise room, a place for massages, and a sauna and whirlpool.
They have some restaurants in the main building. One is called Shutters and the other is Sonya's We never eat at Sonya's as it is a little more fancy. We did do a Character Breakfast on a Saturday at Shutters. There is a quick service by the pool called Bleachers. They also have The Green Cabin Room for drinks, specialty coffee, light lunch and appetizers. This has a great view of the ocean.
They have a store in the lobby for souviners and lots of other stuff like food. drinks, snacks...etc. You can rent DVDs here and also bicycle rentals are available.
They do have daily activities. I still have all my papers and info if you want more specifics on the daily activites. Last year my kids painted mugs. I think it was $5 per child. They also had a campfire at night. They sang silly songs, and we made Smores. My kids loved this. I have my Directory of Services too that has lots of info on it, if you have other questions.
The beach is really nice too. You can rent beach chairs, umbrellas, cabanas, Boogie Boards, WaveRunners, and other stuff. You can only get down to the beach/ocean by using your room key. So nobody can just use the beach unless they are staying at the resort. They use the same key card like at WDW.
When we were here last summer they had lots of spots along the beach where turtles were nesting. These spots were roped off and you weren't supposed to go by them. Some mornings they had an activity for kids called Turtle Troop.
We never drive to Disney from here, but on the info they give you at check in it says it is a short 2 hour drive along with directions.
Anyway..... if you have other questions, I would be glad to help.