There is an abundance of activities for families with young children to do. Kids in the 3-10 set have alot of scheduled activites to choose from, some with a fee some not. They have various arts and crafts, scavenger hunts, bingo, snorkeling classes (in the pool), all types of sports activites. There is also a 9 hole mini golf course themed around Peter Pan. For rainy days, we grade a few movies free to members and hang out in our villa.
We have been enjoying VB since our boys were 9 and 6. We have been going every summer during the summer months since. On our trip this summer they will be 16 and 14. We live in Ga so we drive so I can't help you with the airport question. Alot of people seem to fly into Orlando, its only about an 1.5 hr drive to VB. I believe there may be 2 other options annd I am sure someone will post them.