Venting For MYSELF.

[Sparx]

Gahh, thanks so much for making my night any better. I know I did something wrong. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. Thank you.

oh, so you just wanted to see:

and to hear:
'i know how you feel'

sorry to disappoint.

but i stand by everything else ive said.

 

[Columba]

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[Zip-A-Dee-Lady]

Wow.

ETA: You lied to people online. How do we know that you are not lying to us too?

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

Wait. You're a girl who has been cyber dating another girl for 2 years..
And your cyber girlfriend thinks your a dude?!

 

[valeriesunshine]

Im sorry but, why didnt you stop before it got this bad? You could have stopped to think and tell this person the truth. Why wait for 2 years?

 

[diva122094]

One more hug

 

[VMK_MagicalLadee]

Shelby wasn't being rude at all.

And uhm.. I dont think going to a church should change who you are. If you feel like you're a guy inside, then whats wrong with that? I don't think other people should tell you how to live your life.

 

[ktbutterfly2011]

I agree with Shelby.

 

[shellybellypolo]

I'm not 100% agreeing with Shelby, only because she feels bad enough about the situation.
Sure, what Shelby said was true.
But if she's taking the time to vent this outta her system, and possibly breaking down crying at the computer because of this situation, it wouldn't help much to tell her how bad she is for making this mistake.

If you need to talk, my PM box is open.

FYI, I have a few lies myself. Everyone does. It's pretty human to need to hide certain things.

 

[ginnygirl102]

OMG be a little more sensitive!! This girl had the coureage to open up so you just don't say anything because she knows what she did was very wrong and she doesn't need you to tell her that so don't!

And the rest of you people!! At least she told us so just help her and build her up not tear her down further!!! She KNOWS ok she KNOWS it was wrong so you all don't have to tell her.

And Sparx you are not helping so just GET OFF THE THREAD!! You are just saying how she did something wrong and that's not going to help because she KNOWS!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[MuskratSusie]

OMG be a little more sensitive!! This girl had the coureage to open up so you just don't say anything because she knows what she did was very wrong and she doesn't need you to tell her that so don't!

And the rest of you people!! At least she told us so just help her and build her up not tear her down further!!! She KNOWS ok she KNOWS it was wrong so you all don't have to tell her.

And Sparx you are not helping so just GET OFF THE THREAD!! You are just saying how she did something wrong and that's not going to help because she KNOWS!!!!!!!!!!!

THANK YOU. Thank you for saying all that. I do KNOW what I did wrong. I KNOW. It took courage to say all that, and to tell you guys about this. I had no other person to tell, so I told you guys about it. I had to vent about it, so I did.

 

[ginnygirl102]

THANK YOU. Thank you for saying all that. I do KNOW what I did wrong. I KNOW. It took courage to say all that, and to tell you guys about this. I had no other person to tell, so I told you guys about it. I had to vent about it, so I did.

I'm proud of you for telling all of us and I want to tell you that I believe that you are not lying to us. I have secrets I haven't told anybody that I've kept for years!! I just can't vent them. So I can't say I know how you feel because I don't but.....

 

[Sparx]

OMG be a little more sensitive!! This girl had the coureage to open up so you just don't say anything because she knows what she did was very wrong and she doesn't need you to tell her that so don't!

And the rest of you people!! At least she told us so just help her and build her up not tear her down further!!! She KNOWS ok she KNOWS it was wrong so you all don't have to tell her.

And Sparx you are not helping so just GET OFF THE THREAD!! You are just saying how she did something wrong and that's not going to help because she KNOWS!!!!!!!!!!!

you cant tell anyone to get off a thread.

and im really the only one in this thread accused of being rude?

nice.

 

[MuskratSusie]

you cant tell anyone to get off a thread.

and im really the only one in this thread accused of being rude?

nice.

Well, your the one who started being rude. So stop.

 

[Sparx]

Well, your the one who started being rude. So stop.

ive not been rude, and im not going to sit here and argue with you over if ive been rude or not.

either deal with this problem or not. personally, its your life, i dont care if you lie all day long about being a guy. the only part that has really bothered me is that youre faking the relationships.

and all the huggy goodvibes emoticons in the world arent going to make you feel better about this, so i dont know why youre just wanting people who are going to post those to reply. you had to honestly expect that in coming here saying "i messed up" someone was going to say 'yeah, you messed up.' and not say ' oh honey its okay i know how you feel.' cause how does that help at all?

 

[Babyjustrun]

Look.
You should be spending less time online. You may not agree, but if you're going around dating random people you don't know, and you're lying to them... over and over toying with them...
You shouldn't be doing that. I know you know you did something wrong. Either just stop going on that site and talking to them, or say 'Sorry it's not working out' and cut contact with taht person.
That's the glorious thing about the internet, you aren't forced to talk to those people. At any point you can just close the window, they won't know what happened at all, and they'll move on.
So go stop this before it gets anymore out of hand. You lied several times, it's likely you'll do it again.

 

[lpe_bratz]

Look.
You should be spending less time online. You may not agree, but if you're going around dating random people you don't know, and you're lying to them... over and over toying with them...
You shouldn't be doing that. I know you know you did something wrong. Either just stop going on that site and talking to them, or say 'Sorry it's not working out' and cut contact with taht person.
That's the glorious thing about the internet, you aren't forced to talk to those people. At any point you can just close the window, they won't know what happened at all, and they'll move on.
So go stop this before it gets anymore out of hand. You lied several times, it's likely you'll do it again.

ITA.

 

[life of the party]

STOP attacking shelby , you cannot tell her to get off of a thread .

You POSTED A THREAD , do you know what that IS?
Its not a pity party .

When you post a thread you are opening the door to many different opinions and if you dont like some of them then suck it up cause you cant do anything about it because shes doing NOTHING wrong .

Anyway shelby is right, a little time off of the computer would be a good idea .

Sort your ideas , think about it .

Im not saying dont go on the computer, just less time .

You need to end the relationship with this girl , you cannot toy with her emotions any longer . What you are doing is WRONG and CRUEL to her , its not fair to her .

I dont care if im making you "more upset about the subject" im saying what i feel about the subject that you posted a thread on.

 

[Zip-A-Dee-Lady]

Look.
You should be spending less time online. You may not agree, but if you're going around dating random people you don't know, and you're lying to them... over and over toying with them...
You shouldn't be doing that. I know you know you did something wrong. Either just stop going on that site and talking to them, or say 'Sorry it's not working out' and cut contact with taht person.
That's the glorious thing about the internet, you aren't forced to talk to those people. At any point you can just close the window, they won't know what happened at all, and they'll move on.
So go stop this before it gets anymore out of hand. You lied several times, it's likely you'll do it again.

QFE.

 

[valeriesunshine]

Look.
You should be spending less time online. You may not agree, but if you're going around dating random people you don't know, and you're lying to them... over and over toying with them...
You shouldn't be doing that. I know you know you did something wrong. Either just stop going on that site and talking to them, or say 'Sorry it's not working out' and cut contact with taht person.
That's the glorious thing about the internet, you aren't forced to talk to those people. At any point you can just close the window, they won't know what happened at all, and they'll move on.
So go stop this before it gets anymore out of hand. You lied several times, it's likely you'll do it again.

ITA