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[kellyg403]

Why do nice guys always finish last? Why is it everytime I think I am approaching something in the right way, a calm reasonable way I find out I am the person who is insane?

I take back all the nice things I have ever ever said about my ex. He is still the same "too busy" jerk he always was..he just got better at hiding it. All I ask is for ONCE I don't take the "better person" high road and teach this man a lesson about who I have become in the last 10 years. %$%^^^#@@! and thats all I have to say about that you idiot.

Save me.
Kelly

 

[NMAmy]

Bless your heart, I feel your pain. It's hard sometimes to take the high road, though, isn't it?

My mother always says that you'll always feel better about yourself later if you do the right thing now no matter what the other person is doing. I hate it when she's right.

 

[Mickeyistheman]

Trust me I totally understand how you are feeling right now.

You are in a good place and want to hold your head high and along comes dopey right....

I know its easier said than done but you can still be the bigger person and get your point across. Write down what you would like to say to him or what have you and write it a couple of times, after you read it you might just realize that he is not worth it and you ARE the better person!

Good Luck!

 

[denisenh]

Why do nice guys always finish last? Why is it everytime I think I am approaching something in the right way, a calm reasonable way I find out I am the person who is insane?

I take back all the nice things I have ever ever said about my ex. He is still the same "too busy" jerk he always was..he just got better at hiding it. All I ask is for ONCE I don't take the "better person" high road and teach this man a lesson about who I have become in the last 10 years. %$%^^^#@@! and thats all I have to say about that you idiot.

Save me.
Kelly

 

[JB111107]

lol believe me I feel you...been there got the t-shirt.

When my ex and I split we firmly stated that no matter what, the kids would NOT be put in the middle of things...then he hired a lawyer who brings new meaning to the word snake...and no matter how many times I thought the man could stoop no lower, he never failed to amaze me with the new things he thought up.

3 years later my faith in decent men has been restored thanks to my DH, and he found another slave...er...wife who is in for a very rude awakening as time goes by. She's already called me complaining about this or that every now and then and all I can tell her is "Hey, there's a reason I divorced him. You married him-he's YOUR problem now "

 

[kellyg403]

Thanks...I just needed someone, anyone to say I wasn't crazy! Because I sure was feeling like one big ole CRAZY person.

He just drives me crazy sometimes because he can be soo soo soo..dumb and selfish. Selfish to the bitter core. Thank God my dh is a man of reason and tells me I am o.k., just to nice and ex KNOWS it. He says karma for someone who takes advantage of nice people is usually one big [edited] . I think I know her name, and I think she is one high maitenance woman. She has ex running in circles with her demands and needs. Funny thing is..I like her. I like that she gives him what he deserves.

Kelly

 

[MouseJunkie]

Trust me...I know EXACTLY how you feel! My ex twice removed (ding ding idiot card approaching!) just informed me yesterday that he is getting back with his ex who he was supposed to be finished with when he decided he wanted to get with me. Of course, he was wonderful and everything I ever wanted for a short while. That is until she re-entered the picture and I suddenly found myself in competition with her. I saw it all coming, but I ignored all the little red flags...why because apparently I'm an idiot too! He pulled the space card, which I knew meant trouble. So, needless to say I had a hard time giving that space. Anyway, long story...and I don't want to hijack your post. Let's just say he messed up, I messed up and we're even.

He emailed me yesterday after I emailed him and said I'd still like to try to maintain a friendship, if possible. He responded with, I'm back with the ex and I know where I belong now. His email made me want to smack him in the chops and if I could do that through a computer, I would have.

It took everything I had not to say what I really wanted to say. Instead I said well I guess it doesn't matter who's right and who's wrong anymore. I'll just say may we both figure out what makes us happy.

They want you to get mad and believe that was my ex's intentions, but I didn't give him the satisfaction. And trust me...I'd love too!

Afterall, he and Kenny Chesney (Better as a Memory than as your man) made me cry yesterday. It wasn't pretty!

I came home and got on Match for 3 hours and surprisingly I feel better today. Maybe it's because I realize we didn't really belong together once I was able to step back and look at the big picture.

So hang in there and take the high road and exit with class!

Sorry, I really didn't mean to hijack your thread...