Tattoo?
Anyone have one...? and NOT regret it? My son who will be 17 in June wants one. My husband is thinking of getting one himself, so he figures it would be a father/son thing. I'm not BIG on it..but not totally opposed to it either. My biggest objection in the past when one of them(the kids) wanted a tattoo has been that they will regret it when they are older. Chances are they will regret the choice they made at 17 or 18 when they're 40. Timmy got around that by telling me he wants a cross on his arm. He figures he is a Christian, and that's not something he's ever going to change. (Smart kid..using his faith to knock out my veto) My older son(now 27) ...thinks we're crazy for even considering it. When he used to ask us if he could get one..I'd tell him not as long as there is breath in my body!...Naturally he did what every 19 year old kid told that would do..he went out and pierced his tounge!
It didn't last long..as it got infected and had to be taken out(thank the Lord!)...it also didn't help that I had tears in my eyes everytime he walked into a room. Well, we look back on that now and laugh..(well, he does..me..not so much
) My husband and I figure Timmy's the youngest..we've been down this road a few times now..and know we have to pick the battles. He's a good kid..we haven't had any problems with him(I know..it's early still) but he's active in sports, plays for his high school lacrosse team..is well liked by his peers, and highly regarded by his teachers. A cross on his arm..well, it's not so terrible..so we're leaning toward "okay-ing" it. Anyone else with kids this age have to deal with this..and how did you handle it? Anyone get a tattoo when they were younger and regret it later..or are you still happy with your decision?
So has Gatordad called it quits its ashame if he has.
ya gotta choose your battles wisely....some things aint worth the trouble...somethings are.
I have to ask why was the thread locked that Gatordad said goodbye? Does anyone know?
I feel the same way...just as a woman..I think it might be different. I'm not sure men feel the same way about them. I would like for my son to wait at least another year or so..although a cross probably isn't a horrible tattoo to have..if he's gonna get one.
I know someone who has one on her hand(it's actually very small)..and she did it when she was young also. HATES it. I was looking at photos of her at her sister's wedding recently, and in every photo she's holding one hand over the other so as not to have it show. WHY she would put it in such an obvious place is beyond me, but she was young and dumb..and that's what happened. Only it still is with her.
I pm'd Rhonda yesterday and told her she was doing a great job, I didn't do that to suck up, it's the truth. I have been on other boards where it seems like every post past the third is just a flame trying to start a fight. Thats not what I come here to see. I love this thread,(chit chat) its fun and you never know where its going, one day truck stories, the next day we are all watching an old movie together and making fun of the funny looking robot (that was fun). On other threads, we usuall, USUALLY wait until the OP's question is answered until we start goofing around. We probably should try to keep that to a minimum.
I agree with Chris there has been a huge increase in people and posts, which is great, more fort fun, and those of us that are here alot, and have been around need to be a little more aware of what we are doing.
Ok off my soapbox, back to the normal revelrie, with a hint of moderation, HEY thats where they got the term "moderator", never put that together.
Now everyone give gatordad a big group hug, and lets get back to the fun, and if someone creeps us out, lets just do what my grandma used to tell me to do, turn the other cheek!, and just ignore them. If we don't play with them, they will get bored and go away.
Thanks
On other threads, we usuall, USUALLY wait until the OP's question is answered until we start goofing around. We probably should try to keep that to a minimum.