September 10th, London day 3
Plans for this day: DS1 and DS1S were going to a matinee of Phantom of the Opera. This was to celebrate their anniversary, and had been purchased almost 6 months before the trip. DM, DA, and I were originally going to do Westminster Abbey and Kensington Palace, but pared it down to just Kensington Palace (plus the Lady Diana memorial). DS2s family was planning on the free museums (natural history and British museum) during the day, then I was joining them for an evening performance of “Come Alive” - a tribute to the Greatest Showman.
DS1 decided that they didn’t want to be responsible for the apartment keys, so when they woke up, they went to M&S across the street and got food for the day. They also pre-booked a Bolt to take them to and from the theater.
The rest of us planned to pick up the hop on bus at the stop by the apartment in order to get over to the tourist area. In addition to the museums, DS2s family wanted to start by Big Ben and Parliament to cover some of DGD’s history content. DM, DA, and I planned to hop off at the corner of Hyde Park, then walk through the park to the Lady Diana monument.
Transportation woes struck again. Our stop was about ½ a mile down the road from Paddington Station, where there were numerous hotels. So the first two busses to come skipped our stop because they were already full. So I decided to just walk directly to Kensington Gardens, which was only about ½ mile farther than our original route. DS2’s family stuck it out, and picked up the 3rd bus. However, it stopped partway through it’s route and they ended up with a pretty substantial walk as well (I’ll come back to their day).
This was actually one of the easier walks of the trip. The sidewalks were pretty smooth, and even in the park we had wheelchair ramps. A few pictures below of things we saw, which included the Peter Pan statue. Unfortunately, the Lady Diana memorial was under renovation, so the picture is just the poster.


After not seeing the fountain, we did a little backtrack to get to Kensington Palace. This is where the rain started coming down pretty hard, and the pathways turned back to cobblestone. We were quite a sight. DM had a fairly big umbrella over herself, DA and I were both wearing rain slickers, and I could barely see the pathway. But we made it to the palace, went inside and dried off before a very thorough tour. I think I mentioned this was the most accessible place we visited. Literally everything could be reached in a wheelchair, and the staff were extremely helpful. We did have to go through some normally closed passageways. Halfway through, we took a break to have tea and a light lunch in their tea room. Access to this location (which as also where the exit was) was really cool. It was a couple of steps down from the gift shop, and on the floor by the cash register was a square in the tile. I rolled mom onto that square, and the staff pushed the magic button, which folded the steps back, raised the edge, and lowered the floor down to the lower level! Super cool. Of course, this was one of those places where people just couldn’t seem to understand that with the wheelchair access being used, they couldn’t just walk right through. One of the staff members ended up standing in the way, and waving people over to the other pathway.


We ended up spending probably 3 ½ hours in the palace, and as we finished, I texted DDIL to see where they were. Unfortunately, DGS had basically had a major melt down. After the bus re-routing, they walked from Big Ben over to the Natural History Museum, where DGS spent the next 2 hours in a full scale autistic fit.
Just in case you ever see this, I would ask for you to have a little grace. As background, DGS has come a LONG way in his therapy and treatment, but his little brain just doesn’t work like everyone elses. He was completely non-verbal until he was about 3 ½. We knew he understood things, but he could NOT communicate. Imagine going through the terrible 2s without being able to tell people anything. At that point in time, he would throw full scale fits, screaming and banging his head on hard surfaces. Thankfully, they finally found a good therapy regimen, and discovered that he was super intelligent. He had actually taught himself to read before he could talk. He’s still in catch up mode, and probably communicates at about a 4 year old level. Well today was apparently just the final straw, and he wasn’t going to move. I could tell DDIL was also at the end of her rope. In addition to the museums, they had booked the Jurassic Afternoon tea (link below) as a surprise for the kids. But DDIL said that she was just going to send DS2 and DGD. Instead, I told her I’d come and see if I could get DGS to come back with us, and we’d make a call on going to the theater later that evening.
https://ampersandhotel.com/eat-drink/apero/jurassic-afternoon-tea/
So DM, DA, and I headed back into the rain, the rest of the way across Kensington Gardens to find the Natural History Museum. By this time, the family had made it up to the entrance, with DGS just sitting on the floor. I came in, put him on my lap, sent the rest of the family back to the museum – and eventually onto the tea, and after about 5 minutes, I said “so do you want to go find GiGi and Auntie and go back to the apartment?” He said “yes”, took my hand and walked out. We went to the hop on bus stop, saw a huge swarm of people waiting, and just grabbed a cab, made it back to the apartment where I packed and everyone else took a rest. DS1 and DS1S came back from their show and said it was absolutely awesome. We all grabbed a light dinner from the leftovers in the apartment, and I asked DGS if he wanted to go to the Circus show. He said yes, so we headed back out to the bus.
This was going to be another 2 bus transit, and the first one went fine. But at the transfer point, it started raining again. Luckily we were under the shelter, but we waited there about 45 minutes. Two of the scheduled busses never showed up, then one came but was completely packed and didn’t stop. I talked to a couple of locals about options to get to our destination, and they suggested that we walk over past Hyde Park Corner to see if we could get past the worst of the traffic, and then try a Bolt or Uber.
As DGS and I walked that way we passed a super fancy hotel, which had a line of cabs dropping off. I grabbed one, and it was worth the 75 pounds just to be moving in the right direction! Meanwhile, DS2, DDIL, and DGD had finished tea and took a cab from there directly to the theater after I told them NOT to try to come back to the apartment. We all joined up at the theater for Come Alive, about 30 minutes before the show started.
https://comealiveshow.com/
This was hands down the best thing we did in London. It was very interactive, with the audience encouraged to sing along with the cast, stomp their feet, clap their hands, etc. And even though there was a story line, you didn’t have to follow it to enjoy the show. Before the show started they had roving performances. Apparently just before DGS and I got there, DGD was picked to help one of the performers, and she couldn’t stop talking about how cool it was.
I had pre-booked a Bolt for our return, and we literally walked out at the end of the show (with a quick potty break), and into the car. Our return took about 25 minutes (compared to the 2+ hours DGS and I spent getting there), and we were all tucked in to bed by 11.
DS1, DS1S, and DA were taking a car to Heathrow at 5:45am the next day, for their flights, with a 2nd car scheduled to pick the rest of us up at 9:15 for our 1:00pm flight. I had messaged our driver twice during the day with instructions about where to pick us up, but hadn’t heard anything back.
Up next, that address thing strikes again!