OP here. I would try to fool you all by saying I've been too busy to post due to a busy weekend of sporting events, but the sleuths here have figured it out. I was really busy strategizing ways to garner sympathy, figuring out how to get the gullible masses to cancel their WDW vacations, plotting how to bring WDW down, being massively ungrateful that I am able to afford a nice vacation and being thankless that my DH has employment. All that keeps a girl busy.
Really, I don't know where people get all that. I now realize "Universal" may just be the answer.
Read the first post and you'll see none of that. Yes, we've had a hard year full of uncertainty, but I didn't mention that to get anyone's sympathy. I did it to explain why we cannot handle MORE uncertainty, especially when limited vacation dollars are at risk.
As to why someone would come to this board and want to read my post.......Maybe they are in the same boat as I am and want some reassurance that canceling is a valid choice. I don't hate all things Disney or I wouldn't be considering a trip to
Disneyland. Again, I don't feel anger over canceling. I am relieved. Just plain old relieved. I have taken one stressor out of the equation and that has been good for us.
We'll save our vacation money and wait until summer, or maybe even spring break. We'll research and figure out what is the best fit and book a new trip. WDW will do just fine without us and this year at least, we'll do fine without them. Canceling or postponing a trip due to uncertainty with FP+ is a valid choice for some people, depending on what they want/need from a vacation. To all those still going, I hope they have a great, glitchless vacation. No need or desire to wish them anything else.