I posted an update on another thread that Jim started, but thought I should put something here too. Only, I don't really have much to update. The fever has stayed away. We thought the cough was gone, but came back very nasty. He is not gaining any weight. And, we are feeling sort of down about it right now. It's just very hard to see visually. It's breaking our hearts. Because he is so thin right now, it has become uncomfortable for him if we hold him too much. Normally Nate might get crabby at someone if they hold him too long. He will let you know in his way that he wants you to put him down. But this never happens with his Daddy. Daddy can hold Nate for hours and to be truthful, I think that is how Nate sleeps the best. Well, as you can imagine, it was hard for Eric when Nate even fussed at him because he it hurt too much to be messed with. We are just trying to adjust to this "phase" of the illness.
JoanB-- From the directness of your post, it is easy to see you felt compelled to say what you did. I am honored that Nate stirred such passion in you.
Gometros--Thank you for pointing out that words, no matter how innocent, can be hurtful. You are very right in saying this board is not the place to preach religous beliefs. I for one will try to be more sesitive to others. A good Christian would never want to offend someone. Thank you for finding a loving way to point it out.
EVERY one on this board has been kind, supportive and encouraging to my family. There is nothing but a wonderful group of people here, no matter what religous background!