Unruly kids/Unattentive Parents

chucknrita

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I've been reading horror stories about unattended, unruly kids at the pools and the "poop" issue with parents letting their kids in swim diapers go into the pools when they're not supposed to. I know I'd be very upset and might even have to confront some of these parents who obviously don't care about how this affects others on their vacations. How did some of you handle this on your cruises?

P.S. Before you flame me, I have a 3-yr-old so I do know about having young ones that can't participate in certain activities!
 
You know, I have been very fortunate to not ever be around when this has happened on any of our past cruises. However, if a situation did arise, rather than trying to resolve it myself, or get to worked up about it, I would probably bring it to the attention of the CM and let them get the problem at hand resolved.
 
I honestly think there are many people who simply didn't know about the swim diaper/pool issue. Also, it is very difficult to determine by appearances who is potty trained and who is not--- I have two little girls around the age of two, both of whom are potty trained. They're also little--- and as it turns out the cute little matching swimsuits we got for them had swim diapers built into them (the non-disposable kind). So, I wasn't going to go buy different suits so they didn't have swim diapers since they weren't being used as swim diapers.

The other important thing to remember is that there ARE accidents. My own DD was the victim of such an accident at the Oceaneer's Club. She was in the 3-4 age group (she is 4 1/2) and I went to pick her up one evening. Something smelled really bad in the dress up room and I found it pretty troubling. DD and I went out of the noisy area to talk for a minute (she was trying to convince me to stay) and then said there was something squishy on her foort. It was POOP! Not hers, mind you, but someone else's. It was really disgusting and took a long time to clean her up, not to mention the general gross out and concern factor. The point is, you have to be potty trained to go to the Clubs, so I assume this child was--- especially since he was sent in regular underwear, etc. But clearly, accidents were had!!! And he must have been embarrassed or something because no one could figure out who had done it. When I went to inform the cast member (very cheerfully mind you) that it looked like there might be an issue, he decided the only way to find the "culprit" was to sniff each bottom in the room. This is how they found out who had done it. The CM said that as gross as my DDs poopy feet were (and I want to point out again that I did not get angry, grumpy, etc. just got right to getting her clean) that this definately wasn't the worst they've seen of things.

I think that whenever you have a pool for young children up to about the age of 7 or so, you are bound to have some accidents. Especially on a ship where the diet and routine are different, the pool is rocking to and fro, etc. there are going to be otherwise accident free people who are going to have accidents. I would guess it is the older kids who caused the pool to be drained. We visited the pools 3 times--- once with our older kids, once with our younger kids, and once with all four--- and even though I saw infants and toddlers in the pool I didn't see them beyond the ears. The Mickey face was usually so wild with some really "energetic" 5-8 year old that I know definately didn't think it looked safe for our kids, even my 4 year old. (My almost 8 year old is terrified of water, so he wouldn't venture beyond the Mickey Ears himself).

Anyway, I guess my point is that it isn't always going to be an infant or toddler that causes the pool to drain. I think most people who weren't DISers probably didn't even KNOW about the swim diaper rule. And, there are some young kids who ARE potty trained and an outsider wouldn't necessarily be able to guess who they are based on their size--- or type of swimsuite they wear. The point being that many swimsuits for young kids have swim diapers built in (is that because the average age of potty training in the US has increased to almost age 5?)
 
When we cruised last year, we had parents sit at the adult pool and had kids visit them on a regular basis. When one of the people sitting next to us brought it to a CM's attention, he confronted the parents about this and they became very difficult about this. I just wish people would adhere to the rules because they are not the only people on the cruise.
 

I would discuss with your child (if he/she is old enough) what to expect from a cruise ship pool. What I mean is, there will be many children at peak times. They will be very active. This will not be the same pool experience that they will get in their neighborhood or local pool. This will help alleviate any disappointment your child may have if it is too hectic or rough. I say this only to prepare you if your childs expectations are not met by their pool experience. Our child was quite upset by the overactivity and getting hit,pushed, jumped on etc etc. I don't think the kids were mean, just overexcited. Hey, they are on a Disney Cruise!!

Also, try swimming during the off times. I found the pools were very accomodating in the evenings. Much more quite and enjoyable. I am sure early morning would be as well.

Best case: Your cruise will have different children and parents and you may find that the pools are not a zoo.

This advice may not work for really POOL people, but I found it safer for our child.

kackie
 
I love telling stories so let me share one with you. This happened June '01 on the Magic Eastern cruise. After a long grueling afternoon at Quiet Cove and after quite a few strawberry daqs I headed for Scoops for a pre-dinner icecream with sprinkles. Sure enough, as I passed the Mickey pool I noticed it was empty, drained and two CMs were hosing it down and sweeping all the little braid beads from the bottom. They were wearing these yellow jumpsuits and I couldn't help but recall that famous seen in Caddyshack. A man was seated with his feet up on the side of the pool watching and smoking a big Cuban. I turned to him and asked, "What happened? Some little kid s--t in the pool?" A nearby CM heard this and said in an English accent, "Well, that's not a very Disney way of putting it." I apologised telling her I was a surgeon and we have a certain rough, often unsophisticated, way of putting things. I continued my journey to Scoops and saw all the little kids and their moms frustrated at being kept out of the pool during a hot afternoon at sea while decontamination takes place.

My point is this. Because of somebody's lack of concern, inattentiveness or failure to abide by common sense the afternoon was ruined for a lot of people and I was once again forced by circumstance to make a fool out of myself. Please, parents, pay attention and be considerate. The afternoon you save may be your own.

Wes (Debbie DVC dh)
 

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