Here in NJ, maximum is $600/week + $25/wk extra that they send for some government program. DH is on his second layoff in a year. Was working for a company, laid off end of April 2009. Nothing for months. Did some consulting work (that only paid expenses but at least his car payment was covered), then the guy decided it was too expensive so wanted him to go commission only. We stopped collecting, since he would be earning something, but the one month he did it, the guy never paid him what he was owed. March 1 he got a job for another vendor in the same field for a decent salary. We thought all was good, but end of May he's laid off again. I don't know how the employer ever thought he could afford dh in March if they were so seriously in trouble.
His salary was decent (maybe not in NJ where it's incredibly expensive, but in most of the country) so he was able to open a temporary 11 week claim. That's almost up, so they will revert back to the original claim and the remaining weeks (I think he collected for something like 32 weeks on that). Here in NJ, we're at 99 weeks paid.
He spends all morning on job sites, sending out resumes, seeking employment. He had 3 phone interviews with the same company, so we're hoping that he'll be asked to come for an in person one soon. Many of the opportunities are for things like insurance sales, where you have to front start up funds and it's completely commission based. Sorry, but that $600 is helping pay for part of the mortgage, or some other bills. I don't have the money to front some insurance shtick that may never produce cash.
DH is in sales. That's all he's ever done. Does not have any other skills (like computers, mechanics, etc.). Unfortunately, retail sales pay minimum wage, and after taxes, we'd be further in the hole if he took something like that (it sounds awful but it's true). With a house, 2 kids, 2 cars, mortgage, bills, etc. we simply cannot survive with him on minimum wage, and spending money on gas to get there.
So we keep hoping for something. This is the 4th time he's been laid off in our 14 years of marriage, and each time it gets harder and harder for me. I have a pretty secure job, but our firm didn't give us a raise for 2 years, no bonuses, cut backs, layoffs. Everyone had to really step up and take on more. They know dh isn't working so they know exactly where they have me. And that's okay. I like my job and need it (I carry all the benefits) so I work and do whatever I need to do. I also started a second part time career as a
travel agent. Work nights and weekends, and have been lucky that business has picked up and I can fund a vacation for the first time in 1.5 years. Not enough money to change our situation, but we can relax and have a bit of fun.
We stopped a lot of discretionary spending...eating out, fast food, activities. Cook at home pretty much every night, brown bag lunch, no junk food, much less processed stuff. Kids will take lunch every day to school when it starts. So I can manage. Now, dh's car payment is another story and if something doesn't come through soon, we might have to think about selling it and finding something less expensive. I know dh, and I think that will probably be the straw that breaks his back. But you know what, I can't worry about that.
I need to think of my children and their health and well being. I can't worry if I upset a grown man because his car payment is too high. So I just keep moving forward (a la Walt Disney) and hope for the best.
Believe me, I'd rather he was working than taking government money, but given the amount and the cost of living here in NJ, we simply cannot afford to take a minimum wage job and hope he moves up.