Undecided.

[AwesomeAsha]

Is it wrong to make your boyfriend/girlfriend choose between you and one of his/her friends?

I need help.

 

[I'm a Divaaaaa]

Yes. Friends always, no matter what, especially at that age.

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

Yes.

 

[chisnpeke]

If it's just a friend, then yes it is wrong. However, if the friend is saying mean things about you then I would tell my boyfriend or girlfriend that they need to talk to them about it. If they didn't I would call it off.

 

[TinkerTracy]

Yes, you should never make someone chose. How would you feel if someone asked you to make a choice like that?

 

[diva122094]

Yes.

 

[Cinderelli16]

Yes, I think so because it is not fair to make someone choose between a friend, or a boyfriend/girlfriend, I just don't think it's right.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Yes. Me and my ex broke up because of our friends. We thought that friends were more important than each other so we decided to just be friends. I have a saying, "Hoes before bros." and I personally think everyone should follow it. Boys come and go but friends last forever. And vise versa with guys...."Bros before hoes." and girls come and go but friends last forever. But that's just me. =)

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

"Hoes before bros."

I always thought of it as chicks before *rhyming male anatomy.*

 

[Tinkerbell424]

I always thought of it as chicks before *rhyming male anatomy.*

Yes I do think it's wrong, OP.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

I always thought of it as chicks before *rhyming male anatomy.*

Haha that works too! =p

 

[AwesomeAsha]

I always thought of it as chicks before *rhyming male anatomy.*

Hahaha. never heard that one before.

I had thought the same thing, that it was wrong, but I just needed to be reassured. So, thanks guys.

 

[Sparx]

yes it is.

you probably wont always be his girlfriend, but that friend could always be his friend.

its high school. friends are more lasting.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

To me it is. I would never make my boyfriend choose between me and one of his friends, all of his friends like me anyways and we usually all hang out together and they seem to not really care. But he has broke plans with them to do something with me, and he's also broke plans with me to do something with them. My friends are precious, and I would never put him before any of them. IMO.

 

[LemonFruitChew13]

yes, it is wrong to make your bf/gf chose something like that.

if you have a problem with their friend i would say that you should tell your bf/gf but don't make them chose, i'm not sure what your problem is but i had a problem with one of my ex boyfriends friends (i HATED the girl with a passion) and he wound up dumping me for her. i told him i before i didn't really like her but i wasn't going to make him chose, i just asked him to ask her to stop throwing herself at him but my ex doesn't stand up for me or himself so he didn't and she kept throwing herself at him and then he finally decided he liked her, not sure why because she's a horrible person IMO and in many others as well, but he did.

sorry if i just vented about it i'm still really mad about it all and i know i never post on here even though i'm on everyday

 

[Lizbon]

Yes. Defiantly. I always tell myself that friends come first.

I have a few friends, and long story short they are the type of people that when they are in a relationship, they are always all about the guy. And they are all always like "well he's more important" or "he's going to be with me forever, but you might not be". (Yes, people have actually said that to me, or other friends of mine.) I think its completly ridiculous, especially in high school. So lets say they do wind up getting married years from now, does that mean you should lose a friend in the process?

This is a topic I could go on forever talking about so I'm gonna stop before I go insane.

 

[daddysgirl12]

yea it is wrong i did that one time i made my friend choose between me and her boyfriend and i lost a friend over it so it is deffinently wrong.

 

[AwesomeAsha]

-removed it all-