It is better to show a unified front to your children, especially at a time like this (and we wonder why so many of our kids need therapy...). I would do what others have suggested: add up your losses, find out the last possible date to cancel, and then talk to your husband. If WDW isn't in the cards right now, do something else closer to home and talk to your husband about when you all will feel comfortable doing the big trip. I don't think it is fair to you, your husband, or your children to leave daddy at home worrying about all of you. Going to WDW should be fun for EVERYONE in your family - after all, it's a FAMILY VACATION
Best of luck,
Amy

Best of luck,
Amy