Is she on a pump and CGM? My DH was diagnosed at age 6 back in the early 80's so he dealt with the shots and finger pricks for so long. He went on the Omni Pod 5 years ago and while it does have some draw backs, I can say it was life altering for him. He resisted the CGM for a long time but finally did that about 6 months ago. With a child, I would absolutely get one if at all possible. It is so nice to see the trends and to get an instant reading, especially as the second party.
Ironically, I grew up with a Type 1 Diabetic brother diagnosed at age 5 so I have been dealing with this stuff for 25 years now. I can say though that common sense goes a LONG way when dealing with this disease, but both my DH and my brother have lead basically full, active, and normal lives even with their diagnosis. We have a close friend who also has type 1 and she lets the disease define her.....my DH and brother have never let it define them or stop them....except for some of the inconvenience and extra doctors appointments they don't let diabetes control their lives. But I also think getting diagnosed so young and never really knowing anything different might play a part in that too.