TTC thread take 2

[cherbear]

D&DDisney - so sorry. I so get it.

I had my day 12 ultrasound this morning. No mature folicles, but they think I may have already ovulated. I am so bummed.

ugh!!!!

I'm so ready to hear some good news ladies. We WILL conquer this!

 

[D&DDisney]

I had my day 12 ultrasound this morning. No mature folicles, but they think I may have already ovulated. I am so bummed.

That just stinks!!!!! Darn it!!!!

What dose of Clomid do they have you on?

 

[Kennywife]

Back from my ultrasound.

One of the fibroids, my tech said she couldn't see anymore. Looked like a mass of nothing. The other one is the shape of a lime and is pressing on my colon which is why I keep having colon probs!!!!

So....when this ugly little booger is gone....maybe I won't have IBS so bad.

Gabbie

 

[MommaSnowwhite]

Gabbie - that is great!

 

[tinytreasures]

MommaSnowwhite I am so sorry
cherbear I get it boy do I get it. I am so angry that my kids bio's get pg at the drop of a hat and then do drugs the whole time and my kid has to live with the life long effects
Poor Christian is even asking why he can't remember things like other kids can, how do I look at him and tell him well you biomom drank the whole time you were in her tummy so now your brain is swiss cheese
sorry for the rant it has been a long day with 4 puking kids and the baby has pneumonia

 

[ckret01]

Every word you said hit home like a bomb. It is SO not fair. It's like you're waiting in like for a ride and people keep skipping you. What makes them so worthy????


AF arrived today, a few days ahead of schedule. I had a lot of hope this month, but as usual, I am disappointed. I don't care what anyone says, seeing AF when you have so much hope in your heart is the equivalent to a miscarriage - every single month!!!
We went to a wedding this weekend and all I could think of was - How long til this couple announces they're pregnant? Hell, they will probably get pregnant on their honeymoon. Ugh!
Just the cherry on the cake for what's turning out to be a terrible week.

OMG I thought they exact same thing when my cousin got married in Sept.!

 

[cherbear]

Gabbie, I'm so happy to hear that one of the fibroids has disappeared! And wow, on your colon? No wonder...

I hope it is shrinking.

 

[cherbear]

Girls my friend showed me this hilarious video (song) on you tube. I don't think I can link it here but go search.. "Pregnant Women are Smug". You'll find a bunch of different versions but just click one and I'm sure you'll get a good laugh. I started listening to their other songs as well and these are some funny girls. Then I realized who the blonde one is...I recognized her from a few movies.

 

[D&DDisney]

MommaSnowwhite I am so sorry
cherbear I get it boy do I get it. I am so angry that my kids bio's get pg at the drop of a hat and then do drugs the whole time and my kid has to live with the life long effects
Poor Christian is even asking why he can't remember things like other kids can, how do I look at him and tell him well you biomom drank the whole time you were in her tummy so now your brain is swiss cheese
sorry for the rant it has been a long day with 4 puking kids and the baby has pneumonia

I have the same issue with my oldest son. He gets so mad at himself that he can't think like everyone else. God only knows what his birthmom did while pregnant.

Girls my friend showed me this hilarious video (song) on you tube. I don't think I can link it here but go search.. "Pregnant Women are Smug". You'll find a bunch of different versions but just click one and I'm sure you'll get a good laugh. I started listening to their other songs as well and these are some funny girls. Then I realized who the blonde one is...I recognized her from a few movies.

I'll have to check this out.

Yay Gabbie!!! HOpe this is the beginning of some good news.

 

[D&DDisney]

Girls my friend showed me this hilarious video (song) on you tube. I don't think I can link it here but go search.. "Pregnant Women are Smug". You'll find a bunch of different versions but just click one and I'm sure you'll get a good laugh. I started listening to their other songs as well and these are some funny girls. Then I realized who the blonde one is...I recognized her from a few movies.

Love it - thanks for sharing. I could've added a few lines to that song, but it was very funny non the less.

 

[Kennywife]

I have the same issue with my oldest son. He gets so mad at himself that he can't think like everyone else. God only knows what his birthmom did while pregnant.



I'll have to check this out.

Yay Gabbie!!! HOpe this is the beginning of some good news.

Well...you got your wish!!!!

One of the fibroids is gone! The other.......


is shrinking!!!!

No scarring anywhere and the ovaries are clear as a bell!!!!

OMG. I broke down and cried. This is soooo awesome!

I am getting my papers to see the RE soon and will have a consultation to see what to do next. My nurse said it may not need anything and may just go away!!!!

Oh happy day! Now it's Thanksgiving!!!!

Gabbie

 

[cherbear]

Love it - thanks for sharing. I could've added a few lines to that song, but it was very funny non the less.

I'm glad you liked it. I have seen it a couple of times now and earlier today I was actually singing it in my head.

 

[MommaSnowwhite]

Gabbie that is awesome!

 

[cherbear]

Gabbie looks like we posted at the same time. Woohoo!

 

[Kronk's girl]

Okay- I was a terrible, awful person today.

I went over to my friends house to play with her 14 month old, because I was so excited to see her starting to walk. I haven't told this friend about our TTC problems yet, so I was going to try to bring it up so she didn't hear it through the grapevine. But right before I could tell her, she told me she is pregnant again and tried to say how happy I was for her, but like word vomit I just couldn't stop myself and the wrong thing came out. . . I started crying and told her that we haven't been able to have a baby. I FEEL AWFUL that I ruined that happy moment for her. I apologized a million times, but I still feel bad.

Ugh, can I blame it on the fact that I got another BFN this morning?

Anyway- Gabbie so happy for your fibroid news- good luck now. Everyone else I am sending you hugs and good thoughts . We pick up our new doggie next Saturday from the rescue group and I can't wait to have two wagging tails in the house.

Happy Thanksgiving week everyone!

 

[cherbear]

Okay- I was a terrible, awful person today.

I went over to my friends house to play with her 14 month old, because I was so excited to see her starting to walk. I haven't told this friend about our TTC problems yet, so I was going to try to bring it up so she didn't hear it through the grapevine. But right before I could tell her, she told me she is pregnant again and tried to say how happy I was for her, but like word vomit I just couldn't stop myself and the wrong thing came out. . . I started crying and told her that we haven't been able to have a baby. I FEEL AWFUL that I ruined that happy moment for her. I apologized a million times, but I still feel bad.

Ugh, can I blame it on the fact that I got another BFN this morning?

Happy Thanksgiving week everyone!

ugh you know what, don't feel bad about ruining the moment for her. She unknowingly ruined a moment for you when she opened her mouth to tell you that news. How did she react to *your* news? Was she empathetic at all?

 

[ead79]

I just finished catching up on this thread, and I'm sorry for all the bad news! Sometimes this just, plain, stinks!!!

My GYN finished running all my bloodwork. The 1st go-round came back inconclusive on my thyroid, but the 2nd round shows my thyroid function is normal. In reality, I think I might have an underactive thyroid (like for my whole life, LOL), but I think I'll take that issue up with my primary care doctor after the new year.

So the bloodwork did show that it looks like I have PCOS. The GYN suspected this, so it's not a huge surprise since she prepared me for it at my annual exam.

So our next step is to get DH's SA, then she'll write me a prescription for Clomid. She said we will try that for 3 months on our own, then we can try IUI if we want to. We'll definitely want to pray the IUI thing through, as we need to discuss the cost, emotional toll, etc.

 

[D&DDisney]

Okay- I was a terrible, awful person today.

I went over to my friends house to play with her 14 month old, because I was so excited to see her starting to walk. I haven't told this friend about our TTC problems yet, so I was going to try to bring it up so she didn't hear it through the grapevine. But right before I could tell her, she told me she is pregnant again and tried to say how happy I was for her, but like word vomit I just couldn't stop myself and the wrong thing came out. . . I started crying and told her that we haven't been able to have a baby. I FEEL AWFUL that I ruined that happy moment for her. I apologized a million times, but I still feel bad.

Ugh, can I blame it on the fact that I got another BFN this morning?

Do NOT feel bad. That was the last thing you needed to hear that day.
I had that happen to me once when unexpectedly, a friend send us an ultrasound pic to tell us they were pregnant - AGAIN. This friend KNEW we were having problems and instead of telling me dicretely, she sent this mass email. I was not sorry I blew up at her.
I really hope your friend was more sympathetic to you after you told her.

 

[D&DDisney]

I just finished catching up on this thread, and I'm sorry for all the bad news! Sometimes this just, plain, stinks!!!

My GYN finished running all my bloodwork. The 1st go-round came back inconclusive on my thyroid, but the 2nd round shows my thyroid function is normal. In reality, I think I might have an underactive thyroid (like for my whole life, LOL), but I think I'll take that issue up with my primary care doctor after the new year.

So the bloodwork did show that it looks like I have PCOS. The GYN suspected this, so it's not a huge surprise since she prepared me for it at my annual exam.

So our next step is to get DH's SA, then she'll write me a prescription for Clomid. She said we will try that for 3 months on our own, then we can try IUI if we want to. We'll definitely want to pray the IUI thing through, as we need to discuss the cost, emotional toll, etc.

Good luck to you. Fingers will be crossed for you.

 

[esbrick]

Okay- I was a terrible, awful person today.

I went over to my friends house to play with her 14 month old, because I was so excited to see her starting to walk. I haven't told this friend about our TTC problems yet, so I was going to try to bring it up so she didn't hear it through the grapevine. But right before I could tell her, she told me she is pregnant again and tried to say how happy I was for her, but like word vomit I just couldn't stop myself and the wrong thing came out. . . I started crying and told her that we haven't been able to have a baby. I FEEL AWFUL that I ruined that happy moment for her. I apologized a million times, but I still feel bad.

Ugh, can I blame it on the fact that I got another BFN this morning?

Anyway- Gabbie so happy for your fibroid news- good luck now. Everyone else I am sending you hugs and good thoughts . We pick up our new doggie next Saturday from the rescue group and I can't wait to have two wagging tails in the house.

Happy Thanksgiving week everyone!

I totally understand! It was like this summer when I was waiting in the Pub for my friend to come in, thinking we were going to catch up and talk about fertility issues we were both having, and she walked in 4 months pregnant with twins! Then when I thought the same thing happened at the end of the summer but the story was much different, hurt all the same though. Please give your self a break. It is so hard to be strong and think positive all the time and sometimes you just don't know when stuff is going to hit. . . and when it does it hits hard. . . and it's ok.

How did your friend react?