In 1989 the Royal Navy flew a group of wives out to spend Christmas with our husbands in Florida where their ship was docked at Jacksonville. One of the wives had given birth while her husband was away and the baby was 6 weeks old and even though it would have been baby's first Christmas they decided to leave the baby with the grandparents in the UK. They had absolutely no regrets and I would have done the same. Why do people insist on taking such young babies to a hot, crowded place and drag it around even when it is hot, tired and cranky? Oh, it makes cute photos for social media. Pardon my cynicism.