Transgendered at Disneyworld

[Trixieplus2]

No advice but I wanted to say:
Congratulations to you!!!

Ditto!

 

[LockShockBarrel]

Hi guys, never posted on this board before but the topic caught my eye. If the OP is still hanging around I would love to offer congratulations, while at the same time saying this. I have no desire to "blow smoke" and say you're not going to have a problem because you may. Unfortunately since everyone, including you, is welcome into the parks, the buttheads are welcome as well. People will make comments about everything, from clothes to disabilities to appearance. I think what may end up happening is if you're feeling self conscious, you may just naturally be more on edge and may interpret things in ways that may not be meant. I hope you'll let yourself relax and go with the flow. I always say luck favors the prepared, and I urge you to be prepared that you may run into Mary Sunshine and she may make some stupid comment. It may hurt..who are we kidding...it'll hurt, but just remember that you have every right to be there and she can kiss your butt.

 

[KarenF]

Hi, Thanks for the comment. All my friends say I am very pretty and would pass very easily but I am 6'1. I have not had any problems in public and most people don't notice me. I always dress nice, not trampy. I have been to Disneyworld many times but never as a girl. I'm hoping for the best. Thanks, Luv Lisa

If you get harassed or feel unsafe, go to the closest CM. The same morons that protest Gay Days and don't realize how many gay workers they're dealing with all day cause they're THAT clueless have no idea that Disney is also very T friendly.

You could maybe thank the jerks too because the tickets they purchased to get in the parks are used to cover expenses like insurance for the workers. And Disney workers can get sex reassignment surgery covered by their insurance which isn't common these days. That could lead to a boycott and the parks are really at max moron capacity every time I go lately.

 

[GiGi30]

Coming from a married mom of two, if i saw you at Disney World, I would smile and ask you how your day was going & if you were having a nice trip. My kids would probably strike up a conversation with you if you were behind us in line. My hubby and I teach acceptance and respect of ALL. Our kids are 3 & 5 and they already get it. Just wanted to assure you that there are a lot of people who would applaud you for being YOU. Enjoy your trip & have fun!

 

[nibor]

JUST HAVE FUN, THE ONLY PEOPLE WE EVER NOTICE IS THE RUDE ONE'S... YOU KNOW THE ONE'S WHO GET IN FRONT OF YOU AFTER YOU HAVE STOOD THERE FOR HOURS TO WATCH SOMETHING... BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEMS LOOK FOR A CM, THEY CAN HAVE THEM PUT OUT, IF NEED BE.. REMEMBER, BE KIND TO ALL

 

[monetnj]

This thread hits very close to home. I recently decided to transition myself. Started on hormone replacement therapy back in October and moved to the Orlando area to be with my mother after my divorce was finalized this week. That part has been very hard.

Probably going to Disney late this coming week. I am told I pass very well and am only 5'6" so I am average for a woman. I have actually already been to Downtown Disney without any trouble or looks. I will let you all know how it goes.

I have seen on or two trans people in the park before. Didn't notice them getting any flak.

 

[rosiep]

This thread hits very close to home. I recently decided to transition myself. Started on hormone replacement therapy back in October and moved to the Orlando area to be with my mother after my divorce was finalized this week. That part has been very hard.

Probably going to Disney late this coming week. I am told I pass very well and am only 5'6" so I am average for a woman. I have actually already been to Downtown Disney without any trouble or looks. I will let you all know how it goes.

I have seen on or two trans people in the park before. Didn't notice them getting any flak.

Congratulations to you too!!!
Wishing you all the best. Be sure to post back and let us know how it goes.

 

[stasijane]

Everyone is different, but for me I am to busy enjoying myself to give a hoot about anyone else... O and I dont talk to strangers, nuttin personal.......Now if I was really bored I might make fun of peoples clothes. I blame peopleofwalmart for that bad habit of mine though In all seriousness though, I think it might be wise to not worry so much about being teased or talked about, life is to short for that and start worring about having fun on your awesome vacation!

Coming from a married mom of two, if i saw you at Disney World, I would smile and ask you how your day was going & if you were having a nice trip. My kids would probably strike up a conversation with you if you were behind us in line. My hubby and I teach acceptance and respect of ALL. Our kids are 3 & 5 and they already get it. Just wanted to assure you that there are a lot of people who would applaud you for being YOU. Enjoy your trip & have fun!

 

[weezyree]

Grats . I don't mean to be a downer, but going to share a concern. Consider how you are travelling as well. Current TSA procedures are really unpleasant for the transgendered. At the parks and resorts you should be fine. As others said, the guests are the potential problem and frankly you are just one of several thousand people they will see that day. Still, I'd suggest not going alone. A friend is very valuable for the odd jerk who makes a comment.

That is a good point...I never considered what it might be like going through security for a transgendered person. Either way, I agree with what I have mostly read...be yourself as you have already taken the first step in that direction and be proud of who you are. Not who anyone else wants you to be.

I am a married, heterosexual woman and a mother of three girls and I say go for it. I fear for my safety too at points, but I can certainly see your point. I wish you the best of luck and most of all....HAVE FUN!!!

Congratulations!!!

 

[weezyree]

Everyone is different, but for me I am to busy enjoying myself to give a hoot about anyone else... O and I dont talk to strangers, nuttin personal.......Now if I was really bored I might make fun of peoples clothes. I blame peopleofwalmart for that bad habit of mine though In all seriousness though, I think it might be wise to not worry so much about being teased or talked about, life is to short for that and start worring about having fun on your awesome vacation!

Well said. If you were in line by us, we would strike up a convo too!! It's the polite thing to do...no matter who you are or what you look like!!! We, as well, teach acceptance in our family!! Best of luck and have a great time!!

 

[jharrowell]

...I think it might be wise to not worry so much about being teased or talked about, life is to short..

To steal from Ru Paul...

Can I hear an Amen?

 

[S'sMom]

Hello,

I just wanted to say congratulations. Whatever you do just be you, that is all you can do

Plenty of from me. I am straight, and have gone to the parks many times over the years. I have seen it all, (I think) and I have no opinions at all. You are there to have a good time.
going your way !

 

[disneygal2007]

Honey, don't worry about what other people think. BE YOURSELF!!!! As a mother of 2 boys I tell them to be who they feel comfortable being.

 

[Schotz]

I don't know anyone who hasn't gotten a dirty look/stare/whisper/ect. from at least 1 person in a disney park. What comes around goes around. Disneyworld and even Orlando, is one of the safest places on earth. I'm too busy enjoying disneyworld to stare at other people but I can't stand people that smoke at disney where I'm trying to enjoy a meal. That guy with the hat and the big stinky cigar that I was downwind eating lunch in epcot,

You'll find all types of people at WDW. Most will pay no attention to you since they are there for the parks. Unfortunately some will notice you. There is a chance that somebody will take exception. In this respect WDW is just like real life.

How well do you "pass"?

 

[Singledad]

congrats on starting the road to a happier you!

That aside, I am FtM, and have gone to WDW multiple times. Outside of a few childern asking if I am a boy or a girl, and getting the Glare of Death from talking to some kids in line (back before I had a kid of my own.) I never had an issue at the parks.

The only thing I can see being a problem is bathrooms, but even their you have a safety net in the Companion bathrooms. I just make sure to bring my kid in with me (she watches the door for me) and make her use it at the same time too. saves having people stare at me when entering or exiting or even while at the sink in a bathroom, and allows me to make sure my daughter tries too. That way I don't hear 'I gotta potty' moments after we left one.


Hope your trip is magical and that you relax enough to enjoy yourself.

p.s. I know many cis-women who are super tall as well. Height alone is not a reason to fear being 'read'.

 

[darkeraven]

Congrats

Go, enjoy yourself! Don't even give the small minority who might have a problem the time of day.