Well, the Op has had no problem griping about others she thinks abuse the 'system'. From her own words, back in November: I see freeloader when I walk outside every day from my apartment. She's on Section 8, pays zero in rent has the full 3 bedroom section 8 funding even though she meets the qualifications for a 2 bedroom (2 girls 1 year apart, according to guildelines should share)....she had her lpn school paid for last year, and this year she's at the same school i am, taking pre/co req's for the adn program. She gets foodstamps, and ANFC, and medicaid for her kids. She gets fuel assistance to the tune of 1800 a year.
Then you have me, who is in school 12 credits, works on the weekends I do not have my girls- 2 doubles by the way, sold my Envoy, bought a used passat. Live off of my child support, and my wages of those doubles. Is there any extra? Hell no, theres not enough to get by. So what do I do? I apply for fuel assistance- EVEN thought I already pre-bought 400 gallons ($850). I will need about 600 gallons for the year, so if they can help me with 1/3 of it, it will be a great help.
So what am I doing differently than this freeloader? When I applied for fuel assistance, I didnt lie. I applied in September like they said to do, and my august income was way to high to get assistance. They denied me, not partially, FULLY DENIED. I felt black balled. I do get a pell grant for school, but the rest of the school money and living expenses comes from stafford loans that I will pay back. It's not free money. My kids christmas will be nothign like what they are used to. Heck at this point, I'm not even sure if there will be anything under the tree. I did get DD9 her snowboard, but without boots and bindings its not much use.
My neighbors kids will have a wonderful christmas, they will get a ton of crap they dont need or want. All at the expense of others. And all the while their father - not married- works for the state as a corrections officer, but uses a different address so not to get 'caught'...
Yeah, thats freeloading...what I'm doing is saying "I made a choice, and now I'm living with that choice, I'm still on my feet but my balance isnt that good and it wont be long until I'm kicked off them, can ya hold my hand for a few weeks so I dont end up under the water too far". See the difference?