southern_redhead
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I currently work as an assistant at our local elementary school. This is my 4th year there and it seems each year brings more misery. I am in charge of our teacher's workroom. This is basically where they can drop off copies to be made, make requests to have things laminated, letters and things die cut, we even store their kids workbooks for them and tear out and sort the pages each week (because they have decided it's too much work to get the kids to turn to pg "X" and tear it out or work on it in the book....ugh.) I am a super type A personality and I work my behind off 5 days a week. I work an extra 50 minutes a day (unpaid but I can count that time towards days off so that is okay by me) and then, because after my insurance is taken out my check is so tiny, I work as a receptionist for our afterschool program. I am told by many of the teachers what a "lifesaver" I am and how much more efficient I am than the women who ran the room before me (2 of them.) That said I am beyond burned out. They are supposed to have "days" where I do their work: Kindergarten on Monday, First on Tues, etc... We go through grade 4 so they each get a day and SpEd has assistants in their rooms and are expected to use them to do their work. The problem is I have set up a very good system but can't get people to do their part. I have one table for drop off work and one table I place it on when I am done so they know they can pick it up. I even made HUGE die cut apples (green for the work to be done, red for the work to be picked up) because they use kids (I hate this) to drop off and pick up their work. Some of them are small and I thought it would be easy to say "go to the table with X colored apple and look for my folder." You'd think, right? Well, for the teachers who have some level of organization and some sense about which kids they use as runners it works sooo well. For the other 95% (LOL) not so much. Seriously tired of them sending kids who can't find the bathroom let alone the workroom. Then they just drop it inside the door and go on. I have found their work all over the main unit of the school and have now stopped picking it up, I just leave it where it is and let the teacher wander around to find it. Add to it that we have at least 2 teachers per grade (out of six in each grade) who can't get it together and want me to interrupt the work I am doing for someone who DID play by the rules to run "just 15 copies" of a worksheet they need "right now because it's part of my lesson" ... ever hear of a lesson plan as in know what you are doing and have the materials on hand? On top of this the teachers, Kindergarten in particular, keeps adding "projects" for me to do. It is almost like "Let's see her do THIS." I know that is probably paranoia but I'm getting burned out just the same. Add to that an HOUR a day I have to monitor their kids at lunch because they get duty free lunch. An HOUR of screaming and kids slapping and stabbing each other with forks (yes this really happens) and I have to write it up so the kid can be punished and they want me to put MY name on the form that goes home to the parents. Um, no, sorry I don't make enough to have a parent come chew me out or jump me in the parking lot (yes THIS really happens, one woman tried to run over a PE coach because the coach was directing traffic and asked the woman to stop so buses could get out.) I don't need this. I have gotten to the point that I hate going to work, I don't enjoy being with the other women who are there as teachers because I tend to feel like the de-humanize us (is that a word?) by saying "You have to do this because I have the degree" (and YES this happens to, not to me because I've never pushed them but a friend of mine was told the teacher was better than her because of her 4 year degree to which my friend shot back that SHE has a 4 year degree in business but chooses to work her job for the hours and summers off with her kids. WTG girl!) One teacher even made a book so her kindergartners could learn the names of the staff and mentioned everyone by name except me and the other woman in the workroom, our picture said "workroom ladies". To be fair she did it to the women in the cafeteria too and out of the 12 women in there she only put 3 of them in the photo! It was just sort of insulting to me that she was going to send them to me on a daily basis and couldn't even teach them I was Ms So and So 
I know, that may sound like a spoiled rant and if it does I am SO sorry. It is just how I feel right now. I am also horrified by the discipline system used in our school (as in NONE) and have begun to think homeschooling might be best for my kids. I'd check into private schools but we don't have any less than an hour away. I know a woman who works as a nurse on the weekends, that sounds so good. She says she makes good money and is still able to be with her kids 5 days a week, by comparison I hardly see my kids except on the weekends and make NOTHING. Another friend has started an LPN program here and I know I can sit for the COMPAS test until May of next year in order to be in their program that starts Fall '11. Doing that would mean not working next year but it is for a year and if I don't change jobs soon I may go nuts. The only thing is I have googled LPN and see mostly refrences to LTC and nursing homes. I don't want to do that. I have the greatest respect for those who can but it isn't for me and I have the good sense to know it. I'd really rather work a dr's office or convienient care clinic or in a hospital. I have also thought about radiology tech but around here it is super hard to get into the program. I would probably prefer that though. I know this is long and if you are still with me, Thanks!! Bottom line, are you an LPN or have you worked as one and what is your experience. Some say it is closer to RN without the pay some say it is like being a CNA for better pay. I do NOT want CNA duties. I see no reason to spend a year off work to be trained to do something they hire people off the street (around here) to do. I am very type A, very high energy when doing a job, and do not like to stand around and wait on another person to get theirselves in gear so I can start my job....how would that personality fit as an LPN? I won't say I'm a team player because I end up carrying the team and doing their work just to be sure it is done right and in a time efficient manner. I am very good at organizing a team, though, but tend to find that - where I work anyway - people take assignments as suggestions and do what they want...that infuriates me. I'm not sure LPN would be a great fit due to those traits. I know when my daugher broke her arm I was so jealous of the xray tech, we talked and she basically is by herself all day. When someone comes in she does what she needs to do and sends them on their way. She was almost independent of the other staff as far as waiting around on them to do this or that so she could finish her job. That may not be the case for all xray techs though.

I know, that may sound like a spoiled rant and if it does I am SO sorry. It is just how I feel right now. I am also horrified by the discipline system used in our school (as in NONE) and have begun to think homeschooling might be best for my kids. I'd check into private schools but we don't have any less than an hour away. I know a woman who works as a nurse on the weekends, that sounds so good. She says she makes good money and is still able to be with her kids 5 days a week, by comparison I hardly see my kids except on the weekends and make NOTHING. Another friend has started an LPN program here and I know I can sit for the COMPAS test until May of next year in order to be in their program that starts Fall '11. Doing that would mean not working next year but it is for a year and if I don't change jobs soon I may go nuts. The only thing is I have googled LPN and see mostly refrences to LTC and nursing homes. I don't want to do that. I have the greatest respect for those who can but it isn't for me and I have the good sense to know it. I'd really rather work a dr's office or convienient care clinic or in a hospital. I have also thought about radiology tech but around here it is super hard to get into the program. I would probably prefer that though. I know this is long and if you are still with me, Thanks!! Bottom line, are you an LPN or have you worked as one and what is your experience. Some say it is closer to RN without the pay some say it is like being a CNA for better pay. I do NOT want CNA duties. I see no reason to spend a year off work to be trained to do something they hire people off the street (around here) to do. I am very type A, very high energy when doing a job, and do not like to stand around and wait on another person to get theirselves in gear so I can start my job....how would that personality fit as an LPN? I won't say I'm a team player because I end up carrying the team and doing their work just to be sure it is done right and in a time efficient manner. I am very good at organizing a team, though, but tend to find that - where I work anyway - people take assignments as suggestions and do what they want...that infuriates me. I'm not sure LPN would be a great fit due to those traits. I know when my daugher broke her arm I was so jealous of the xray tech, we talked and she basically is by herself all day. When someone comes in she does what she needs to do and sends them on their way. She was almost independent of the other staff as far as waiting around on them to do this or that so she could finish her job. That may not be the case for all xray techs though.


I am having a hard time deciding what to pursue. I do well with clerical work, I enjoy it even. I would love data entry, or even just straight secretarial work like the copies I make and the filing I do. I can even answer phones
But my job has things added into it that are NONE of those things. I even get called on to sub up to half a day in classrooms. That means that I am paid less than a real sub, am left to teach the class (and usually dredge up the lesson plan and worksheets because the teacher leaves me nothing), and deal with their disciplinary issues. It just isn't worth it to me. Not only that but seeing all these issues makes me cringe for my own kids. I went to school when mouthing off or decking another student earned you a trip to the hallway with the teacher and a wooden paddle. Now they have to call and get the parents to agree to letting the kid go to detention much less a SPANKING!!
I just don't know how to find out information about those jobs and they don't seem to be very "permanent" around here. I feel that having a degree or certificate would enable me to hang onto a job (?) and, another consideration, is that I want to MOVE from our small town and would like the option to homeschool my kids. I still need to work and nursing seems to fill that bill as it seems they are always looking for weekend workers. I just don't know if that's everywhere. Also, working all weekend and being home all week would take away some of the sting if something WAS depressing or exasperating at work. I can do ANYTHING for a finite period of time! I also looked at transcription but I graduated HS with a girl who does it now and she told me it is VERY hard to get hired on with the agencies who use people who work at home (she has health issues and can't leave her house) but due to the nursing degree she has she had an "in" that regular applicants couldn't compete with. I wondered if having an LPN or, better yet, an RN could open up doors to other areas in ways I can't as an average joe...

