jillyb -- Hi, Neighbor!
OP -- North Carolina IS a good place to live, but it isn't the employment/low tax Mecca it was just a few years ago. We have one of the highest unemployment rates in the country. Our state budget is in trouble and taxes have risen and are rising again -- we now are blessed with one of the highest state income tax rates.
As far as jobs go, I'm sure you know that a heavy construction job in North Carolina will NOT be unionized and, thus, will not come with the kind of salary or benefits your DH is used to making. Law enforcement could work b/c of attrition/retirements, but most governmental agencies are cutting positions instead of adding. I never expected to see a day when teachers were cut in North Carolina, but it's happened this year.
As far as areas go, I grew up in the mountains, have lived in Concord for years and previously lived in the Triangle (Chapel Hill and Raleigh). If you can afford it, there's not a better place to live anywhere than Chapel Hill, and the schools are outstanding. It's the most expensive place in North Carolina, though.