Wow. Can't believe all the attitudes on here against Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts!
My son sold over $1,000 worth of popcorn last year -- at show and sells, door to door, and with help from his father at work. It was a huge step for a child with a severe language disability to learn to approach strangers and speak. He was so proud and gained so much confidence. He was just beaming.
We'll do less this year, probably about half that, but still consider it worthwhile endeavor.
I get such a kick out of watching some of the other Scouts when we were selling in front of stores. Some are just born salespeople!
The popcorn sales also help support the councils, which run and maintain the Boy Scout camps and so many other Boy Scout activities. It wouldn't be feasible to just write a check for your Scout. You'd easily be talking over a thousand dollars to support your local Pack or Troop and the Councils that make Boy Scouts/Cub Scouts possible.
It's not just boy scouts and girl scouts we're talking about... it's
all fundraising that is soliciting (bothering people).
Some of us are just pointing out our surprise at where the popcorn and cookie money is going. Some of us (me) always gave much more weight to the scouts in my mind as a 'worthwhile' organization to buy overpriced items from. I didn't view them as the same as the little league or someones dance class. They
are the same, however, and we're pointing out our mistaken thoughts.
Your story of your ds sounds wonderful for him, truly. But, it's not something I feel the community should fund. What about the shy kid who hits a homerun on his baseball team and beams with pride... I could name a million stories. They're all great, but you honestly make it sound like you feel the community should financially support your ds in his endeavor. How about boosting his pride with having him order for himself at restaurants, or having him walk up to the hostess at the restaurant and letting her know your party size. How about having him walk up to the counters at the food court and buying something himself? How about community service at the local shelter, and having him talk to the people there. There are soooooo many ways to achieve your goal of helping him with his language disability, that don't involve soliciting.
My dd has a very rare disease (a form of muscular dystrophy) and her taking dance classes and performing on stage this past year has been a fantastic experience for her. She almost missed one of her dances, because she was having an episode (she becomes very weak or paralyzed), but she made it through. I paid for her classes, bought dance clothes and shoes throughout the year, paid for costumes for the recital, and without any fundraising. I also bought all the tickets for our family who were coming to see her recital. I'd never ask them to buy tickets to watch her... I'd feel funny doing that even.
I've also funded many other activities for my dd and ds...
well over a thousand dollars a year. If I could afford it, they did it. If I couldn't have afforded it, they wouldn't have signed up (just like when I was a child... I didn't dare ask to join certain clubs at school... we didn't have the money).
My dd also used to have seizures when she was little. I used to say to dh during her many hospital visits and stays "for every day she spends in the hospital, I'm making sure she spends a day in Disney someday!" As her mom, I felt she *deserved* it. But I'd never think the community should help fund that, or they would think she deserved it. It was a personal thing.
Not picking on your post, but it's not "more" worthwhile because it's the scouts. There are many things that could give your ds just as much help and satisfaction, where people wouldn't feel pressured or bothered. That's the point many of us are making.