there is a long and comlicated thread on the restaurant board about tippiing.
On our 1st trip we went to Tony Romas for my birthday and got talking to the waiter (who was lovely btw) he explained that he got paid about $1.30 an hour nad the rest was tips. He got taxed on tips whether he received them or not.
Dh is a head chef and i used to be a restaurant manager before retraining as a teacher, so we both know how hard staff work and how bad working conditions are in general.
disney staff are paid poorly too, yes, we all have examples of poor service (mine was HandV where we were served raw chicken!) but in generl staff go out of there way to make our holidays special. I too leave a poor tip (1 cent) if the service merits it, and yes it adds "alot" to our budget but i think its worth it, its the same as tipping valets and mousekeeping, they work hard and deserve a beer - imo.
didnt mean to ramble, sorry
Tracyx