I am so sorry to hear that Snowwhite. I lost a dear co-worker three years ago. She too was young, died suddenly and left behind three young girls. I can only begin to know some of the pain and shock and disbelief that you are going through right now. I will keep her friends and family in my thoughts.
PM sent. I believe I am in. This one sounded familiar . . .
Snowwite ~ just went back and read. My most sincere condolences. What a shock, and how sad for those children. Prayers and pixie dust coming your way, and their way, too.