Three Things...Gratitude Thread

[Tink-osophy]

3(ish!) Sounds I appreciate

The gentle whir of a ceiling fan.

It's, generally, very quiet around here, but, very occasionally, at night I can hear a vehicle in the distance humming by. For some reason, I find that very comforting from bed!! I think it stems from childhood.

Water --- splashing, rushing by, falling... Do you think we are hardwired to relate to that?

Music. The radio. Music.

Round here we hear a lot of wood pigeons cooing and, at night, owls hooting.. I wish I could catch a glimpse of those owls.

 

[Tink-osophy]

Loving all your answers!

Disney music
Rain
Tranquility
The silence of snow
Laughter

 

[Tink-osophy]

The adaptation on Masterpiece Theater has been a success!

I am rereading his books. I’m on “All Things Wise and Wondeful” now. Telling about his time in Royal Air Force in WWII.

What I hadn’t known was that Herriot wasn’t his name, just how he wrote the books!

I've not read the books; I watched the original TV series years ago.

Is Tricki Woo still there?!

We get a lot of American TV over here (which I love), still, it's nice to know you share in some of ours, too.

 

[maryblanchard49]

Today's Topic (Sun, 3/3) -- 3 sounds you're grateful for
1. The Sound of rain
2. The sounds of birds chirping in the morning
3. The sound of someone playing the violin

 

[bobbiwoz]

I've not read the books; I watched the original TV series years ago.

Is Tricki Woo still there?!

We get a lot of American TV over here (which I love), still, it's nice to know you share in some of ours, too.

Yes to Tricki Woo!

I like the series about Sister Boniface, Father Brown, and I binge watched the last series of Call the Midwife after it was mentioned on Disboards. loved Doc Martin, and if it had to end, I think the ending was just right!

 

[Tink-osophy]

Yes to Tricki Woo!

I like the series about Sister Boniface, Father Brown, and I binge watched the last series of Call the Midwife after it was mentioned on Disboards. loved Doc Martin, and if it had to end, I think the ending was just right!

These make me think you might enjoy Lark Rise to Candleford, if you can find it. Oh, and Foyle's War, if you like a bit more of a murder mystery.

 

[slo]

Happy Sunday Everyone!

#1 - My girls laughing together - it used to be music to my ears. I would sometimes just stand there and listen to them because it gave me such joy.

#2 - The sounds of outside - I love listening to ALL the sounds of outside on a nice day. I’m listening to them now with the windows open.

#3 - My DD20’s ringtone on my phone - I love when she calls and FaceTimes me.

 

[bobbiwoz]

These make me think you might enjoy Lark Rise to Candleford, if you can find it. Oh, and Foyle's War, if you like a bit more of a murder mystery.

OK.
We also enjoy Ms Fishers Modern Murder Mysteries!

 

[WDWEPCOT]

I was also thinking gentle thunderstorm those are nice to fall asleep to

 

[SpaceMan5]

That "noise" in the house when nobody is home. Sure, it can be quiet when everyone is in their rooms, but there is something different about the solitude when everyone is away/out and peace settles over the kingdom!

How true is this!
This will happen in the afternoon at times. Getting home from work, sitting on the couch, putting my feet up on the coffee table and then realizing I have the whole house to myself with just our two puppers sitting next to me. The calm and quietness is amazing.
Cheers to you leebee, may we continue to enjoy these "noisy moments" but also love the moments when there is real noise in the house.

 

[SpaceMan5]

My girls laughing together - it used to be music to my ears. I would sometimes just stand there and listen to them because it gave me such joy.

I couldn't agree more!

When I hear my DW and two DD's cackling, laughing in their own special way brings a big smile to my face

 

[SpaceMan5]

3. The sound of someone playing the violin

Seems like this is something very specific and special to you. Care to share more details?

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Love Tricki Woo! God Bless him and Mrs. Pumphrey, I believe was his human companion.

Hugs, sweet dreams, and love to all.

 

[TiggerTrigger]

1. Disney sounds/music - I’ve been watching some behind the scenes stuff on D+ lately and it’s funny how the bits of music and park audio evokes so much happiness. Most recently... "wildest ride in the WILDERNESS!!!"
2. Louisville Slugger Xeno bat hitting the ball - This is DD15s favorite. She made the shift to travel ball at 9 and this was her first upgraded bat....which ended becoming her all around favorite. Over time, you get to know the sounds of different bat brands and models and we can hear when it's a Xeno. No matter who is swinging it, I think of DD whenever I hear one make contact with a ball.
3. Mountain Bluebirds - I haven't seen many on recent trips to the Rockies, but I can hear them. DH bought me a singing plush back in 2005 and the song is pretty much engraved in my mind.

 

[PollyannaMom]

Hi, all - sorry for the late post today! I logged on, got distracted by other threads, and then by home stuff. Anyway, this:


(from https://www.holidaycalendar.io/day/march-4-holidays ) is the inspiration for...

Today's Topic Mon, 3/4) - 3 changes you're grateful you made

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Good Morning everyone

I will forever be grateful I finally listened to God's call years ago and joined His choir at church. God willing I would love to rejoin this choir or be part of a new church choir in the future.

Blessing during this pandemic of completely changing my life for the healthier and better. Simple joy. Forever I choose Jesus. Being thankful no matter what and of course cherishing time with my dad. Grateful for all of you too.

 

[leebee]

Hard question... change is hard.

Two years ago, DD/SIL and his young son (now 7.5) moved in with us. It's been a challenging adjustment for me (actually, for all of us). I've learned some stuff about myself that I wouldn't otherwise have recognized and changed. I think I am less authoritarian (?Not sure this is the word I want?), less "my home/my way of doing things" I guess is what I mean to say. I realized recently how much I like having them here, helping raise The Boy to take some of the stress off them, having the help around the house and their company. I realize that when they finally move out, it's going to be yet another hard change in my life. I love having them here.

I'm glad I am more relaxed about money. I grew up in a family of 4 kids. My dad died when we were all young, my mom had no idea of how to manage finances, and blew through the life insurance quickly. We were pretty broke most of the time, and it's warped my perception on spending. Why buy something that is bigger or better, when less will suffice? I am not saying to be wasteful, but for example, when we moved into this house, the fridge was already 20 years old, with a broken shelf and drawers that didn't stay on the runners. We kept it for another 20 years, because it worked and I wasn't willing to spend the money on a new fridge. We had the money, I just didn't see the need to replace the fridge. We finally replaced it a year ago, and I can't tell you how happy my new fridge makes me, and how much easier life is when you have an intact appliance that is big enough for use. That's just an example, but I've finally learned that it IS OK to spend some money, within reason of course, to upgrade things or to buy what you want (I'll buy something in an ugly color instead of the color I like, to save $1). This is a big change for me.

Won't go into detail, but DH and I made some changes to our personal/relationship outlook a few years ago. It's made it easier on both of us. Sometimes relationships don't change over the years, even though the people and circumstances do. Even though it was a hard conversation at the time, it was time for a change. We are both happier and more peaceful with our new understanding and view of our lives together, and our path forward through our senior years.

 

[WDWEPCOT]

Changes oh I’ve changed a WHOLE lot in my life lately !!! Some by my doing some not

I got my long wanted Divorce and I’m Extremely grateful that its done and I’m moving forward !! I’ve been left with a lot of issue & problems and I can’t say they don’t bother me - but I’m tackling them one day at a time to keep from getting overwhelmed! Google is my new best friend !!! I’m learning new things and gaining so much confidence as I accomplish these task !!! I’ve been told to get me a man to do this and I’m like no I’ll get a repair PERSON when I need one but otherwise I’m gonna try to do what I can when I can - I know what’s beyond me and what isn’t - I’m not stupid !!!

I’ve set up boundaries and standards and I’m sticking to them! Because of this people in my life didn’t like it sadly I’m sorry they feel this way but they’re not walking all over me anymore - I’m not your personal ATM I have feelings too it’s not all about you - a lot of people no longer will be sitting at my table - although this makes me sad what makes me sadder as the fact that they felt that they could treat me this way and it was OK nope!

I’m slowly addressing health issues I’ve had for a long time - it’s slowly because well the divorce cost a bloody fortune so it’s slowly but I’m doing it / I’m now focusing on myself and not others !!

 

[TiggerTrigger]

1. I made a change last year to try and rid my life of toxic elements. The most profound change was ditching a toxic "friend." The void was noticeable at first, but so was the added peace and positivity.

2. Vacations for us have gone through some significant changes. In 2017, I made the choice to shift away from regular travel to Disney. It was hard to pull away because we really do love the Disney Parks, but they had been making some changes of their own that made me question if my money would be better spent at other destinations. So, we changed and shifted away from Disney towards things like national parks. I'm now grateful for that Disney shift because it opened up a whole new world of experiences and memories. This change lasted for 4.5 years until we were pushed to change again in 2022-2023. DD17 was looking more closely at colleges and DD15 has shifted to a lot more travel for sports as she gets closer to the college recruitment window. So, we now travel for their respective futures and try to throw in some fun vacation-ish along the way. While I'm sad that I had to put some journeys on hold, I know these changes will be more beneficial for the kids in the long run and totally grateful for these opportunities that come with this shift.

3. 2017 came with another big change. We moved from one side of the city to the other. Moving is just pure insanity and there were headaches at every turn, but in the long run, I'm so grateful that we made the move. There are things that I still miss with the old house (closet space, gas cooktop, etc.), but this was the right move. We went to being part of a real community, better schools for the kids, and trees (among other things). So, we're grateful for this big change.

 

[Tink-osophy]

CHANGES ETA: This is a deeper one. The variety on this thread is

Changing my physical environment: Decluttering/Minimlaizing ...In order really to get into this and let a lot of things go, I have had to change my perspective a lot, too. It's still a work in progress, but I really want a simpler life, with more quality time. One big change begets another! I'm really enjoying the change that comes from lightening the physical load.

Changing my mind: I'm also working on lightening my mental load. It's so easy just to soldier on with the same old thoughts and beliefs, isn't it?!

Boundaries: Like a lot of you, I'm also changing my boundaries in relationships. Even, just in online interactions. Of course, first, you have to be aware of old patterns of playing a particular role! I'm glad I've always had a questioning approach to life. Even, if the process can be a bit uncomfortable sometimes.