Fancy things:
My
Crocs. They are the only shoes I can wear, and now I have two SPARKLE pairs; one silver, one gold. Kinda like new friends and old, right?
My hair. I usually use a basic, "normal" hair color (currently dark ash blonde) but occasionally I will lose my mind and put in a purple or aqua wash. It only lasts a few weeks, but I feel pretty stylish and trendy (and young!) during those weeks!
Going to tea at the Windsor Court Hotel in New Orleans. We did this a couple of weeks ago while visiting my sister. We get all dressed up and go have a fancy afternoon tea experience, complete with tea sandwiches, pastries, sweets, scones with clotted cream, a pot of tea for each of us, and a swooshy cocktail (or sherry). Smack in the middle of tea, DD30 looked at me and said, "Mum, I feel so FANCY!"
My cousins. It's a long story but we lost touch with my father's side of the family after he died (I was 13, my sibs 10, 5, and 4). He was from a large family and we had a bunch of cousins. We'd all spent much time together- holidays, cookouts, vacations, Sunday dinner, card parties at someone's house (complete with a sleepover), etc. Then my dad died, and even though my aunts tried, my mother managed to drive a wedge into the relationships and we lost touch. It was maybe 15 years ago when one of the cousins randomly contacted my sister, said several of them were going to be in her area, and asked if she wanted to have dinner with them. I went down too (3 hour drive but I wasn't missing this opportunity) and just like that, I have a big family and cousins again! Not only do I have my cousins, but I have their kids, and sometimes their kids' kids! We try to get a whole bunch of us (10? 20?) together for a weekend every year, but also visit each other in smaller numbers, more frequently. It is awesome and amazing, and I am so very, very grateful to have these wonderful people back in my life again.


