Hi Guys, thanks so much for the support. You know I feel so bad for DS, he is a easy going nice kid. Friendly outgoing, but not obnoxious. I'm not bragging, I'll tell you he was a tough toddler, so how he ended up this way I don't know
. Those are the comments I get from teachers, other mothers even this is funny one of the girls in his class at the end of year picnic said to me DS is the nicest kid, and smart knows alot
. It was cute.
That's part of the problem sad, but nice just doesn't work in this world sometimes.
I am going to call the school tomorrow, of course here I am the 'newbie' and he had 2 sisters prior and mom I saw on the school board meeting minutes is now a perm. sub at the Jr/Sr school. Look I knew some time back from the other bb gun toting kids mom that meany boy was, as she once said not to nice, so I really doubt that he is a perfect angel in school. I agree that I want this on record, in case something does happen this will not be a surprise and they were aware of it. I can see this has effected him, one not having anyone to hang out with this summer. He kept saying I have no friends nobody likes me. When I would tell him yes you do have friends, his reply is not on this block.
Even though he was sad his school was closing he was not like some of the other kids. He sorta just goes with the flow and I guess is mature for his age. He was looking forward to going to a new school, making new friends kinda of looked at it as a adventure. The day after the block party I could tell he was really down. We still hadn't gotten school supplies, and I suggested we go to Target. Nope he wanted no part of it, and I know why he didn't want to think of school and I don't blame him.
On the up side the kid who lives next door to meany but is nice and hangs with a kids who his father was the realator on this house when we bought it and is Dbil to the family I bought it from showed up to see if DS could play last night around 7:00. They are both nice boys, so that was good. On the down side the another kid same grade as DS who also tends to have anger problems and thinks he's skate board god aka a little full of himself. He is gone all summer, Dad lives in another state so does his DB, anyhoo didn't he just get home and of course come over to the boys. They ended up going to that kids house. DS said he was okay, but his usual cocky self.
Timing is everything, just wish that DS could have just had some play time with the two nice ones so he would see that he does have friends and the meany's are just that and there are nice kids out there. Oh well, school should be fun and I have DD who is getting anxious.
Racer are we in Disney yet?????
Sorry to hear about you tif with DH, it is hard but you know maybe DS is the one you need to take it out on. You have done everything, something has to give and it needs to be him. Teens years are tough and they become very good at manipulating. It is hard, someone tell me how much we are going to age
. I think of Wendy's tag fairy line "this is soooo not what I signed up for"
) and you'll catch up in no time. 
I haven't been watching it this season. Waiting for Survivor to start!!
I know you are trying so hard. Don't let DS get the power to come between you and DH. When you reach the end of your rope...what more can you do? You have to think of all the members of the family and what is best.
I'm sure I've said it before, but DS sounds like such a great kid. I really hope that this new school works out for him. Nice may not seem to be working now but it will. His time will come and I bet you will have a whole new set of "problems" 
okay lets pretend, we're there!
