I'm glad it worked out for you, but the last time someone tried to give me "tips" on a ride, he ended up awkwardly following me from the Haunted Mansion to BTMRR, asking me what my plans were/what I was going to ride next, until I met back up with the rest of my party.![]()
If nobody ever sat next to strangers, there would be no single rider lines. That is the whole concept of single rider. The issue here is that some people feel that sitting next to strangers is for other strangers, not for themselves or their children.
If your group makeup is such that you have no choice but to allow someone in the party to sit next to a stranger, yet you don't want anyone in your party to sit next to a stranger, then skip the ride. Don't go up to the front and then force your way on by causing a scene to the CM. Feeling weird about sitting next to a stranger on a ride is no better excuse to get yourself an empty seat than wanting to put your feet up, or desiring a little extra elbow room. Don't like it? Ride something else.
Oh well much to my surprise it was kinda fun riding with somebody that was enthusiastic.Why is that? What is your specific fear about a situation like this?
[/Inappropriate behavior on the part of other passengers includes rude, offensive, or threatening comments; inappropriate touching; inappropriate conversations; taking food or other items away from the child; or other behavior that makes the child uncomfortable or fearful. In addition, inappropriate behavior would include any attempt to elicit personal information about the child. Make sure that you child understands that no passenger they meet needs to know things such as their full name, their home address, their telephone number, or where they are going.
I don't have any personal "fears". We travel in an even numbered group and hardly ever go to DHS because it's our least favorite park so I really don't have to worry about it for me. It still made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up reading about it though. Maybe it's the teacher version of spidey-senses, but my gut feeling is that it is not a good idea to place kids in a ride vehicle alone with a stranger where they can be out of the sight of a parent or chaperone.
Why? Here is a list of inappropriate behaviors that children could encounter from being seated next to strangers on airplanes.
Link to article below.
http://www.airsafe.com/kidsafe/kidsolo.htm
I know that the ride is shorter than an airline flight, however, it doesn't take long for some of these inappropriate behaviors to occur. It is good to coach and instruct children on how to protect themselves and how to react to inappropriate behavior, but despite educational efforts to do so many children don't respond in the ideal way when faced with stranger danger. They are, after all, children. The best thing to do is to minimize risk.
Honestly, it's been awhile since I've ridden TSMM. Maybe the risk is not as great as I am imagining. Maybe you can arrange your family so a child is not alone or out of your sight. Maybe my "spidey-teacher-senses" are overreacting. I just believe that we should always be looking out for the safety and welfare of kids. Unfortunately, in today's world they greatly need it, even at the happiest place on earth!
Did I miss WHY children will be riding alone with strangers? If anything I would let my kids sit together and I would be next to the stranger
I think the best option here would be to ride 3 across and just sacrifice the game play as the parent vs. sending a child off alone, at least for me. Like a PP stated, I can play the game at homeIt depends on the make-up of your family and the children's ages. If you have three, two may be required to ride with adults leaving the oldest child to ride alone. (Not a problem for our family, but I know that it is for some.)
I am a single rider all the time. In the past at TSMM (both DLR and WDW) I always ride alone. There was a time about 4 years ago, that I did get paired with a young child whose parents were in row 8 (we were row 7), so back to back but in the same car. I let them know that their child was going to be riding with me and did they wish to switch with him so I would ride with one of the adults. They hadn't realized and were very thankful I spoke up before it was too late and we were seated.
No one is going to care that you make faces or grunt while you play. I cannot believe people will stop riding TSM over this simple line change.I don't know that I'd enjoy TSMM with a stranger in the car with me, I make faces, I grunt, I'm not very good. As you suggested I'll most likely skip TSMM in the future, it's not big deal to me but I'm not a child who enjoys video games.

No one is going to care that you make faces or grunt while you play. I cannot believe people will stop riding TSM over this simple line change.
Did I miss WHY children will be riding alone with strangers? If anything I would let my kids sit together and I would be next to the stranger
My kids are 11, 5 and 5. I can't fit myself plus two 5yo's in one row with me and Disney doesn't allow my kids to ride together until the oldest is 14. For some of us, a child riding alone is the only option. Personally, I think the 14yo age restriction is too high. I know many 12yo's who babysit younger siblings, but they can't sit with them for 5min on TSMM.I think the best option here would be to ride 3 across and just sacrifice the game play as the parent vs. sending a child off alone, at least for me. Like a PP stated, I can play the game at home
Seeing as I have ridden TSMM probably way more than most people ever should and since I was a single rider every time for the most part I can safely say that they have pretty much done this for single riders and parties of two the whole time I went there(unless they already sent a whole bunch up the left already), about 2010-2013 usually weekly. The difference is they did not usually do it like a regular single rider line, if they had a party of 6 or a party of 4 then 2 from the regular line they would pull a party from this other line because its faster to fill in the last row then ask up the regular line. I usually still sat by myself and would be asked if I wanted to sit with another person or not. Check my signature for proof that I have ridden this ride too many times...![]()
I just took my 11 and 6 year old and we fit across just fine, and I am 6 ft tall ... I would think two five year olds would fitMy kids are 11, 5 and 5. I can't fit myself plus two 5yo's in one row with me and Disney doesn't allow my kids to ride together until the oldest is 14. For some of us, a child riding alone is the only option. Personally, I think the 14yo age restriction is too high. I know many 12yo's who babysit younger siblings, but they can't sit with them for 5min on TSMM.
My 11 yo daughter who often rides alone as her dad and I each take a twin will not like this. She won't feel comfortable with a stranger beside her. Not sure I like the idea of her alone with a stranger either. Especially on TSM where she is out of my sight.