This may be cruel but

[meandtheguys2]

I'm not a troll & there's no more going on than what I said. Yea, I'm real judgemental, I'm judging that I don't like people accusing me of saying & doing things that I wouldn't do. Thanks alot.

No, you aren't a troll. didn't mean you ate all. I think your are entirely accurate, and that someone else just posted to be nasty. I've never seen a post from them that contributed at all in a positive manner to a thread.

Sorry if I offended you!!!

 

[Philagoofy]

No, you aren't a troll. didn't mean you ate all. I think your are entirely accurate, and that someone else just posted to be nasty. I've never seen a post from them that contributed at all in a positive manner to a thread.

Sorry if I offended you!!!

Thanks, no offense taken. Didn't think you meant me but didn't want others to think I was. I didn't want this to turn into a . Guess I should keep my vents to myself from now on.

 

[KristiKelly]

Yes, I have met & I know people like that.

I have a cousin that can be very hateful, tell you exactly what she thinks (usually when no one has asked her opinion), backstabbing, she's all out for herself. She ended up leaving her ex because he wasn't good enough. He was crushed and we were all like "Huh?!?" This is your chance to run & be free, poor guy.

 

[imsorry]

I've seen more than one thread posted here that made me wonder how OP got married and makes me feel sorry for the spouse being trashed.

This is the answer I was referring to, not the OP. I never called her a troll.

 

[lajones81]

Huh? I didn't get that at all from her post

I didn't either!

 

[cardaway]

This is the answer I was referring to, not the OP. I never called her a troll.

So it was my post that you were calling trollish.

I don't see where I attacked anybody or posted anything that we haven't seen many, many times. People act like we can't see that we are getting only one side of the story.

 

[azgal81]

That crosses my mine often as well! But I guess we don't know what goes on behind closed doors.

 

[bridgettesmom]

There is this couple that I am (sadly) related to and in my entire life, I have never seen a woman been so cruel.
To give you an idea:

1- She says she works to pay for a live in nanny, because, she can't stand her kids.
2- Even though she lives in a house that's worth over $1 million dollars, she sent a letter to her dad threatening to sue him over an inheritance of $3,000 that her brothers (3), sisters (3) and cousins (7) had given back to the family to invest in another property. Total time she has threatened to sue her dad over different things for the past five years, 6 times. This is the man that gave her a home, fed her, put her thru school and gave her a job when everyone else was firing her, because, she would never show up for work
3- Her kids can't stand her and they rather be around their dad.
4- When I was dating DH told me that I could never be good enough for him and I was wasting my time. You really don't want to know how I responded
5- Only has 2 friends (yes, I said 2) and these 2 friends are really her sister's friend. No one can't stand her.

I could go on and on, but, I think you got the idea. Now, the weird thing is she is married to the nicest, sweetest guy you have ever met. He is even a few years younger than her. At first we thought, he really doesn't know her , but, they have been together for 7 years and they are still together I guess he likes his woman mean and evil.

 

[Philagoofy]

So it was my post that you were calling trollish.

I don't see where I attacked anybody or posted anything that we haven't seen many, many times. People act like we can't see that we are getting only one side of the story.

This is true, you are only hearing the side that she shows at work. She has alienated many people here with her accusations and lies. How she is at home I don't know. She may not be paranoid (not only my description of her but several others) with her family, she may not make up things out of the blue. She could be the greatest wife & mother around.

It was a trying day with her yesterday so I vented. She's not a monster but I will not tolerate people attacking my work ethics the way she has. I get along with everyone else here. Most people here get along with each other. Since I don't go around talking about her at work, I ranted here instead. My mistake.

 

[carone0318]

Ok, I admit when I step foot into my kids school I become this nasty person. I am so frustrated with this school this past yr and I can't stand the women that work there. I have been fine with the school up to this point (this school yr), but this yr dd is now in 5th grade and has been there since K and ds entered K this yr and that is when the stuff hit the fan.

The school has left a bitter taste in my mouth and they can't do anything right for me and I just know the moment I walk through those doors each day to pick my kids up, I have this look of disgust on my face and most likely come off with a b*tchy attitude.

Oh I guess that I should mention that my dh is a doll who talks to everyone and although he feels the same way that I do - he has a much better poker face.

I also guess the difference is that he might care, where I really don't care what these people think - I just can't stand them anymore UURRGGHHH!

So, I guess my point is that sometimes people can come off like they are total witches and such, but maybe they really are in just one environment. The minute I walk out the door and get in my car, I am fine (I'm also fine until the minute I walk in the school doors.)

Well that's the case for me!

 

[imsorry]

So it was my post that you were calling trollish.

I don't see where I attacked anybody or posted anything that we haven't seen many, many times. People act like we can't see that we are getting only one side of the story.

If you look back, *I* never called anyone a troll. She asked a question and your answer led me to believe there is something going on behind the scenes and I stepped back.

 

[cardaway]

If you look back, *I* never called anyone a troll. She asked a question and your answer led me to believe there is something going on behind the scenes and I stepped back.

Actually if I look back it's quite confusing (maybe posts were deleted), but it's clear people starting focusing on my reply in ways that had nothing to do with the topic.

I was just supporting the OP. What was described happens at work, but also on the DIS, and I find it quite shocking in both places.

 

[imsorry]

Actually if I look back it's quite confusing (maybe posts were deleted), but it's clear people starting focusing on my reply in ways that had nothing to do with the topic.

I was just supporting the OP. What was described happens at work, but also on the DIS, and I find it quite shocking in both places.

I think, in my case, when you said "OP" I thought you were referring to THIS "OP" and I didn't understand why you were being so mean to her. Now I realize you meant the generic "OP". It was my misunderstanding of your post. I was not trying to start a problem.

 

[cardaway]

I think, in my case, when you said "OP" I thought you were referring to THIS "OP" and I didn't understand why you were being so mean to her. Now I realize you meant the generic "OP". It was my misunderstanding of your post. I was not trying to start a problem.

Yes, my first post was about OP's of threads in the past. In the case of this thread I totally agree with the OP.

This is why I sometimes hate BB shorthand.

 

[Philagoofy]

Yes, my first post was about OP's of threads in the past. In the case of this thread I totally agree with the OP.

This is why I sometimes hate BB shorthand.

When I first read your post about OP's I assumed you meant other posters. Then when I read it again I thought you meant original poster but that didn't make much sense so I figured you really did mean other posters. Especially since I try not to be nasty on these threads. Well, usually anyway, this one thread being a glaring exception.

And I'm sure you weren't the target of the troll comment, (and neither was I).

Ok, hopefully everyone is okay with everyone now.

3 showings of The Office tonight, YEA!! I don't care if they are reruns, I could watch over & over.

 

[imsorry]

Yes, my first post was about OP's of threads in the past. In the case of this thread I totally agree with the OP.

This is why I sometimes hate BB shorthand.

Glad we cleared that up!

 

[disneydragon]

If anyone is still discussing the original post....

I do wonder about people sometimes, but I don't usually think about how they would be impossible to love at all. I usually think that they would be really hard to live with or not fun to be around. For example, I know three people who all fit into the Brutally Honest category. Not only do they wear it as a badge of pride, but they will run over your face about the tiniest thing. I mean, is it really that hard to tell a white lie to save someone's feelings when the point in question is meaningless? If anyone dares to call them on it, they just whip out the Brutally Honest card and say that people can't handle being told the truth, blah, blah. Those are the people where I think, "Wow, you must be a real joy to live with..." They have zero tact and poor social skills.