This is so sad...

MarySB

Earning My Ears
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My DS called me today to tell me that his DD, age 8, told her therapist that she told a lie about her mother's BF. She had told the therapist that the BF had been coming into her room late at night and "pulling the covers off". She said that she "always kept her pj's on " so he couldn't touch her. After the therapist had been told this story, she informed CPS and my DS, upon the advice of CPS, placed a restraining order on her mother and BF (BF lives with DD's mother). My DS kept both DS's DD and her brother, age 11 for the week it took for the court date. After the court date last week, DD was returned to her mother, but BF has moved out, for the time being. Stuff is still there, though, so he will be back. A "guardian ad litem" was hired to investigate. DS's ex has herself and explicit pix on a couple of "kinky sex" websites, along with her BF. Apparently, they "swing". I don't know which is the lie, that the BF has been coming to her room, as DD said, or she was lying about it. My "gut feeling" is that she was bribed to tell the therapist that she lied re BF coming in to her room. She has a lot of new things, new charm bracelet and other things my DS told me, which I honestly don't remember. ( Why would she lie about such a thing?) BF DOES have a "checkered past". He was "let go" from his last job (as a therapist himself) for having relations with female clients. He is also bi, and who knows what else? After the court date this week, DD was returned to her mother, but BF has moved out, for the time being, because a RO is still on him NOT to be left alone with DD. Stuff is still there, though, so he will be back.

So, say a few prayers for this family, please. They certainly need them!
 
Why did the court decide that she should go back with her mother?
 
disneymom3 said:
Why did the court decide that she should go back with her mother?

Just what I was about to ask. You never know with these situations. It takes a lot of info to draw a conclusion
 

Hi---

To answer your question, the RO is still out vs. the BF. That is why he is not living there right now. The mother has "not done anything wrong" at this point, in the court's eyes.
 
Can your son get custody? That house does not sound like a good place for a child - whether or not the DF has been coming into her room.
 
Thanks, Mom2boys. That's what we're praying for. But, it's a long shot, because the courts favor the mothers, regardless. Sad, but true. As my DS pointed out tonight when I talked with him, his DD could grow up in that household, and with that man's background, if it hasn't happened already, it will in time, we fear. The "guardian ad litem" will be focusing on DD's safety more than anything else.

Thanks everyone for your prayers.
 


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