hereyago
Miss My Boy Nubbs
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Then there's this story. It disgusts me. The thought of MY BASICALLY DEAD BODY, or that of a loved one, being poked and prodded and kept as a human incubator against my will, and against my family's will, for MONTHS makes me sick. This woman was 14 weeks pregnant, so theoretically could be kept alive for 6+ MONTHS.
http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/texas-father-barred-taking-pregnant-wife-off-life-200600388.html
Per the article, "according to Texas law, life-sustaining procedures may not be withheld or withdrawn from a pregnant woman, even if she has an advance health care directive (also called a living will) stipulating that she does not want to be kept alive on a machine." And "Texas and 11 other states have automatically invalidated pregnant women's advance directives to refrain from using extraordinary measures to keep them alive, and others have slightly less restrictive but similar laws."
And you have to wonder what will happen to this baby if it survives. Is the state of Texas going to appoint a legal guardian to determine its future, possibly without its father/mother's family? If the baby is born with major health issues (the mother was found blue and without oxygen for a period of time) is the state going to kick in with free and life-long healthcare? And how far along does a woman have to be before the state of Texas, and other such states, takes away all her rights to decide her own healthcare with an advance directive...if she's 4 weeks and just found out she's pregnant, and then suffers a catastrophic illness/accident? 6 weeks? 8? 10? 12? 14, as this woman was? At exactly how many days/weeks gestation does a woman lose all her rights. Honestly, it sounds like some sort of Frankenstein-like experiment.
Thanks for the link, I shouldn't have read it because stuff like that and the other cases just burn my bisquits. You know I learned something last year: my mom ended up having emergency surgery for a blocked intestine(blocked from scar tissue to save her life 41 years before from bleeding internally from a tubal pregnancy, isn't that a kick in the head?) Anyway, the dr. asked about her DNR, I said here it is. He said, well while she is in surgery and if she dies on the table, the DNR is voided while in the operating room. I didn't know that was the case.
But the story you posted, omg!
As I wrote earlier, dealing with an arrogant, no wanting to abide by patient's rights, etc. has made me honestly consider changing what I do for a living. Right now I am taking care of my mom and not working because of her needs and I don't trust anyone else.
