TinkerMom76, I completely understand where you are coming from. And I am not saying it's cool to pool hop. I did it that one time, it was my first time at Disney and I honestly thought it would be my only time at Disney. If the CM had said "no, you can't." I wouldn't have, even the gatekeeper at French Quarter resort acted like it was fine to do.
I hate to tell you this but alot of pool hoping goes on, friends and family can be divided up and staying at different resorts and they will get together at one of the pools so everyone can hang out.
I won't mention names, but another family here (non posting on this PTR) pool hops because they don't want to use a park ticket at a water park, they just hit up some resorts that have pools with slides.
And again, I am not saying it's cool to do. People just do it. Kind of like the using your old refillable mug year after year. I buy a new one each time I go, but I have seen others using old faded mugs that they don't even sell anymore, it's not cool, and my fear is "What if Disney gets rid of the refillable mug because people take advantage of it?"
Back in the day each resort had their own refillable mug, I would see people filling up at PopCentury using a different resort mug, it's frowned upon, but it's not enforced and until Disney enforces their own rules, it's gonna keep happening.
I promise you, and I am not being sarcastic when i say this, I will not pool hop at your resort, (I will however use your beach to watch the fireworks.

and honestly I probably won't pool hop at all. too much trouble, really.
I do hope you have the best vacation ever, I really do.