I've been doing a lot of thinking lately. Don't ask why, I just have. I've been thinking about a broad range of topics. Mostly it has to do with love and women. I've also been doing some thinking about my former crush.
Like how did I get over her so fast? I can't understand it too much. The best thing I've come up with. Have you ever been to a store, and your eye's see something that at first you are like, "I WANT THAT!". You look closer, notice a few details, and you want it even more. But then you get really close to it to notice all of it's small details, and you notice something about it, and it just kills it for you. This one small flaw just takes it all of those feelings of want right away. I guess this is what happened. I saw her first, and said I want that. I got a little closer and noticed a few details, and wanted her even more. Then I noticed something, and it all went out the window. For me, this was how rude and inconsiderate she is.
I've also been thinking about women in general. I realized how the vast majority of women I've run into, have played up to the sterotype of women being selfish, and materialistic. I don't wan't to believe it, I really don't, but it's been proven to me time and time again. I've also noticed how a lot of women who have given me relationship advice, have completely went against what they said. Nobody on here has done that though. What I'm talking about is the scores of girls I've seen tell me that looks arn't everything, and how it's the personality that counts, and how good a boyfriend they are going to make. Some of these girls I've known, I've also known what you could call, "nerds" or "dorks", that really really liked them. They had a great personality, and would have made a better boyfriend than 97% of the guys out there. In some cases the girls knew this. They KNEW this, and yet they chose the bonehead jock or something who had the money and the cool stuff and the popular friends. They may have been a complete moron, who looked upon, and treated these girls as nothing more but objects, and yet they still went out with them. I know there are exceptions to this rule, but until the majority actually follows through with what they say, I will lean more to this side.
I dunno. No real topic. Discuss I guess.
Like how did I get over her so fast? I can't understand it too much. The best thing I've come up with. Have you ever been to a store, and your eye's see something that at first you are like, "I WANT THAT!". You look closer, notice a few details, and you want it even more. But then you get really close to it to notice all of it's small details, and you notice something about it, and it just kills it for you. This one small flaw just takes it all of those feelings of want right away. I guess this is what happened. I saw her first, and said I want that. I got a little closer and noticed a few details, and wanted her even more. Then I noticed something, and it all went out the window. For me, this was how rude and inconsiderate she is.
I've also been thinking about women in general. I realized how the vast majority of women I've run into, have played up to the sterotype of women being selfish, and materialistic. I don't wan't to believe it, I really don't, but it's been proven to me time and time again. I've also noticed how a lot of women who have given me relationship advice, have completely went against what they said. Nobody on here has done that though. What I'm talking about is the scores of girls I've seen tell me that looks arn't everything, and how it's the personality that counts, and how good a boyfriend they are going to make. Some of these girls I've known, I've also known what you could call, "nerds" or "dorks", that really really liked them. They had a great personality, and would have made a better boyfriend than 97% of the guys out there. In some cases the girls knew this. They KNEW this, and yet they chose the bonehead jock or something who had the money and the cool stuff and the popular friends. They may have been a complete moron, who looked upon, and treated these girls as nothing more but objects, and yet they still went out with them. I know there are exceptions to this rule, but until the majority actually follows through with what they say, I will lean more to this side.
I dunno. No real topic. Discuss I guess.
I never liked it when people's first concern was getting a car, clothes, money, whatever. I once heard a girl in my class say "I love being mean, it gets you so far in life." I don't think so. My first concern was always about the people around me, it still is.
