Things we NEED to buy for first baby

I am seconding the cart cover. I paid $20 for mine at BJ's and I use it all the time. DS is almost 3 and we still use it. It takes less time than using a wipe and you have a better chance of missing something with a wipe than with the cart cover. I will say, I don't use mine because of germs (but of course that's a bonus). DS has a very severe peanut allergy and I just don't trust that there isn't anything on the cart from other kids or snacking shoppers. But, I like knowing that I won't be touching anything gross either.

We don't usually use it in restaurants because it's too big. But, we carry our own booster sometimes.

I am also seconding the high-chair. The fisher price booster that travels is awesome. We have one on our chair in the kitchen (we just put our regular-never used-huge high chair into storage) and we have one in the car for when we visit relatives or go to restaurants that may serve PB.

Good luck. I'm sure this is all overwhelming.
 
Here's one no one has mentioned: dry pads for YOUR bed. These are the crib-sized flannel-backed waterproof sheets that you will eventually put on junior's bed when you are potty-training. The first few weeks you may need them in YOUR bed if you night-nurse. They will keep you from flooding the bed with milk. Also, lots of new babies throw up after nursing (not spit up -- throw up, forcefully) if you have more milk than their tiny tummies can handle. (Remember, a newborn's stomach is the size of a GRAPE.)

Flat cloth diapers are your multipurpose friend. You can use them for any cleanup chore, and because they are plain white you can bleach the heck out of them. Buy 2 dozen.

Nail clippers are hugely important. Put them in your hospital bag. Target has one with a magnifying lens on it; really great idea.

Get the target nursing camis. I lived in them 24/7 when I was on leave, and I've slept in them as long as I've nursed. The white are kind of see-through; I don't recommend those for anywhere outside the house unless you have a blouse on top.

BTW, on nursing bras: Make absolutely sure that you can work the clasp one-handed. If you can't you will have real problems nursing discreetly in public. You don't really need "nursing" tops, but you do need clothing that either buttons in front or is loose enough to lift from the waist and still stay down on the other side. The trick with button-front tops is to unbutton from the bottom; baby can hide underneath and you will still be covered on top.

Personally. I love my "Brest friend" pillow, rather than a boppy. DH bought it for me as a gift, and I got SO much use out of it with my babies when they were new. It's probably not as versatile as a boppy, but I loved that I could strap it around my waist. So maybe a bit self-indulgent, but I liked it.

The sling I have is a Taylor-made solarveil water ring sling. WONDERFUL investment. I took DD to WDW when she was 10 weeks old and wore her into the pool; she loved it. We also used the sling in the parks, and I used it in the car as a shade draped over her infant carseat to keep the sun off.
She's 20 months now and we still use it for hip-carrying when standing in lines.
 
Some people have mentioned that you will receive certain things from the hospital. Just remember that all hospitals will provide different things. I'm an OB nurse. The hospital I work at provides t-shirts and blankets for use while in the hospital, but they are not to be taken home. Everyone gets a black diaper bag full of goodies that's provided by Enafamil or Similac. The bags for breastfeeding moms include an insulated bag and reusable ice pack, and a couple bottles for breastmilk storage. Of course the nasal aspirator is meant to be taken home, and we also provide a digital thermometer. We provide enough diapers and wipes for the hospital stay, but there's not much left when it's time to go home. We put triple dye on the baby's umbilical cord, so our patients don't have to use alcohol on the cord at all, just keep it clean and dry. For moms, we have Lansinoh, Tucks, and Dermoplast, but they're part of your pharmacy charge. The pads we have are absolutely huge. I preferred to bring my own Always overnights longs. If you wear the hospital's disposable mesh underwear, don't remove the liner on the pad that exposes the adhesive! Your hair will stick out through the mesh and stick to the underside of the pad, and it will be very painful to pull your underwear down the next time you have to go to the bathroom! Not pleasant! As far as the breast pump goes, ask to pump in the hospital. The pump kit can be taken home and used as a manual pump (though not my favorite one, it will do in a pinch) and it will give you a chance to try out the hospital pump and see if you want to rent one. I preferred the Avent hand pump because I could use it one handed, never needed an outlet, and I controlled the speed and strength of the suction. Personally, I just felt like a dairy cow when I tried the electric ones! I also liked the Avent bottles best because they were much more similar to my breast shape, so the baby didn't have problems switching back and forth.

I definitely recommend a swing. DD#1 didn't like to be held, and was only quiet when in her swing. DD#2 liked to be worn in the sling most of the day, but was still content in the swing when I needed to put her down. I used a pack-n-play with a bassinet insert next to my bed during the night, and the bouncy seat for naps downstairs during the day. Your heavy blakets will be good for laying on the floor to put the baby on for tummy time, or laying on the grass for playing outside. I used to lay a blanket on the grass in the shade and put the baby in the swing or bouncy seat on the blanket, so if a toy or pacifier got dropped, it landed on the clean blanket and not in the grass.

Another thing you'll want to get soon is some type of tote for toys. Even though the baby won't be using most of the toys quite yet, it's nice to have a place to put them all. A zippered lingere bag for the washer is good for baby socks too. I can't stand seeing babies with bare feet in public, so to hold the socks on I got some soft crib shoes that tied with laces. They're not restrictive, but they stayed on perfectly and were much cheaper than Robeez.

I never used a Boppy. I'm short-waited, so I didn't really need to lift the baby to reach the breast. I also never used a diaper pail or a changing table. As you can see from all the responses, everybody likes different things, and after a few weeks you'll decide what works best for you!
 
Thought of this too--as someone else just did: Nursing bra(s). Might take one to the hospital too, at least for coming home. Nursing pads too--in case you burst or once you go back to work (that's when I used mine).
 

Here's the link you asked for.
http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3092058

I know a couple of people have said they didn't like it because it slid around too much or something. I have never experienced that at all. I absolutely love this thing, and can not say enough good things about it. Not only does it cover up the germs but it cushions the seat and your baby will be nice and cozy in there. And yes it is big, but that is a positive thing because it will fit on the giant shopping carts they have at Sam's Club.
 
Research your insurance if someone hadn't told me I wouldn't have known that my insurance pays for one pump per child up to $500. I called my insurance promptly and sure enough got a new new pump for #2. I had paid OOP for my first pump a Medela Pump Instyle which was fine but they came out with a new one that was far better called hte PIS Advanced so I handed down my first pump to my SIL who was thrilled with it and i was thrilled with my new one. I get to get another if I have another baby.
 
I'm less worried about the baby than about YOU.

I wasn't allowed to drive for a while after I gave birth. So you may be homebound. And you can count on getting 2-3 hours of sleep at a stretch if you're lucky. So you need to make YOUR life easy!!!

Hit BJs or Costco or somewhere and stock up on:
- paper plates
- plastic flatware
- any sort of instant dinner-- frozen lasagna, fried chicken-- basically anything you or your husband can pop into the oven
- cookies and stuff you can serve to those who stop by with a gift to see the baby
- thank you notes and stamps; you're in for a whole new round of gifts. (Stamps are going up, I think in early May. So keep that in mind.)
- If you're planning to send out birth announcements, go online and choose them now. Most companies will let you pre-order, so you can get the envelopes now when you actually have time to address them. Then, when you have the birth info, you send it in and they send you the cards. Be careful about any card, regardless of how cute, that requires you to tie a bow or do ANYTHING. When you're sleep deprived, you don't need more work.
- You'll need some sort of maxi pad for those first few days... the extra absorbency ones.
- Also, pick up a book on baby's symptoms. The first time you hear croup, for example, it's terrifiying (and inevitably late at night.) It's great to have a reference that tells you when to call the doctor and what to do before you call.
Congrats to you and your husband on your upcoming arrival.

Thank od you mentioned all of this ... You took the words right out of my mouth. A few more things to add to that list of things for YOU are:
* flushable bathroom wipes
* Lanacane creme

You will hate to have and ask DH to get this for you.
I hate to say this everyone takes care of the baby..but you need taking care of too!

What a wonderful time in your life. Congratulations Mommie !!
 
DH and I are going to start trying for our first baby late April/early May and let me tell you, this thread scares me! I haven't even begun to research any of these things or think about what all I need! wow! :scared1: :scared:
 
DH and I are going to start trying for our first baby late April/early May and let me tell you, this thread scares me! I haven't even begun to research any of these things or think about what all I need! wow! :scared1: :scared:

To be honest, millions of women give birth around the world every day without any of these things. So don't sweat it. The 10 months you're pregnant will be time enough. (Nope, not a typo. You're typically pregnant for 40 weeks :) )

I used to do volunteer work, greeting infant Korean adoptees at JFK and clearing them through Customs, then bringing them out to meet their new families. One woman told of how she was warned that it would be a good 2 months before the baby was cleared to travel; then she got 22 hour's notice that he had been cleared and was already in the air. She took her credit card and a shopping list to Walmart and did all her shopping in one day. Hey, not ideal, but it had a happy ending with her holding her new son.

So don't sweat the lists.
 
Wow, you guys REALLY came through for us.. thanks so much!!!!:grouphug:
I have gotten so many ideas from you guys (more then I got from my "Newborn" class from the hospital LOL) I've added a swing, removed the diaper pail and the bijorn from my immediate needs list. I've added some things to my personal shopping list and I've let family know their "visiting hours":rolleyes1
I love all the different opinions... just goes to show that every mom/baby is different and have different likes so I get to hear everyone's opinion, not just one person's "must have" list. Seems like it's all just trial and error (go figure :rotfl: ) Keep the info coming... you guys are the best!!! :goodvibes

Thanks for all the congratulations!! it's extra exciting for us since we weren't supposed to be able to get pregnant!
 
You're right - it really is trial and error! Some things you think you can't live without you, you end up not using at all and some things you think you don't need or want, you end up finding that you really do need or want. Our DD is a year old and we're still learning! It seems that we just get settled into one phase and then the next comes along. It's the most amazing adventure ever though and I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world!
 
I have, a Slingling Pouch sling that I love. Now that she can sit up, I can use the hip hold and it is super convenient. Skip the Bjorn all together. For a few more dollars get the Beco or Ergo. Your back and baby's hips will thank you!
 

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