Nancyg56
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Alex wrote in a school assignment some years back he was going to be a famous basketball player with 2 kids 2 house (1 for me and 1 for him) and just one wife.![]()
Kids say the funniest things. When Liam was four, he was telling me that he wanted to be a dad someday. I said that was great but he first had to find a girl he loved and wanted to marry. He said, "Well, I'll just marry Caili!" Glad to know he loves his sister, but while our family is close, we aren't quite that close.
I love the things kids say! Do then know that you are going to repeat them for the rest of their lives?





Crawfish Dip
I have taken this to several gatherings, and while it isn't low cal, there isn't any leftovers either!
These are the kind of recipe I appreciate the most/ My family likes dinner to be the same old same old things, so I can manage that. Appetizers I am not creative at all about and generally leave them to anyione else. Lately they have been Costco

Nancy, thank you especially for helping me try to see it from their position. It is very difficult for me as my family is so very different. If that were me and I had Kenny calling my siblings telling them not to come, things would certainly not turn out that way.
We haven't decided what to tell the children yet. Any advice you can offer would be gladly accepted. My DD, obviously, doesn't understand and wouldn't feel the loss at all since she doesn't see them or know them. However, DS is 12 and our other DD will be 9 next month. They, like their Daddy, were hoping to get to know FiL.
There was nothing like a trip to OT or Speech to remind me that my life wasn't so difficult after all.
Gretchen- my family is the same. Okay we understand.....and then we show up. I am still puzzled by the way Buddy's immediate family behaves, although my first husbands extended family is the same. When his brother passed away my poor MIL sisters let her sit alone for several days and showed up for the Mass. The same was true when she lost her DD. She had already lost Donald so I was appalled. My family and Buddy's cousins came and helped her when we needed to get things done.
As to the kids, I think that they usually benefit from a watered down version of the truth. Kids are pretty perceptive and can get to the heart of the matter better than adults can becasue they have not got all of the hang ups we develop as we get older. You know them best though, so you can help them to get to know your FIL by your own stories to them. Whatever you do, it will not be wrong, so give yourself permission to take your time with this. Your are their Mother adn you will know when they are ready.