Tasha+Scott
<font color=red>BL II - Red Team<br><font color=pu
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Hi, ladies!
I am too far behind to do a proper catch up. It seems I'm always behind these days. However, I saw Z and GLT's post and wanted to offer hugs and support.
GLT~ I can only imagine how hard this time is going to be for you. Stay strong. I suspect you will be much happier in the long run. Your kids will be resilient and they will be fine too. My parents' divorce was actually a huge blessing for us kids. We were all much happier once they decided to call it quits. And now I have 2 younger sisters (that I will be seeing tomorrow and wouldn't trade for the world) as a result. Btw, I was 12 when my parents separated and 13 when they divorced. We are all here for you if you need us.
Z~ Your post brought tears to my eyes! I cannot even fathom what it is like to watch a parent die. The idea is making my heart just break for you. Please feel free to vent, cry, or scream to us any time if you need to. I just can't imagine how hard this is for you.
And, yeah, 38 is young, far too young to be without both parents already.
I'm so sorry.
justhat~ I saw your pictures the other day and please don't feel like we don't want to see them. I love seeing them. I always have to let dh see pictures of Madison since I think she and Kylie have a lot in common and I am always telling dh about the latest Madison escapade. He humors me and looks and listens but I don't think he gets it either. I love the pictures btw. I think I would enter the one of Madison with the hat and watching the parade in a contest or something. It's a really good pic!
joats~ The story about the shooting over a PS3 made the news here. It also is reported that one sold on ebay (I think it was ebay) for $30,000!!! That is beyond nuts. We went to Wal-mart the other day to get a few items and there were kids on 2 aisles sitting in chairs. I mean, dozens of them. You couldn't get down those aisles. I didn't know what was going on. Then, tonight we stopped by Wal-mart after the pageant to get a few last minute things and there were dozens of people on 2-3 aisles again. Turns out they were all waiting for the new shipment of game systems. I am guessing the PS3 but I don't know for sure. They had been there for hours. The shipment is coming tonight and they are camping out. I guess the last shipment was a couple nights ago since the kids were camping out then too. I can't believe how nuts those things are making people!
Well, I know I'm missing nearly everyone but I haven't read all the posts and I am so far behind. I hope everyone is well. I have been so busy lately. We had Kylie's Christmas portraits done 2 weeks ago and I think they turned out pretty good. I wanted to use one of those for the photogenic part of her pageant tonight but they said they won't be ready till at least Monday so I had to use another photo that I wasn't as crazy about. She didn't win the pageant but it was all in fun anyway so it's okay. I thought she looked adorable but I didn't go all out and buy or rent a pageant dress like most of the other moms so I think maybe she was a bit underdressed. I just couldn't see spending so much on a 1 year old's pageant though. Some of the moms were so completely nuts. I witnessed a mom practically yelling at her 16 month old. She had her dd's hair in curlers, hairsprayed her beehive curls to the maximum and her little girl started crying hysterically. She cried the entire time they were on stage and the mom was totally pissed. She started chewing the little girl out and telling her she wasn't supposed to cry, she should have smiled more, she had really disappointed her, etc. Did I mention the little girl was only 16 months old? That's 2 months younger than Kylie and if Kylie didn't have the faintest clue what to do and really didn't care anyway then I know her dd didn't either. Geez! I feel for this child as she gets older, I really do. The mom was pretty upset that her dd didn't win anything too. She was standing in the corner of the stage when they were announcing the winners like she expected to win and was ready to walk out there. The rest of us stayed off the stage like we were supposed to. She was beyond angry when she left since her dd didn't win anything. She literally stormed off with smoke coming from her ears.
Anyway, Kylie did really well. She was very good but she was so in awe of the Christmas trees on stage that I couldn't get her to look at the judges or even smile. She was the only one that didn't cry out of her group though. The little girl that won had actually cried hysterically when they all went out as a group. I decided if I do another pageant with Kylie (and I'm not entirely sure we will) she will have to rent the ridiculous pageant dress and cry hysterically on stage. All of the kids that won something seemed to have that in common.
Like I said, we were just in it to have fun. Had she won, it would have been neat, but no pressure. Kylie enjoyed seeing the Christmas decorations and we had fun. That's what was important. I don't think I am nutty enough to be a true "pageant mama." We might do it one more time but I just don't know if I have it in me. It was a little crazy. We shall see.
Things have been beyond busy around here other than that. I have managed to get all of my Christmas shopping done except stocking stuffers. I did a lot of it online. This is the first year that I have accomplished this much before Thanksgiving. I'm so proud! Some really great gifts for grandparents if you want to do personalization type things from the kids are on this website:
http://www.personalcreations.com
I ordered several things from there. I also ordered dh a special picture frame that says "Daddy's Little Girl" and has a poem on it. It will be personalized from Kylie and you can put a 5x7 photo in it. Kylie is such a daddy's girl that I know he will just melt.
Anyway, my buddy's exchange package went out Thurs. by priority mail. Hopefully she will have it by Monday. Well, we are planning to go to church in the morning and my dad, stepmom, and sisters are coming in the afternoon. My house is a mess so I will be cleaning right after church is over. Last time my dad was here Kylie was terrified of him for some reason. This child is not scared of anything really but she wouldn't let my dad anywhere near her. It was strange. I'm hoping she will do better tomorrow. Wish us luck! My dad is bringing her a baby cradle for her dolls and a Power Wheels type thingie. They were my sisters' but they are too old for it now so he is giving it to Kylie. Maybe that will win her over?
I will probably not be back on here much this week. Monday I will be baking for dh's office's Thanksgiving party and my class's party. Our parties are both on Tuesday. I have my final exam for one of my online classes on Tues. as well and I will officially be done with that class! One down, only 4 more to go! Then, we have Thanksgiving with dh's family on Thurs. and our 7th anniversary is the 27th so we might do something next weekend. If not, then we will the following weekend for sure. And of course I only have a few weeks left of school so I have to start preparing for finals soon.
Oh, before I go, today was dh's first day of hunting season and he said since I share so much with you gals that I need to atleast do him the honor of mentioning this...he killed a deer today. And my child is already a little hick apparently. She is crazy about deer for some reason. She says it all the time and has to show me a deer whenever she sees a picture or something. Well, dh took her out to his truck and showed her the deer he killed and she got really excited and started going nuts, smiling and pointing and screaming, "DEER! DEER!" He was extremely proud. Sigh, my little redneck child. Yeah, I'm so proud.
Funny thing is dh has nothing to do with her obsession over deer. She seemed to pick that one up on her own. I guess it's in her blood or something. Did I mention how proud I am?
Dh also bought her a little camouflage outfit. I let her wear it but I totally did her hair girlie with a big bow and everything. I will admit she did look cute in her camouflage (if that's even humanly possible!) and people kept telling me they thought it was cute the way she looked so girlie in it and that it worked on her. Anyway, dh wanted me to share that so I did. I'm sure that you didn't really want to hear all that so blame dh. I'm just the messenger of that part! 
Okay, well, I need to get to bed. Nighty-night!
I am too far behind to do a proper catch up. It seems I'm always behind these days. However, I saw Z and GLT's post and wanted to offer hugs and support.
GLT~ I can only imagine how hard this time is going to be for you. Stay strong. I suspect you will be much happier in the long run. Your kids will be resilient and they will be fine too. My parents' divorce was actually a huge blessing for us kids. We were all much happier once they decided to call it quits. And now I have 2 younger sisters (that I will be seeing tomorrow and wouldn't trade for the world) as a result. Btw, I was 12 when my parents separated and 13 when they divorced. We are all here for you if you need us.
Z~ Your post brought tears to my eyes! I cannot even fathom what it is like to watch a parent die. The idea is making my heart just break for you. Please feel free to vent, cry, or scream to us any time if you need to. I just can't imagine how hard this is for you.


justhat~ I saw your pictures the other day and please don't feel like we don't want to see them. I love seeing them. I always have to let dh see pictures of Madison since I think she and Kylie have a lot in common and I am always telling dh about the latest Madison escapade. He humors me and looks and listens but I don't think he gets it either. I love the pictures btw. I think I would enter the one of Madison with the hat and watching the parade in a contest or something. It's a really good pic!
joats~ The story about the shooting over a PS3 made the news here. It also is reported that one sold on ebay (I think it was ebay) for $30,000!!! That is beyond nuts. We went to Wal-mart the other day to get a few items and there were kids on 2 aisles sitting in chairs. I mean, dozens of them. You couldn't get down those aisles. I didn't know what was going on. Then, tonight we stopped by Wal-mart after the pageant to get a few last minute things and there were dozens of people on 2-3 aisles again. Turns out they were all waiting for the new shipment of game systems. I am guessing the PS3 but I don't know for sure. They had been there for hours. The shipment is coming tonight and they are camping out. I guess the last shipment was a couple nights ago since the kids were camping out then too. I can't believe how nuts those things are making people!
Well, I know I'm missing nearly everyone but I haven't read all the posts and I am so far behind. I hope everyone is well. I have been so busy lately. We had Kylie's Christmas portraits done 2 weeks ago and I think they turned out pretty good. I wanted to use one of those for the photogenic part of her pageant tonight but they said they won't be ready till at least Monday so I had to use another photo that I wasn't as crazy about. She didn't win the pageant but it was all in fun anyway so it's okay. I thought she looked adorable but I didn't go all out and buy or rent a pageant dress like most of the other moms so I think maybe she was a bit underdressed. I just couldn't see spending so much on a 1 year old's pageant though. Some of the moms were so completely nuts. I witnessed a mom practically yelling at her 16 month old. She had her dd's hair in curlers, hairsprayed her beehive curls to the maximum and her little girl started crying hysterically. She cried the entire time they were on stage and the mom was totally pissed. She started chewing the little girl out and telling her she wasn't supposed to cry, she should have smiled more, she had really disappointed her, etc. Did I mention the little girl was only 16 months old? That's 2 months younger than Kylie and if Kylie didn't have the faintest clue what to do and really didn't care anyway then I know her dd didn't either. Geez! I feel for this child as she gets older, I really do. The mom was pretty upset that her dd didn't win anything too. She was standing in the corner of the stage when they were announcing the winners like she expected to win and was ready to walk out there. The rest of us stayed off the stage like we were supposed to. She was beyond angry when she left since her dd didn't win anything. She literally stormed off with smoke coming from her ears.
Anyway, Kylie did really well. She was very good but she was so in awe of the Christmas trees on stage that I couldn't get her to look at the judges or even smile. She was the only one that didn't cry out of her group though. The little girl that won had actually cried hysterically when they all went out as a group. I decided if I do another pageant with Kylie (and I'm not entirely sure we will) she will have to rent the ridiculous pageant dress and cry hysterically on stage. All of the kids that won something seemed to have that in common.

Things have been beyond busy around here other than that. I have managed to get all of my Christmas shopping done except stocking stuffers. I did a lot of it online. This is the first year that I have accomplished this much before Thanksgiving. I'm so proud! Some really great gifts for grandparents if you want to do personalization type things from the kids are on this website:
http://www.personalcreations.com
I ordered several things from there. I also ordered dh a special picture frame that says "Daddy's Little Girl" and has a poem on it. It will be personalized from Kylie and you can put a 5x7 photo in it. Kylie is such a daddy's girl that I know he will just melt.
Anyway, my buddy's exchange package went out Thurs. by priority mail. Hopefully she will have it by Monday. Well, we are planning to go to church in the morning and my dad, stepmom, and sisters are coming in the afternoon. My house is a mess so I will be cleaning right after church is over. Last time my dad was here Kylie was terrified of him for some reason. This child is not scared of anything really but she wouldn't let my dad anywhere near her. It was strange. I'm hoping she will do better tomorrow. Wish us luck! My dad is bringing her a baby cradle for her dolls and a Power Wheels type thingie. They were my sisters' but they are too old for it now so he is giving it to Kylie. Maybe that will win her over?
I will probably not be back on here much this week. Monday I will be baking for dh's office's Thanksgiving party and my class's party. Our parties are both on Tuesday. I have my final exam for one of my online classes on Tues. as well and I will officially be done with that class! One down, only 4 more to go! Then, we have Thanksgiving with dh's family on Thurs. and our 7th anniversary is the 27th so we might do something next weekend. If not, then we will the following weekend for sure. And of course I only have a few weeks left of school so I have to start preparing for finals soon.
Oh, before I go, today was dh's first day of hunting season and he said since I share so much with you gals that I need to atleast do him the honor of mentioning this...he killed a deer today. And my child is already a little hick apparently. She is crazy about deer for some reason. She says it all the time and has to show me a deer whenever she sees a picture or something. Well, dh took her out to his truck and showed her the deer he killed and she got really excited and started going nuts, smiling and pointing and screaming, "DEER! DEER!" He was extremely proud. Sigh, my little redneck child. Yeah, I'm so proud.




Okay, well, I need to get to bed. Nighty-night!