Hi DLI

Thanks for your thoughts on your visit - the first time's the roughest when switching from one you know and love to a new one. It sounds like it didn't go too bad for you.
You can't really compare any of the resorts to each other unless they are side by side. For VWL you have the direct boat access to MK and the monorails (although don't get me started on how long that trip and transfers take LOL). For BWV/BCV you have boats or can walk to EPCOT/MGM but to anywhere else you take very crowded buses. AKV has the benefit of being just a couple minute ride from AK but to anywhere else you have the highways to deal with. They all have ups and downs & I love each resort for different reasons. Transportation isn't the issue.
The wait your DH experienced for the bus was an entirely different situation than the location of the resort. Each bus (with exception to Ft. Wilderness & OKW internal buses) is dispatched depending on need. A driver might be on a Poly->MGM route and be diverted off to AK->EPCOT as the computer decides it's needed there more. You'll occasionally see purple pants managers at the stops recording the buses to see if they're operating as well as the computers think they are. The routes are constantly being tweaked.
As to your other comments about AKV I can understand. I'm a VWL fan through and though. When we first stayed at Jambo house two years back I was (and I wasn't) expecting the same sort of experience as VWL. Needless to say I was let down in that respect - it's TOTALLY different with the same huge lobby causing people to compare the two resorts. I missed the lake and boats terribly. I did however fall in love with the giraffes & rooms. Kidani had me a bit nervous, but it was more than I could have hoped for and instilled that true "homey" feeling into me once I knew what to look for and anticipate. I get a bit ticked off when people compare WL to AKL - they're NOT the same, not in the least bit. The only thing the same is the architect. Two very different, very wonderful resorts & every time I get to say we're visiting one or the other I feel lucky to be able to do so.