The Mad Chatters thread Part 5

[dolphinrescuegirl]

Heya Jay! I just finished reading your update for your TR. I am lovin it! I dont really post there but thought I would just let you know personally Hey Kar! I am doing good. Got lots of housecleaning done today. YAY!! We're having a halloween party this Sat that DH planned without me I got excited after the shock. He planned it with friends when he was at a meeting thingy.

 

[paigevz]

Heya Jay! I just finished reading your update for your TR. I am lovin it! I dont really post there but thought I would just let you know personally Hey Kar! I am doing good. Got lots of housecleaning done today. YAY!! We're having a halloween party this Sat that DH planned without me I got excited after the shock. He planned it with friends when he was at a meeting thingy.

That'll be fun Kim..................are you dressing?

 

[momrek06]

Paige: Do you think Mom is suffering with any form of depression? Does she live close enough that you could go there on the weekend? I know you are so busy on Friday with DH but is there any way at all you can go see Mom in person?


for Mom

 

[paigevz]

Paige: Do you think Mom is suffering with any form of depression? Does she live close enough that you could go there on the weekend? I know you are so busy on Friday with DH but is there any way at all you can go see Mom in person?


for Mom

Well, this is really ongoing, I shortened it for the "bad seed" thread...........I've been there, I cleaned the house and cooked and froze some food..........she just reads and talks on the telephone when I'm there.......

My sis in law's been on me to go and STAY there, which is obviously impossible............

 

[jaycns]

Bad night for this bad seed. I don't know what I'm supposed to do.

You already know my vote. But once again (and for the public record) you are a GREAT daughter. You do care...I KNOW you care (we have had long talks about this). I know you wish you could split in many parts and be with your boys, your dh, your students AND your mom all at once but it's just not possible (at least not without the trying to clone yourself and that could get messy).

 

[momrek06]

Heya Jay! I just finished reading your update for your TR. I am lovin it! I dont really post there but thought I would just let you know personally Hey Kar! I am doing good. Got lots of housecleaning done today. YAY!! We're having a halloween party this Sat that DH planned without me I got excited after the shock. He planned it with friends when he was at a meeting thingy.

Ahh..Kim, that sounds like so much fun!!! My DS and DGF are going as a hillbilly and his bride and she will also be pregnant...they saw it online and ordered it....weirdos, those two!!!

 

[jaycns]

Heya Jay! I just finished reading your update for your TR. I am lovin it! I dont really post there but thought I would just let you know personally Hey Kar! I am doing good. Got lots of housecleaning done today. YAY!! We're having a halloween party this Sat that DH planned without me I got excited after the shock. He planned it with friends when he was at a meeting thingy.

Why thank you.

What sort of Halloween party? What are your plans for the party?

 

[momrek06]

Well, this is really ongoing, I shortened it for the "bad seed" thread...........I've been there, I cleaned the house and cooked and froze some food..........she just reads and talks on the telephone when I'm there.......

My sis in law's been on me to go and STAY there, which is obviously impossible............

Well, with your two sons and DH and your job..that sounds impossible...now any thought at all...to Mom coming to your house for a few days...even though you will be working at least she will see you in the AM and again in the PM...and there is nothing better than a cure for the older folks like spending like with their grandchildren...it makes them forget all their worries...

 

[paigevz]

You already know my vote. But once again (and for the public record) you are a GREAT daughter. You do care...I KNOW you care (we have had long talks about this). I know you wish you could split in many parts and be with your boys, your dh, your students AND your mom all at once but it's just not possible (at least not without the trying to clone yourself and that could get messy).

I TOLD you it was the same stuff........YOU wanted me to tell it........

I know all that Jay, but when it happens I forget it all..........I'm fine now, that was earlier. And once again...........IT'S ALL GOOD.

 

[momrek06]

You already know my vote. But once again (and for the public record) you are a GREAT daughter. You do care...I KNOW you care (we have had long talks about this). I know you wish you could split in many parts and be with your boys, your dh, your students AND your mom all at once but it's just not possible (at least not without the trying to clone yourself and that could get messy).

YUP....what she said FOR SURE!!

 

[dolphinrescuegirl]

That'll be fun Kim..................are you dressing?

sure am as a schoolgirl, DH is going to be a knight.
http://www.spencersonline.com/index...oductID/cf23e85f-4d52-41d1-83ac-e149c8a5498a/
The link will take you to a pic of my costume. Couldnt find pic of DH's costume. We will take pics at the party and I will share them.

 

[momrek06]

IT'S ALL GOOD.

THAT is the WAY to THINK!!!

 

[momrek06]

sure am as a schoolgirl, DH is going to be a knight.
http://www.spencersonline.com/index...oductID/cf23e85f-4d52-41d1-83ac-e149c8a5498a/
The link will take you to a pic of my costume. Couldnt find pic of DH's costume. We will take pics at the party and I will share them.

PLEASE SHARE WITH US, KIM...I would love to see them after the party!!

 

[paigevz]

Well, with your two sons and DH and your job..that sounds impossible...now any thought at all...to Mom coming to your house for a few days...even though you will be working at least she will see you in the AM and again in the PM...and there is nothing better than a cure for the older folks like spending like with their grandchildren...it makes them forget all their worries...

Tried that too, she won't come, won't leave the business and my dad. I did take her grandchild to see her, my older son won't go back there for now.........and it didn't seem to help.

Since she wouldn't talk to me tonight, I put my therapist brother on the case...........after I made him therapize me for a bit..........

 

[jaycns]

I TOLD you it was the same stuff........YOU wanted me to tell it........

I know all that Jay, but when it happens I forget it all..........I'm fine now, that was earlier. And once again...........IT'S ALL GOOD.

She only tells me it's all good to stop me from being worried about her! I swear...too thoughtful for her own good! BUT...it may be the same...however it's not a bother to hear again...some things take more then one day to get over...it doesn't make them any less worthy of talking about!!!!

 

[dolphinrescuegirl]

Why thank you.

What sort of Halloween party? What are your plans for the party?

Everyone is to bring a pumpkin for pumpkin carving and a covered dish. DH and I will provide meat and I will make the cat litter pan cake. I can't wait for that. I have 2 cats so it will be fun to see the look on their faces before I tell them whats in it. DH said not to let the cats see it so that they dont get confused.

 

[paigevz]

She only tells me it's all good to stop me from being worried about her! I swear...too thoughtful for her own good! BUT...it may be the same...however it's not a bother to hear again...some things take more then one day to get over...it doesn't make them any less worthy of talking about!!!!

You know how much I love you Jay..............

And, really, I AM fine now........that was earlier...............

 

[momrek06]

Tried that too, she won't come, won't leave the business and my dad. I did take her grandchild to see her, my older son won't go back there for now.........and it didn't seem to help.

Since she wouldn't talk to me tonight, I put my therapist brother on the case...........after I made him therapize me for a bit..........

Oh...okay...then...well it does appear you are trying as hard as you possibly can and that is all you can do within your power. Good for bro, maybe he will call you and report back and get to the bottom of mom not wanting to talk to you tonight...you know.

 

[paigevz]

She only tells me it's all good to stop me from being worried about her! I swear...too thoughtful for her own good! BUT...it may be the same...however it's not a bother to hear again...some things take more then one day to get over...it doesn't make them any less worthy of talking about!!!!

And aren't you proud of me for telling it to the rest of my buddies and not locking it down??? I am learning!

 

[jaycns]

Everyone is to bring a pumpkin for pumpkin carving and a covered dish. DH and I will provide meat and I will make the cat litter pan cake. I can't wait for that. I have 2 cats so it will be fun to see the look on their faces before I tell them whats in it. DH said not to let the cats see it so that they dont get confused.

I think DH is a wise man...please do follow his advice...either that or you may bite into more then a Tootsie Roll! ISH!