The Impossible Question

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Hello there,

I realize at the outset this is not a question with an answer that fits everyone.

My fiancee and I are considering going to Disney World for our honey moon. It would be a be a roughly 5-7 day trip (TBD).

But what we're trying to gauge basically is if it's the trip for us. We have been to DL before (last year) and loved it. We're both pretty active and like to get things done. So we did everything in both DL and DCA in three days (most of it numerous times). We're planners by nature and looked to maximize our time - lots of research, getting up early, etc.

We also live in Vancouver, so it's a very long way to Florida and considerably more expensive than going back to DL/DCA.

Could two people I've just described successfully get through most of WDW in 5-7 days or is it just not a possible feat?

Also, last time we went to DL/DCA it was late November/early December and the parks were relatively quiet (by, well, giant theme park standards). Is that also a generally slower period to WDW?

I appreciate any feedback anyone can provide given that this is something that's pretty much impossible to answer! :confused3
 
I think what you need to determine is what you want to do that will make your honeymoon special. My DH and I had the choice of going to WDW or a laid back tropical vacation for our honeymoon, and we were so stressed with wedding planning that we opted for the latter....and have regretted that decision. In all fairness, though, at the time we weren't seasoned travelers and not saavy in what to look for in planning a vacation.

Although WDW is a far plane ride from the NW, I think it would be a terrific destination to explore on your honeymoon. You can make it as active, or laid back, as you'd like. Can you do most of WDW in 7 days?....I'd say yes with careful planning. In 5? I'm not sure if that's doable anymore. Our first WDW vacation was 5 days and we got to see most of it...but it was tiring.

You've already toured DL and DCA. You have a good idea about theme parks. It seems you enjoy the planning that's involved. WDW will be bedecked in holiday decorations and special shows. If that's the kind of vacation you envision for making a honeymoon special, I'd say go for it.
 
Hello there,

I realize at the outset this is not a question with an answer that fits everyone.

My fiancee and I are considering going to Disney World for our honey moon. It would be a be a roughly 5-7 day trip (TBD).

But what we're trying to gauge basically is if it's the trip for us. We have been to DL before (last year) and loved it. We're both pretty active and like to get things done. So we did everything in both DL and DCA in three days (most of it numerous times). We're planners by nature and looked to maximize our time - lots of research, getting up early, etc.

We also live in Vancouver, so it's a very long way to Florida and considerably more expensive than going back to DL/DCA.

Could two people I've just described successfully get through most of WDW in 5-7 days or is it just not a possible feat?

Also, last time we went to DL/DCA it was late November/early December and the parks were relatively quiet (by, well, giant theme park standards). Is that also a generally slower period to WDW?

I appreciate any feedback anyone can provide given that this is something that's pretty much impossible to answer! :confused3

The major thing to remember about the difference between WDW and DLR is that WDW is a major planned self contained "Resort" while DLR is pair of theme parks that a city built itself up around.

DLR is two parks in the middle of a city with a "mall" and hotels nearby/attached. I'm sure you saw plenty of the real world poking up around the parks there. You could wander just outside the security gates of the esplanade and go get some food elsewhere. The rest of Southern California was accessible if you so chose.

Walt Disney World is, by itself, the size of a city. 55K+ people work there and there is infrastructure, systems, etc.. that are all owned by Disney. No matter how much I try to impress this idea on friends who have been to DLR but are first-timers to WDW they're very much taken aback by it once they arrive. Publicly owned roads end - and the ones Disney owns literally look different with different street signs and different levels of care (Disney is constantly repaving their roads and has crews whose job it is to drive around the property doing the median landscaping and trimming - it's all very meticulously kept.)

And while that may sound quaint - it's not a small town. Everything is spread out across the property and you'll be driving or taking buses or boats or monorails to get around. There is no "walking" from park to park across a promenade. This isn't a dealbreaker, but if you for some reaosn think you can "just leave one park and go to another" the way you did at DLR you'll be in for a rude awakening. It's doable, but it's time consuming and can be rough to navigate if you're new and don't know all the alternative for transportation.

For example, you leave Epcot at 6pm thinking you'll make a dinner reservation at Magic Kingdom at 6:30pm. No sane avid-WDW visitor will tell you that's a good idea. Yes, the two parks are connected by monorail, but that requires a monorail being in the station, not having any breakdowns or delays (they happen from time to time) and making the connection from the Epcot line to the Magic Kingdom line at the Transportation and Ticket Center without missing one or more trains.

And even then, there might be problems at the TTC - what if their monorails are down? What if it's an event night and it's packed and a multi-train wait? Would the ferry boat be faster? (Depends on if a ferry boat is arriving/boarding and just how long the monorail line is.) Heck, you can even run over to the Magic Kingdom resort monorail - but that's going to make stops at Polynesian and Grand Floridian before Magic Kingdom - but it might be faster.

See? It can be very complicated.

If you know the big differences I don't see why you wouldn't enjoy it. Can you do everything i one trip? No, no one does. You need to pick out the highlights you know you want to see and prioritize them. Also, be wiling to adjust and let things go if they're not working out. If you want to just lay on a beach it really isn't the vacation for you - but I know myself and I'd be bored out of my mind at some resort town by a beach even if it was in the Caribbean or Hawaii for 5-7 days.

My experience is that most people make it about 36-48 hours after arriving before they hit a wall and need like a half day to sleep and adjust a bit. If you plan on going all-out for 5-7 days you're going to be exhausted and probably hate life by the end of it. When at DLR on day 3 you're probably backtracking to one of the two parks - essentially having done the bulk of the attractions already - and just picking up things that were less important but looked interesting. On day 3 at WDW you're probably setting foot into your third brand new park - so there's a big difference in energy level and "rush rush rush" mentality. You still have 1 more major park to go, nevermind the waterparks, downtown disney, minigolf, boardwalk, golf, parasailing and nitro bass fishing excursions.

If you loved the DLR and the idea that there's a "bigger" version of it that you can't see the outside world from within, you're probably going to enjoy yourself a good deal at WDW. If your major lure to DLR is the nostalgia of the 50's and the sort of quaintness of the first theme park.. not so much. It's big, it's commercial, and it can be overwhelming.

If the idea that you can do lunch in Epcot's France and then take a monorail to the TTC and transfer to the resort line to end up at Contemporary - shop the Grand Canyon Concourse shops - work your way down to the ground level and out the "back" of the resort to the boat dock and then take a boat over to the Wilderness Lodge for a dinner with a view of manmade geysers all while never leaving Disney and not dealing at all with the "real world" then you'll probably enjoy the trip a lot.
 
Skip WDW for now and go on a cruise. There are many "grown-ups only" sections on the cruise and their island. It makes for one of the most relaxing and uncongested cruises(of any cruise line) you will ever take. And their ships are beautiful and pure Disney. Congratulations and good luck.
 

Could two people I've just described successfully get through most of WDW in 5-7 days or is it just not a possible feat?
I don't understand your question. Why do you think that you must "successfully get through most of WDW"? Are you planning on dying after you leave WDW and never returning? The point of a honeymoon is to have a good time. Your question should be "Will I have a great time if I go to WDW on my honeymoon?" Personally I can't think of a better place to have a honeymoon and hopefully you WON'T see it all and then you will have to return.:drive:
 
I think it all depends on what you mean by "get through most of WDW". Do you want to stand in lines to meet characters? Do you want to ride every single attraction? Do you want to see every show? If you want to literally do it all, then I would say it is an impossible feat. However, if you do your research and know what you want to do and what you don't care about missing, then it is entirely possible. It would be a fast-paced trip, but if lazy pool time is important to you, just make sure you build that into your itinerary. The disboards hold a great wealth of information, and if you do your homework, your trip will be non-stressful.

The end of November (after Thanksgiving) through the first half of December (until the week before Christmas) is a great time to visit WDW. Crowd levels are low and the holiday happenings and decorations are fantastic!

Lots of people go to WDW for their honeymoon and there is a special forum here on disboards for Disney Weddings and Honeymoons, which would be great for you to check out.

Congratulations on your engagement and enjoy your honeymoon- no matter where you choose to spend it! :)
 
I think WDW is a great place to have a honeymoon especially in November/December - the holidays are a great time to come and the weather is enjoyable. There is of course a lot to see at WDW - I have been living here for the past seven months and still have more to see - so I wouldn't worry about trying to see it all - just do what you want the most - you can always come back for special trips. And if you don't want to spend so much time traveling DLR is always a good option:). Any Disney is good Disney in my mind and enjoying Disney together is a good thing!! Enjoy your planning time whatever you decide and have a great honeymoon!!!:goodvibes
 
I definitely think you can get it done in 5 days. As long as you don't care to see any of the waterparks or DisneyQuest.

A park per day and at two adults it will be easy to get done all of the attractions you want to do.

The 5th day you can revisit the park you want to see again and maybe do DTD.

As long as you don't want to relax on your honeymoon this would be a good option.
 
Depends on what you mean when you see 'do it all' during your trip. If you wanted to do everything, see everything that WDW has to offer, you would need a very long stay...maybe at least a month! Otherwise, no way will you do it all, see it all. I've been more than 30 times...and I still manage to find a little something new on each trip!!
So...can you have a good time and do a lot in 5-7 days? Yep. You should probably buy a guidebook before making any decisions. Read it and then decide what things you really want to do. I would recommend both Birnbaum's Official Guide to WDW (the official book) and PassPorter. Birnbaum's will give you a nice overview, with only glowing wonderful things to say about WDW. PassPorter is a little more even keeled. But, both will give you a very good idea of what you are looking at.
Make a list of the things you really want to do...then plan your days. It is an expensive proposition when coming from the west coast..so you need to plan accordingly.
I say go for it and have a ball. I find that many people who started with DL, and then say they are going to give WDW a try, end up going to WDW many more times than they ever thought they would.
 
I would try to do 7 days if you can. 5 days would be pushing it.

This is just my opinion, but I am a planner. I enjoy planning our WDW vacations, researching what to do on what day, and putting time into organizing everything. I can not imagine being able to do that and plan a wedding at the same time due to time. I have been on DCL cruise ships like a pp mentioned! They are relaxing, fun, and Disney inspired. Plus lots of activities for active people too. I would almost lean towards a Disney Cruise instead of WDW. Then save WDW for your 1st anniversary when you have time to enjoy the planning and research since it will be your first trip. Just my opinion though. I am sure whatever you decide will be perfect for you.
 
Weird, I attempted to reply but it looks like my response went into never never land.

First, thank you everyone so far.

Let me add a bit more info that may provide some context.

When we went to California last year over 5 days we did 3 days at the two DL parks, Universal, SeaWorld and San Diego Zoo and we felt we were able to do everything on our list. In fact, we did all the main attractions in DL/DCA 2-5 times each.

We are a couple that like to "do" more than "lounge" on vacation. We tend to be pretty high energy, our holidays are usually more about an experience than about holidaying, if that makes sense. So it's not unusual for us to go to bed at midnight and be up for a rope drop at 8am somewhere. It sounds like hell for most people, but it works for us. And we don't have kids, so it makes it a lot easier to go to go.

When I say "get through most of WDW" I don't mean be able to do every single attraction, see every item, enjoy every experience. While I really don't have any understanding of the scope of WDW, I do understand that's impossible. For me, what that means is being able to hit all the key attractions and enjoy the marquee shows.

If we move forward we absolutely will extensively reference a guidebook of some kind. We had used one for Disneyland (http://www.amazon.com/Unofficial-Guide-Disneyland-2010-Guides/dp/047046030X) and found it extremely helpful. We also used that online program which I can't recall the name of to help map our routes through each park. We didn't follow it meticulously (we found ourselves running far ahead) but it was a good guide. We would absolutely use similar tools should we decide to proceed.
 
The way I read your question, yes. That is a great amount of time to do WDW.

Being at WDW, is a little like being in a major city. At any given time, there is more going on in NYC than you could probably do in a lifetime. The flip side is that most people don't go to NYC and obsess about seeing EVERY show currently running on Broadway. They see one Broadway show. They see one major department store, one museum, and drive by the most impressive buildings....I think you understand all that, but it's one of the things I really LOVE about WDW: being in the middle of all that energy! It's electrifying! I also keep going back, because all that activity makes each visit unique. It's also why I don't obsess planning every minute. WDW is not nearly so big as NYC, but has well over 100 places to EAT! You just can't eat at every place in a week. Again, each visit is unique, just by changing where you eat.

Visiting WDW is also a bit like visiting cathedrals in Europe...sure, each one is unique...but after 100 Madonna and Child paintings...you kinda get the gist. They start to blur..and it's no longer quite so mesmerizing. So too, a week of WDW is enough. I love WDW, and have visited many times, but seven days of Mickey, Disney songs floating in my head, and BUFFETS (actually three days of buffets...:rolleyes1 ) I've had my fill, especially crowds/lines...I just want a small-portion-home cooked meal, the privacy of my own bathroom (no lines), and quiet. Over seven days, we've had lots of great meals, been on most of the rides (more than once), been to the pool, visited several resorts, ridden the monorail, seen shows, a few characters, and spent a fair bit of $. I've found seven day is about my limit.

I do suggest a signature dinner! Narcoosee's is among my favorites, and among the most romantic. Try to get an ADR just about an hour before the MK fireworks start. Also, DO let WDW know it's your honeymoon. They probably won't do anything MAJOR, but they will likley sprinkle a small bit of pixie dust your way. WDW is a popular honeymoon destination. You are far from alone. One thing we most certainly get at WDW, is a quality experience. Not everything is 100% perfect all the time (no place is that good) but repeatedly, WDW strives to give my family a quality experience. When they make mistakes, they make an effort to correct them. We always come away feeling like we've have a quality experience. I wish I could say they about every other place I've visited ove the years. In that sense, WDW is an excellent place for a honeymoon.

Have fun!
 
5-7 is totally do-able in my opinion, especially if you are there for 7 days.

Like a PP said, prioritize what you want to do.
 
We went for our honeymoon. That is plenty of time to do everything. We even went to one of the water parks. We did not meet any characters except Chip and Dale because we just walked up to them. If you want to meet all of the characters it should still be enough time but you won't be able to take many breaks.
 
Didn't read all the replies, so I am sure I am repeating. But my answer is yes. My fiance and I went for the first time and stayed for 7 days and I was confident we did and saw everything - at least the "important" stuff and stuff we wanted to see. There were a few rides we opted to skip that we weren't interested in, we didn't spend a lot of time meeting characters, we didn't have interest in some of the shows so we skipped them (we did go see the big ones like Fantasmic, Wishes, parades, etc). We've gone back since our first trip and have been able to go at a much more leisurely pace.

Our style was to get to the parks at opening, break around lunch and go back to the resort to swim and relax, and then go back out at night. We hit MK and DHS three times, Epcot twice, and AK once during our 7 days. If we had two less days, we still would have been fine.

I've never done DL/DCA but from what I have read and from my family who have done both, I have heard that you can't compare the two. The size is the biggest difference. For a honeymoon, I would definitely go for WDW especially if it might be that once in a lifetime trip.
 
I'd go for it, but I'd definitely spend sometime relaxing. We always go for 4 or 5 nights with 4 day tickets (no PH) and always see everything we want to without waking up early. Not to mention we have two teens.

I'd go for seven nights, spend five or six days in the parks (1 or 2 at MK, 2 at Epcot, 1 at DHS, and 1 at DAK) and maybe spend a day at one of Disney's Water Parks. You could also try a round of golf and I highly recommend Downtown Disney and Disney's Boardwalk (both in the evening and at night).

Definitely stay at Grand Floridian if you can afford it and I'd try a dinner at Victoria & Albert's (extremely, extremely expensive; jackets required), Narcoossee's (offers views of Wishes, which is the Magic Kingdom fireworks), and Citricos. Also, do a Speciality Fireworks Cruise on the lagoon.

During the day, you can rent watercraft and sail (or even parasail) on the lagoon. If you're going in Nov/Dec than definitely see the Osbourne Lights at DHS and the Candlelight Processional at Epcot.

There's lots of romantic fun to be had at WDW, so I'd give it a try.
 
7 days is a lot and though it's impossible to do every single thing in that time, I do think you can get done everything you want in that time. I went three times pre-kids with my husband and we got a LOT done. We would hit rope drop and stay until closing. But we never had more than 4 Disney days (since we also did IOA/US/SW). So that was a day per park. If I had 6 Disney days, then 2 MK, 2 EP, 1 DHS, 1 AK would do it great!

I find that we really don't have to wake up early. The parks opened at 9am, which has always been easy for us to make. But we eat breakfast in our rooms with food from home, so that helps for a relaxing morning. If you fly and want to eat in your room, then Garden Grocer delivers. Or, if you're an early riser naturally then there's plenty of time. I don't sleep in, but I don't consider myself a very early waker either.

Many people will tell you to make sure you have some downtime so you can relax. That is fine if that's your style. Don't plan to go-go-go if you normally like to relax. For my husband and I, we thrived on go-go-go and easily made 7 different parks in 7 days from open to close. (That was years ago though, when I was in my mid-to-late 20's. I don't think I could do it now). Now that we have kids, our touring style has had to change, but we're still always there at rope drop and still go full speed ahead for the first part of the day.

That time of year is a great time to go. We're going the first full week after Thanksgiving this year. We've been the first week of Dec a different year.

As for planning, we like the Unofficial Guide and also the website easywdw. We don't plan everything out on paper - but we know enough about the rides and what's busy when to plan as we go and hit everything with perfect timing. Being educated about the attractions really helps!
 
My experience is that most people make it about 36-48 hours after arriving before they hit a wall and need like a half day to sleep and adjust a bit. If you plan on going all-out for 5-7 days you're going to be exhausted and probably hate life by the end of it

With kids, we find that we can go 5 days before needing a break day - but that's with no late nights. Without kids, we easily were able to do 7 days all-out. It really depends on the person. If you have youth on your side, then that makes it easier too! Also, that time of year, the parks close fairly early so that forces you into bed on time. Doing all-out in the summer is totally different, due to both the heat and the longer park hours. I'm sure I wouldn't be able to handle more than a couple days of that. But winter is different.
 
Go for it! Just touring the resorts at WDW is fun, especially at Christmas time when the amazing decorations are up. DH and I have had one trip by ourselves and one of our favorite days was when we slept late, swam, and hit the monorail resorts for drinks. We also had fancy tea at GF, so fun!
 
My wife and I honeymooned last year in WDW, absolutely loved it. I planned our entire trip out and we did everything we wanted in the parks in one day per park. We "went hard" and literally got every character, ride, show we wanted. We loved it.
We went for 10 days (spent 3 at Universal Studios parks) but could of done everything we wanted in Disney in 5 easily.
 


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