As I mentioned before, this trip has been in the works for quite some time. I have been planning this trip since the summer of 2006!

So here is what happened. Nate and I have have been married almost 8.5 yrs. The only vacation we have taken together was our honeymoon. We went to Gatlinburg, TN. The planning was more focused on the wedding, not the honeymoon. It was nice, but after everything that I know now, I wish we would have gone to WDW

It never even crossed our minds! Well, after our first two kids were born, we decided we wanted to attempt a little get-a-way. So, we decided to take the kids to St. Louis for a long weekend. The kids were both very young, 3 and 18mos. We had no idea how they would travel, so we didn't want to go too far. We went to the zoo, the Science museum, Grant's Farm, the Children's musesum and ate at the Spaghetti Factory. Honestly, not very much planning went into that trip. I knew we wanted to go to the zoo and I asked a co-worker whom had taken her kids years ago, what else there was to do. She gave me a few ideas and I went home and got driving directions. That's about it! That said, the trip could have been a lot better. We were at the zoo on the hottest day of the year. Neither one of us had ever been there before and we kept walking in circles. Everyone was hot and cranky so we just left without seeing everything.

Then, one of the museums that we went to was closing about 30 minutes after we got there.

And last, even though we had directions for the Spaghetti Factory and knew the vicinity of where it should be, we had a heck of a time trying to find it! We are from a small town and never deal with traffic (4 stop-lights total in our town) so being lost in St. Louis was not much fun! Even though our first trip had some not-so nice moments, we still enjoyed it - well, most of it
So, when we got home, I was talking to my sister about our lovely trip and somehow the subject of Disney World came up. I guess since I had never been there, I never really thought about WDW - ever (now it's all I think about

) That conversation led to the thought that "hey maybe we could go to Disney World". My sister has three kids too and she has been to WDW. Her FIL lives nearby. Then that thought led to "let's make this a trip for the whole family and have our mom and step-dad and 2 step-brothers come too". Ok, so now I was starting to get excited. I found Disney's web-site and started to do a little research. I couldn't believe how much stuff there was to do. So, after more discussion, everyone was in and the planning began. This was the summer of 2006 and we were planning the trip for June 2007. I was doing all the research, and my sister and I would discuss it. After awhile, I could tell I was getting on her nerves. She "says" she likes to have a plan, but she really is a more spur-of-the-moment type. So, I backed off and tried to discuss my plans with Nate instead. He got annoyed too!

Anytime I asked for his opinion about something I got the same response, "I don't know, we'll figure it out when we get there!"

So, as the next summer grew closer, there was less and less talk of the trip. Finally, my sister said, that they were not going to be able to go June 2007 because they were going to be remodeling their house and wouldn't be able to afford it, but we could do it the next summer (2008).

I was devestated.
Now, this next part is going to sound crazy. Nate and I knew we wanted to have more kids. We also knew that we didn't want to take a baby to WDW and I did not want to go while pregnant. So, going in summer of 2008 was throwing a wrench in our plans. But, I was bound and determined I was going to WDW, so we decided to hold off on having another baby a little while longer. I tried to put Disney out of my mind for a while too (impossible). So, time passes and I can see that the construction is going pretty slow on my sister's house. At the time ADR's could be made at 180 days and it was getting close so I asked my sister about going again. This time I was not only disappointed, but just plain mad. She would never give me a straight answer. I knew they were not going to go but she didn't want to disappoint me so she kept saying they wouldn't know for a while. As for my mom and her family, she never really had a desire to go, but thought it would be nice to see the grandkids having fun and would be able to help us out. However, she only wanted to go, if both of us were going. So, now what do we do? Try to have a baby, of course!
And that is exactly what we did. After the second trip failed Nate and I decided it would be best for us to go to WDW on our own. I talked to my mom and she agreed that she would keep the baby while we were gone.

So, I was all geared up and ready to plan. I found the DIS and have been lurking for quite awhile and to be honest, after reading some of the group trip experiences, I am glad it will just be the four of us!
That is a lot of information for tonight. I apologize for the length. I am new at this, so if I'm doing something wrong let me know! I hope someone will read this. I really don't have anyone to share my obsessive planning with anymore. Well, even if no one responds, I will keep writing. I'm finding it to be therapuetic.
