mchelle77
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Officially at 100% sure that we are leaving NH on 11/27! My husband booked both inquiries AND a third one that was a biggie. So he is officially turning down the 11/29 if she does call back.
I also just filled my mother in on our plans - guilt ... last time she wanted to come with us and we said we wanted our daughter's first trip to be just the three of us. She was PO'd but got over it. We mentioned maybe the next trip ... which is this one. My mother (1) hates waiting in lines and (2) doesn't like walking. She isn't patient, doesn't like crowds ... she'd want to go only because her only grandchild is going. But she would drive my husband crazy. We had an agreement that I wouldn't mention the trip to her until we hit October, but that I wasn't NOT telling her because that would be awful of me. I told her the other day and she seemed OK with it. Didn't mention coming, so that's good. I'll know more the next time I talk to her.
Now HIS family ... they all know. BUT! They don't know that we're skipping out on Thanksgiving. He said he's not telling them until we leave. He's going to give his cousin (who hosts) the cash we'd normally contribute for the meal, but not say anything about not being there on Thursday. Should be interesting to hear that reaction. They're all very close and I don't think any of his family have ever missed a holiday, at least not for a vacation (only for in-law obligations)
I also just filled my mother in on our plans - guilt ... last time she wanted to come with us and we said we wanted our daughter's first trip to be just the three of us. She was PO'd but got over it. We mentioned maybe the next trip ... which is this one. My mother (1) hates waiting in lines and (2) doesn't like walking. She isn't patient, doesn't like crowds ... she'd want to go only because her only grandchild is going. But she would drive my husband crazy. We had an agreement that I wouldn't mention the trip to her until we hit October, but that I wasn't NOT telling her because that would be awful of me. I told her the other day and she seemed OK with it. Didn't mention coming, so that's good. I'll know more the next time I talk to her.
Now HIS family ... they all know. BUT! They don't know that we're skipping out on Thanksgiving. He said he's not telling them until we leave. He's going to give his cousin (who hosts) the cash we'd normally contribute for the meal, but not say anything about not being there on Thursday. Should be interesting to hear that reaction. They're all very close and I don't think any of his family have ever missed a holiday, at least not for a vacation (only for in-law obligations)