turns out it was too hot to consume great quantities of alcohol, so just had 1 drink, a whole heap of water, and then i went to bed.
it was ... ok. i got to hold my nephew for the first time (omg, he is so adorable, and smelt so yummy -- just on 7 months old) but we get together so infrequently, and for such small amounts of time that it's just a giant mess of noise and confusion and so on. afterwards i always feel vaguely unhappy as though i went to a lot of time/effort for very little reward... i am the outcast of the family, the one that has nothing in common with the others, so i usually end up sitting on the sidelines, observing. oh, to be one of the favourites
but i got to see my family and catch up, so that was good and i appreciated the time we did get to spend together, and carlo got his birthday presents, so all was essentially good.
my sister may not be coming on our trip next year, so i am trying to contingency plan today - trying to decide between [disney, new york, chicago and san fran] or [disney plus the 14 night eastbound repo cruise] or some other variation... too many options