Hi Michelle!
First of all, my thoughts are with you and your family!

How terrifying to have a family member over there right now! Please keep us updated on your brother-in-law's situation.
I am so happy to be reading your PTR! I have been waiting for it!
I absolutely can't wait to hear all about the cruise. We have yet to do one, but it is on my radar for 2013. That year I turn 40, Katie turns 10, and my parents each turn 65!

A lot of milestone birthdays in the family that year, so it will be a great way to celebrate. My parents aren't big park people, but they have already signed onto the cruise. And there is no way after that Chris will be able to say no!
Just like others have said..."you are guuud girl" in getting your resister to sign up for the trip. And that pin code, and those extra days at AKL....stoke of luck and brilliance on your part, I would say!
As for the Parks though, I completely agree with you. I wouldn't even bring up the subject. Every trip I take, I never seem to have enough time to do what I want to do at the resorts. I would love to take a quick trip like yours where the agenda going in does not involve the parks, so you can simply relax and enjoy the resorts without feeling like you are missing something or not maximizing your tickets by being in the parks 24-7.
Plus, as we mentioned before, the rest of your family (yes, even Don), might end up leaving the trip thinking in the back of their mind that they actually missed something by not being in the parks and may be more inclined to return for another trip.
Also, I think you will score big-time points with Don on credibility if you stick to the plan of no-parks and show him that you really were serious about that.
I really can't wait to hear all about your trip, and look forward to counting down with you!