The Bachelor Jake thread Spoilers welcome

[Bren's Mom]

I can't believe that no one on this thread had anything to say about the previews for the Molly and Jason wedding!

 

[happygirl]

I can't believe that no one on this thread had anything to say about the previews for the Molly and Jason wedding!

I can't wait for it. I wish them nothing but luck as well.

 

[RUDisney]

I can't believe that no one on this thread had anything to say about the previews for the Molly and Jason wedding!

Eh, that's a couple week's away yet. We've got to see the final rose ceremony first.... then we can worry about the wedding.

At least I can go to that wedding in my jammies and not have to buy a new dress.

 

[itchin2go]

I can't believe that no one on this thread had anything to say about the previews for the Molly and Jason wedding!

I'm just not interested. Mesnick creeps me out. Molly's pretty icky too. Just not a fan.

P.S. I just remembered that I didn't watch Trista's wedding either, even though I think she and Ryan are a cute couple.

 

[SevenSeasLagoon5]

I'm happy for them. I wouldn't have picked Vienna for Jake. I wish them nothing but happiness I can't even image how hard it was for them with all that tabloid trash that is going on about them.

With that said my heart is breaking for Tenley, I can only image how hard this was for her getting rejected.

I don't know why I am so irritated with Jake choosing Vienna!!?? It may just be enough for me to stop watching the Bachelor. I guess I'm sick of watching the bachelor(ettes) choose the worst of the bunch! Okay, I know that hasn't been every season, but many. I bought into the whole genuine, pure image of Jake. But in the end, he let many sweet, pretty girls go. Instead he chose the one with a questionable personality who had plastic surgeries (and still isn't as pretty as the others). It's no surprise to me that he has never had a successful relationship up to this point. He lets Tenley go b/c he doesn't feel the heat??!! She's beautiful....give it time. It's easy for a guy to feel the heat with a sleeze and a manipulator! Rant over.

 

[happygirl]

I don't know why I am so irritated with Jake choosing Vienna!!?? It may just be enough for me to stop watching the Bachelor. I guess I'm sick of watching the bachelor(ettes) choose the worst of the bunch! Okay, I know that hasn't been every season, but many. I bought into the whole genuine, pure image of Jake. But in the end, he let many sweet, pretty girls go. Instead he chose the one with a questionable personality who had plastic surgeries (and still isn't as pretty as the others). It's no surprise to me that he has never had a successful relationship up to this point. He lets Tenley go b/c he doesn't feel the heat??!! She's beautiful....give it time. It's easy for a guy to feel the heat with a sleeze and a manipulator! Rant over.

I can understand your viewpoint. I will say Vienna wasn't my first second or third or choice LOL. However, when I warch it back I can see they are so comfortable together and there is a ease about there time together. We only get they want us to see. I like Jake didn't pick the prettiest girl or the most wealthy girl. He picked the one that made him happy he followed his heart. I think has been the most sincere bachleor there has been in a while. I like he didn't lead the girls on if he didn't feel it you were gone.

 

[3prettyprincesses]

I can understand your viewpoint. I will say Vienna wasn't my first second or third or choice LOL. However, when I warch it back I can see they are so comfortable together and there is a ease about there time together. We only get they want us to see. I like Jake didn't pick the prettiest girl or the most wealthy girl. He picked the one that made him happy he followed his heart. I think has been the most sincere bachleor there has been in a while. I like he didn't lead the girls on if he didn't feel it you were gone.

I agree with this. Sure, Vienna isn't the prettiest but for some reason, she and Jake seem to be smitten with one another. It does say a lot about him that he didn't pick the bombshell girl and sent other girls home when he knew there wasn't anything between them. This has been one of the most difficult bachelors to read, he does what he wants and seems sincere. Most of the other ones, it was all about how many girls they could make out with. You could tell they weren't serious. I like Jake, he's not perfect but I think he was trying hard to do the right thing with the girls. Heck, on the Women Tell All episode, all the girls still looked like they were in love with him even though he sent them all home! Bottom line is that Jake seems happy with Vienna and ABC can spin the show any way they want. I'd guess there was lots more between him and Vienna that we never saw because they wanted to showcase her as 'the bad girl' who all the other girls hate. That's big ratings right there!

I'm looking forward to the finale. Hopefully this will a bachelor that actually follows through and stays engaged! And I'm looking forward to Jason & Molly's wedding too. I watched that season and when Jason originally sent Molly home and told him that she thinks he's making a huge mistake, you could see that he immediately regretted his decision. I'm glad they're getting married. I watched Trista & Ryan's wedding too and loved it.

 

[Robinrs]

I agree with this. Sure, Vienna isn't the prettiest but for some reason, she and Jake seem to be smitten with one another. It does say a lot about him that he didn't pick the bombshell girl and sent other girls home when he knew there wasn't anything between them. This has been one of the most difficult bachelors to read, he does what he wants and seems sincere. Most of the other ones, it was all about how many girls they could make out with. You could tell they weren't serious. I like Jake, he's not perfect but I think he was trying hard to do the right thing with the girls. Heck, on the Women Tell All episode, all the girls still looked like they were in love with him even though he sent them all home! Bottom line is that Jake seems happy with Vienna and ABC can spin the show any way they want. I'd guess there was lots more between him and Vienna that we never saw because they wanted to showcase her as 'the bad girl' who all the other girls hate. That's big ratings right there!

Another viewpoint:

She flirted mercilessly to a man who, I think inately, is very small and insecure on the inside.

I think he NEEDS to feel superior to a woman, and needs one who will aDORE him. This is a basic need for a man but especially one who seemed to be afraid of secure, tough or independent GORGEOUS women.

Jake and Vienna are a match more than you can see the outside. He needs giggly, immature and adoring, she is just in it to WIN. This is NOT a match that lasts but it sure brings a lot of people together.

I'm sure his family is about his choice, who the heck brings a child up to marry a woman who treated her exes like she did in the short amount of time she's been on the earth? Oh well, I've survived so many BAD relationships in my family in my life, I just sit back, wait, and after awhile it all comes to past...

 

[itchin2go]

However, when I warch it back I can see they are so comfortable together and there is a ease about there time together.

I 100% agree with this. With many of these shows, I don't see any "chemistry" with any of the contestants. I see chemistry between Jake and Vienna. Maybe I'm imagining it, but they do seem at ease with eachother. When they're around eachother, they both have that goofy "I'm in love" grin on their faces.

Another viewpoint:

She flirted mercilessly to a man who, I think inately, is very small and insecure on the inside.

I see this point as well. From that yearbook picture of Jake, we can see that he wasn't always a head-turner. Vienna's unabashed adoration for the guy had to be appealing. Someone who is a geek at heart has got to be wondering if he's being punked, and Vienna seemed sincere with him from the beginning.

 

[Robinrs]

I 100% agree with this. With many of these shows, I don't see any "chemistry" with any of the contestants. I see chemistry between Jake and Vienna. Maybe I'm imagining it, but they do seem at ease with eachother. When they're around eachother, they both have that goofy "I'm in love" grin on their faces.



I see this point as well. From that yearbook picture of Jake, we can see that he wasn't always a head-turner. Vienna's unabashed adoration for the guy had to be appealing. Someone who is a geek at heart has got to be wondering if he's being punked, and Vienna seemed sincere with him from the beginning.

It's called WHIP APPEAL. It works!

 

[3prettyprincesses]

Another viewpoint:

She flirted mercilessly to a man who, I think inately, is very small and insecure on the inside.

I think he NEEDS to feel superior to a woman, and needs one who will aDORE him. This is a basic need for a man but especially one who seemed to be afraid of secure, tough or independent GORGEOUS women.

Jake and Vienna are a match more than you can see the outside. He needs giggly, immature and adoring, she is just in it to WIN. This is NOT a match that lasts but it sure brings a lot of people together.

I'm sure his family is about his choice, who the heck brings a child up to marry a woman who treated her exes like she did in the short amount of time she's been on the earth? Oh well, I've survived so many BAD relationships in my family in my life, I just sit back, wait, and after awhile it all comes to past...

That is a good point, Jake has said many times that he was no looker in HS so maybe his inner geek is amazed that a girl could seem so into him. Tenley, Ali and Gia are much more attractive so maybe that made him feel insecure too. Like he couldn't handle being with a girl who is so pretty. I've known guys like that who are themselves good looking guys but end up with average looking women. Nothing wrong with that at all either.

I 100% agree with this. With many of these shows, I don't see any "chemistry" with any of the contestants. I see chemistry between Jake and Vienna. Maybe I'm imagining it, but they do seem at ease with eachother. When they're around eachother, they both have that goofy "I'm in love" grin on their faces.

I see this point as well. From that yearbook picture of Jake, we can see that he wasn't always a head-turner. Vienna's unabashed adoration for the guy had to be appealing. Someone who is a geek at heart has got to be wondering if he's being punked, and Vienna seemed sincere with him from the beginning.

They do have that sappy, star struck look don't they. I remember him saying on one of the shows that he was going to just basically kick back and fall for Vienna (this was in reference to all the women hating her and warning him). He took her back to his room when all the other girls were just waiting around during one of the rose ceremonies.

I'll be very curious to see if it lasts. I hope it does but sooo many times I've watched the Bachelor and thought that the couple would make it, when a couple of months later they split up. We'll see.

 

[happygirl]

That is a good point, Jake has said many times that he was no looker in HS so maybe his inner geek is amazed that a girl could seem so into him. Tenley, Ali and Gia are much more attractive so maybe that made him feel insecure too. Like he couldn't handle being with a girl who is so pretty. I've known guys like that who are themselves good looking guys but end up with average looking women. Nothing wrong with that at all either.



They do have that sappy, star struck look don't they. I remember him saying on one of the shows that he was going to just basically kick back and fall for Vienna (this was in reference to all the women hating her and warning him). He took her back to his room when all the other girls were just waiting around during one of the rose ceremonies.



I'll be very curious to see if it lasts. I hope it does but sooo many times I've watched the Bachelor and thought that the couple would make it, when a couple of months later they split up. We'll see.

If they can make it through with all the tabloid stuff that is going about them. I think they can survive anything

 

[Robinrs]

If they can make it through with all the tabloid stuff that is going about them. I think they can survive anything

Or his buddies (if he HAS any) giving him the "all those woman and you picked HER?????"

 

[robinb]

I'm sure his family is about his choice, who the heck brings a child up to marry a woman who treated her exes like she did in the short amount of time she's been on the earth?

Did you see the snippet in the preview for next week? They don't seem to like her AT ALL!

 

[Robinrs]

Did you see the snippet in the preview for next week? They don't seem to like her AT ALL!

I'm so over Bach promos!! They edit them to make them seem so different than they really are.

 

[robinb]

I'm so over Bach promos!! They edit them to make them seem so different than they really are.

Oh no ... this was a good one! Vienna was bragging that "all the girls hated her from the beginning!" and then it cuts to his mom who says "May I interrupt? Is she the girl that everyone hated?" and then back to Vienna preening. It's probably just a "Bachelor Edit" but still good fun .

Anyway ... here is the promo: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNDfTYQb9vg

 

[Robinrs]

Oh no ... this was a good one! Vienna was bragging that "all the girls hated her from the beginning!" and then it cuts to his mom who says "May I interrupt? Is she the girl that everyone hated?" and then back to Vienna preening. It's probably just a "Bachelor Edit" but still good fun .

Anyway ... here is the promo: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNDfTYQb9vg

Oh, no I've seen it... but remember:

The "I'm Pregnant" Promo

The "Get on a plane and come here" promo

I'm willing to bet right after Mom says that they will all join in like her hick family and make excuses for her lack of social skills.

They've fooled me for the last time!!

 

[happygirl]

I will never understand why people belive all the crap in the trashy tabloids.

People will tell the magazines anything they want to hear for money. I have read police record where Vienna EX was arrested to stalking her and breaking into her parents house. I haven't found any concrete information that shows me that Vienna is a bad person stealing money or worse. Until I see something more concrete I will just think of Vienna as goofy and free spirited

 

[Robinrs]

I will never understand why people belive all the crap in the trashy tabloids.

People will tell the magazines anything they want to hear for money. I have read police record where Vienna EX was arrested to stalking her and breaking into her parents house. I haven't found any concrete information that shows me that Vienna is a bad person stealing money or worse. Until I see something more concrete I will just think of Vienna as goofy and free spirited

I agree.

She's goofy, free spirited, horsy looking, fake and annoying. To each his own.

If I read not one article or heard one piece of gossip she would not be anything I could stand more than 2 minutes.

 

[Wishing on a star]

Nope, I don't believe Rozlyn for one second....

Like somebody posted as a comment on RS site - "So, EVERYONE is a liar, EXCEPT Rozlyn???" Ummmm, yeah right!!!

Okay, I know that half of this show is 'staged' and all of that other crap... But, no way do I believe that Rozlyn is completely innocent here.

Rozlyn has NOT been forthcoming, AT ALL.
Nothing but excuses and blanket denial. (Denial that is not even believable)

She started out saying "My personal life is my business"... NO denial there... Just a completely ridiculous statement.

Then the whole "Just using his phone to call my son..." Ummm, Yeah Right! Again, completely ridiculous and not even believable. (Other contestants who are mothers know the drill.)

Okay, lets skip that and go on to the whole "The other girls did not speak up earlier...." OF COURSE NOT!!!! THEY HAVE BEEN UNDER CONTRACTUAL LIMITATIONS!!! HELLLLOOOOOO!!!!! THEY SIMPLY CAN NOT GIVE ANY REAL DETAILS!!! These girls know the 'drill'

Sure, now that it has come to the WTA episode, the producers have given their permission and/or encouragement for the girls to speak up.

You are trying to tell me that somebody like Ella, and all of the others as well, are going to come on here and outright lie... somehow, I am not buying that.

And, as far as why Rozlyn was escorted on and off - Honey, this is now becoming a possible legal matter... She is making some serious allegations here. So, really, now that this is the case.. she is lucky that she was allowed to speak on the WTA show at all.

Like I said - I know this show is a lot of drama and a lot of scripted crap... but, this time, I think there is something behind it all...