Wow, wow, WOW.
You guys have nailed it!!!!
The comments that Ben's mom made were SO telling.
Ben is a lost little boy.
Seriously LOST.
No wonder he doesn't know who he loves when he doesn't begin to know what love is.
I liked the comment about the limo door!!!
Ben has said absolutely nothing about how committed he is and what he can offer Lauren.
It is all a 'Lost boy', commenting on how SHE has, and can, 'support' HIM.
Last night, all the footage that we never got to see, which meant that nobody really got to know Ben, really came to light.
He is a typical screwed up Lost Boy, who feels insecure and unloveable, (his words) so he is looking for a replacement 'mommie'.
Did any of you see the wife swap with Sean Lowe, and how Catherine kind of was roped in to moving in with him, and supporting his life. Down to every bite of food food that had to be prepared for him to meet his strict diet... and how she washed and ironed and folded his socks. He actually left her with his to-do list while he took off everyday to live his life.
Poor Lauren... Methinks that she is in for a similar command performance.
His issues will always, ALWAYS, have to come first.