Floridalol,
I dont think Fantasia Sam was suggesting that anyone would find MetalGuru's opinion upsetting - as you rightly say, each to their own, if someone doesnt agree with you, nothing you can do about it.
What I think Sam was really referring to was the somewhat forthright manner of Guru's reply. It doesn't bother me one bit, but at a quick glance, it's tone could come over as being perhaps a little bit strident.
Because you are
writing your replies/views here, you dont get the opportunity to show your intended tone/manner thru your inflection or expression as you would in a conversation. That can very easily lead to misunderstandings which in turn can lead to others feeling that the writer is being rude, insulting, aggressive, etc, when that is far from the intention.
Thats one reason emoticons are used on forums like this- to give a way of trying to show the tone of a reply/statement.
Sam was just trying to ensure that we keep these boards friendly and that we dont get the sort of unpleasantness that afflicts so many chat rooms because of this kind of misunderstanding.
Anyway, that's my opinion... and if you dont like it, well you can kiss my...
