I play EQ1 and have for ...3 years now
I am a casual player meaning I play 1- 3 hours a night depending.
There are casual guilds ( a guild is a group of people playing under a name and working together)
My husband and I have been playing as a hobby together since we started. We have a lot of fun and enjoy the time and adventures we have with friends...
its 12.95 per month per account. You will need 2 accounts ..1 for each computer. there is a "gold version" that has several of the expansion packs included. The kitty char is called a Vah shir and they are cool, though I prefer dark elves.
I will say it is addicting, You form friendships with people...like on a message board..but much more involved. you group with people and need to depend on them in groups in dangerous " places. You learn how to become good at your class...and learn who is good or bad at thiers.
there are tradeskill such as baking, brewing and jewelcraft which is a lot of fun.
There are now quest people located in many zones that are designed to be finsihed within an hour or 2
there is also instanced zones - with a group of 6 or less..you can enter a custom encounter (an LDON) and earn points to "buy" very very good gear...do a encounter 2-3 times a week and your well on your way to earning excellent gear without the camping and long hours other posters have mentioned.
( that does require the Lost Dungeons of Norrath expansion)
there is plenty of room for a casual player, but there are many people who commit a lot of time to EQ, you must balence real life time and game time. some people are horrid about it, I myself do not find it difficult. I play after my little ones are in bed...raid and group and then camp out when i get tired. it is great for me, as I dont go anywhere after the kids are in bed... I hate watching TV. I can only read so many message boards. And eq really challenges me, I get to play with my husband and SOOO many other people and do so many diffrent things...all for less than a night at the movies.
You will not get into the "uber" guild playing casually...but that is no reson not to enjoy the game. I have a lvl 66 enchater..its taken me the full 3 yrs of play to get her there and I have had friends from the beging who I STILL play with today.
I mantain our guild website and am an officer, we do weekly raids, but we have recently backed off ffrom raiding 3-4 times a week...still most of the guild is very casual.
Its a great hobby, always somthing to talk about, plan, a new placce to go, stratagies to try. Over all ..a bargin for the money involved. My husband and I never get bored in conversation..besides RL ..theres always EQ to plan, he just finished his epic quest for his necromancer and that was a blast.
anywho. best of luck on your descion