Team Donald – Biggest Loser “No Excuses” 2012 Challenge

And not in a good way. :sad2:

Let me just start by saying that I hate going to the doctor. I hate going to any doctor. Why?? Well, as a "fluffy girl" I get the usual disgusted looks from the physician followed by the chat of "what are you doing to lose weight?". It's not like I woke up this morning and realized that I have 200 pounds to lose. It is very real to me what I need to do and I am not stupid to the adverse effect my weight can have on my health. So the theme of this story is that I hate to go to the doctor.

Of course, I had a doctor appointment this morning. I go about every 3-4 months for updated blood work and medication refills. I also needed the doctor to fill out some paperwork for me. My husband and I are trying to be approved as adoptive parents. My baby making parts don't work well. Combine that with my age, and well, adoption is a better option. The form basically states that I'm physically healthy enough to raise a child. When I called last week to make the appointment, I found out that my regular doctor is no longer with the practice, and would I like to see the physicians assistant. No, not really, but make the appointment. So I go in, do the regular BP/temp/preliminary stuff and the PA comes in. We go over my meds and as she is listening to my chest, I get "the questions". Yes, I am trying to lose weight. No, I'm not following a specific plan. No not really exercising - just trying to focus on better eating habits. No I'm not interested in information about weight loss surgery. Then I discuss the form I need her to fill out. She steps out of the room and comes back about five minutes later. Then she begins to tell me how she is not comfortable filling out the form. Basically, with my diabetes and high blood pressure and (here comes my favorite term) my morbid obesity, I am in a high risk zone. She is not sure she feels comfortable approving me to be healthy enough to adopt a child.

I'm too fat to be a parent. Gee, thanks.

So I have to go back in two weeks and she will make a decision by then as to whether or not she will sign off on the form.

You know, I try so hard and this is why I get so defeated. In a matter of 15 minutes this morning, I was made to feel like stepped on dog crap. I pasted a smile on my face and went into the office. And now I am sitting at home watching Biggest Loser. And I'm sad. And frustrated. And aggravated. And sad.

Not a good day.

I am so sorry you had such a hard time at your doctors:hug:Now do what others have said and prove them wrong! You know you deserve to be a parent so show them you've got what it takes and dont give up your dream:thumbsup2

Thanks to everyone for the kind thoughts and words. I really hope I didnt drag you all down-that is so unlike me:eek:
 
QOTD Wednesday, January 18
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?

Apparently during times of stress I need to avoid chocolate orange:rotfl:
I normally plan treats in like wine at the wkend and my mums apple tarts because I could never say no to that (to yummy for words). Avoiding crisps (chips) right now because once I start I cant stop:scared1:
 
THREE COMPLIMENTS FOR YOU:

1. You were a STRONG person and sat with your aunt in the hospital for a long time. Some folks just can't/won't "do" hospital visits.

2. You didn't eat the ENTIRE chocolate orange.

3. You got a handle on the problem, took steps to resolve it, and came clean with us and are ready for a fresh start!!

You are very kind to think up compliments for me:) Mind I'd probably have eaten more if there had been more left:rotfl2:
 
QOTD Wednesday, January 18
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?


Well.... there are definitely a few "trigger" foods that I have trouble being around. Sweet potato chips and peanut butter M&Ms come to mind first. But I CAN have them in the house, as long as the bag isn't open. But if I give myself permission to eat something like this (like having M&Ms at the movies) it is difficult to stay in control. What works best is if I preportion (using my handy-dandy digital food scale) the food into a ziptop baggie and ONLY TAKE what I can eat. Usually this means sharing a smaller bag with DD. The HUGE bags are just trouble for us!!

I do NOT buy these items any longer. I have NO control with the chips and I am the only one in the house who likes them, so best to not have them around. And the M&Ms only get bought if there is a movie on the schedule and I plan for the calories.

There are lots of munchie things that I have trouble controlling, but they weren't so wonderful that they were worth keeping in my repertoire, so I just gave them up...... trail mix, honey wheat pretzels, Lindt truffles (I will occasionally buy just 1 as a treat.... and I got a few in my Christmas stocking).... that is all I can think of for now.

That said, I do find room for a treat several times a week. It is getting harder to find "healthy" treats, since I am watching my carbs as well as my calories, but I am managing. Last night I had a carb splurg and had a TB of Nutella (DD's Christmas gift!), on a toasted low carb pita along with a cup of my special hot drink concoction. Too much sugar, but MMMMMM! It hit the spot! And a chocolate Vitamuffin makes a great treat too.

TTYL.........................P
 

Uggh!!!! I just lost my post. And it was full of absolutely brilliant replies to everyone.:rotfl:

So, I am not going to try recreate it right now, but I did have a couple of things....

First--

Lindsay--Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday Dear Lindsay, Happy Birthday to you!!!!! Love you xoxoxo :goodvibes

Ruthie--:hug: I have a 20 yo biological son, buy we have gone through 2 failed adoptions and a miscarriage. It is so hard and you feel so vulnerable.:hug: The PA sounds like she might not have handled things very well. BUT, please, please don't use this as a reason to quit or fall off the wagon or give up your dream of adopting. If you were trying to get pregnant the doctor would encourage you to be as healthy as you can be, so try to look at this time where you are getting ready to adopt as a time to be as healthy as you can be. Look at it as part of the preparation for adoption.:hug: Going through the adoption process is so hard and brings up so many emotions. Getting healthy will only help to make you feel better.:hug: You can do it Ruthie!!!! And when you have that new child in your life you will be ready--you will have more energy and will be ready for whatever life throws at you!:hug:

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BBL. Everyone have a healthy, happy day!:goodvibes The sun is out here and the tornado sirens are quiet, so it has to be a great day, right?:thumbsup2
 
Just wanted to say that today has been a much better day for me now that the whiney, moany, feeling sorry-for-myself lunatic that took me over yesterday has gone:worship:

You guys really are a great bunch of people and thanks again for picking me up when I needed it:lovestruc

Rose I did manage to come up with some things I like about myself today (after a fellow team member pointed me in the right direction:lmao:)
1. I am kind-hearted
2. I am loyal
3. I am reliable and trustworthy

Perhaps not the most exciting list but waaaay better than what I had yesterday;)

My mum and I went and sat with my aunt again today (she in a coma but I think she senses us) and when I brought my mum home I made a healthy lunch and had bought ww cookies so I didnt binge on junk so I feeling quite positive today even though I know we have some tough days ahead of us as a family.
Thanks again for all your kind thought and words guys
 
P--I drank half a g-f beer and then walked 30 minutes on the treadmill. Mike said it counts!:rotfl:
 
I don't know how to do the multi-quote thing! :eek:

I appreciate the words of encouragement from everyone after my disasterous day yesterday. While I wanted to detour to my nearest Baskin Robbins last night for a pint of yumminess, I didn't do it. I would have if we had the extra money, but we didn't, so it didn't happen. I woke up this morning feeling a little stronger and will hopefully have a better day.

I do want to prove the PA wrong. I'm still eating better (dry cinnamon Chex cereal for b-fast) and I know that I need an exercise plan. I will figure something out.

Hope everyone has a great day!
 
Wow! I'm gone for a few days, had some issues with getting on the Dis boards, and come back to find that everyone has been busy posting! I'll try to catch up today. In the meantime, Happy Wednesday, Team Donald! :)
 
Good morning friends.

We had a sad day yesterday, our little guinea pig, Fredward died during the night. Ds is much better this morning, and asked me to read the Rainbow bridge poem again today, I read it to him yesterday. Thanks to whoever posted that here after Amy's doggie died. :hug: Today he said, that it didn't make him as sad as yesterday. He drew a beautiful pic of Fred at his after school club yesterday with him eating all his favorite foods. Very cute.
Over the weekend I want to compile all our pics of freddie, and make a little album for ds.

My sister left a card and a bag of candy, which I ate too much of yesterday, and on the card we got a good laugh because she said that "grammy would have fun with fredward in heaven. I think she always wanted a guinea pig." Lol.

So today, I'm ready to get focused and put the candy behind me. I did track it all. All 14 hershey's miniatures that i ate last night.:scared1:

I took the dog for a long walk this morning, and jogged for a good part of it.
I hope to be back later to catch up on the qotds.

A big congratulations to all our biggest losers this week!!! :woohoo:

Thank you, Rose.:hug:

Have a great day everyone!!

Oh my! I'm so sorry to hear about Fredward! Give Michael a big hug from me and DD.... we've been there and we know how sad it is! The mini-album is a great idea. Maybe you could get Michael involved.... have him record, in his words and his writing, the story of how you got Fredward.... or some favorite moments.

Good thing Poko is there to absorb all of that extra love that Michael will have to give now! Sorry I missed seeing this earlier.

Just wanted to say that today has been a much better day for me now that the whiney, moany, feeling sorry-for-myself lunatic that took me over yesterday has gone:worship:

You guys really are a great bunch of people and thanks again for picking me up when I needed it:lovestruc

Rose I did manage to come up with some things I like about myself today (after a fellow team member pointed me in the right direction:lmao:)
1. I am kind-hearted
2. I am loyal
3. I am reliable and trustworthy

Perhaps not the most exciting list but waaaay better than what I had yesterday;)

My mum and I went and sat with my aunt again today (she in a coma but I think she senses us) and when I brought my mum home I made a healthy lunch and had bought ww cookies so I didnt binge on junk so I feeling quite positive today even though I know we have some tough days ahead of us as a family.
Thanks again for all your kind thought and words guys

GREAT choices with the food. I'm SURE it is comforting to your aunt to know that you are there, even if she can't respond. And even if for some reason she DOESN'T know, it probably comforts your Mom to be there with her.

When my DH was in the hospital last year after an accident, I really had to think HARD about how I was going to react to the situation (in regards to food). At the end of the day, whether I ate CRAP or stayed on plan, my DH was STILL going to be in intensive care, he was STILL going to have broken bones, and I was still going to be worried about him. But I could be worried, but not stressed about overeating..... or worried AND stressed about overeating and beating myself up for eating junk. I never for ONE MINUTE regretted eating healthy during that time. And I can assure you, it was the one thanksgiving week of my ENTIRE LIFE that I LOST weight!! :thumbsup2



P--I drank half a g-f beer and then walked 30 minutes on the treadmill. Mike said it counts!:rotfl:

Are you kidding?? That TOTALLY counts!!!! :thumbsup2

I don't know how to do the multi-quote thing! :eek:

I appreciate the words of encouragement from everyone after my disasterous day yesterday. While I wanted to detour to my nearest Baskin Robbins last night for a pint of yumminess, I didn't do it. I would have if we had the extra money, but we didn't, so it didn't happen. I woke up this morning feeling a little stronger and will hopefully have a better day.

I do want to prove the PA wrong. I'm still eating better (dry cinnamon Chex cereal for b-fast) and I know that I need an exercise plan. I will figure something out.

Hope everyone has a great day!

How about some lean protein and complex carbs for breakfast tomorrow, instead of the white carbs? It will fill you up better, keep you full longer, and help you build muscle.

As for an exercise plan..... don't think it needs to be a crazy gung-ho plan. Something as simple as Monday: 30 minutes walking, Tuesday: 15 minutes walking/15 minute free weights, Wednesday: 30 minutes on TM alternating 2 minute walk/1 minute jog..... etc. If you are REALLY just starting exercise, planning to do 30 minutes of walking 4 days plus 1 day of weight training would be a great start. Or try picking up some Leslie Sanson Walk Away The Pounds DVDs..... they are GREAT for beginners.

Wow! I'm gone for a few days, had some issues with getting on the Dis boards, and come back to find that everyone has been busy posting! I'll try to catch up today. In the meantime, Happy Wednesday, Team Donald! :)

Happy Wednesday to you too!!

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Okay.... two toilets cleaned, 3 sinks cleaned, 3 beds made (had to change DD's sheets.... the bottom one was ripped :confused3), 30 minute workout done (sure it should be more, but I will try to get in another 15 minute tonight), mushrooms sauteed for soup, laundry sorted and started a load, did an odd bit of picking up here and there, checked email (woohoo.... free prints code from Shutterfly.... gotta get those done today!) Need to get the soup ingredients in a pot and get it started before I head out at 11:55 am to pick up DD after her English mid-term.

TTYL........................P
 
Healthy Habits Results Week 2: Spaceship Earth

Congratulations to all our participants!

Team Mickey had 7 participants:
BMC423
cclovesdis
glass1/2fll
KDIPIAZZ
MelindaRuns
myweegirls
RutgersAlum

Team Donald had 20 participants:
4HOLIDAYS
6Smiles
akhaloha
belledreamer
buzz5985
clhcpaca
disneyluvr
dizzydrop
GoofyPredsFan
JacksLilWench
jenanderson
jillbur
Jujubee27
luvpoohandcompany
Mary▪Poppins
MissDisney121
mommyof2pirates
momofdjc
ougrad86
VirataMama4

Team Donald is the team winner for HH Week 2! Congratulations!

Congratulations to the Team Mickey Participants for earning 5/5 on at least 1 of the 4 Healthy Habits! They were:

BMC423
glass1/2fll
KDIPIAZZ
MelindaRuns
myweegirls
RutgersAlum

Congratulations to MelindaRuns and myweegirls from Team Mickey for earning all 30/30 points!

Congratulations to the Team Donald Participants who earned 5/5 on at least 1 Healthy Habit! They are:
4HOLIDAYS
6Smiles
akhaloha
belledreamer
clhcpaca
disneyluvr
dizzydrop
GoofyPredsFan
JacksLilWench
jenanderson
jillbur
Jujubee27
luvpoohandcompany
Mary▪Poppins
MissDisney121
mommyof2pirates
momofdjc
ougrad86
VirataMama4

Congratulations to MissDisney121 for earning all 30/30 points!

For Week 2: Spaceship Earth, I have a mini-prize for Team Donald Participant Mary▪Poppins. Please PM me your address and I will mail out your prize as soon as possible.
 
Good morning friends.

We had a sad day yesterday, our little guinea pig, Fredward died during the night. Ds is much better this morning, and asked me to read the Rainbow bridge poem again today, I read it to him yesterday. Thanks to whoever posted that here after Amy's doggie died. :hug: Today he said, that it didn't make him as sad as yesterday. He drew a beautiful pic of Fred at his after school club yesterday with him eating all his favorite foods. Very cute.
Over the weekend I want to compile all our pics of freddie, and make a little album for ds.

My sister left a card and a bag of candy, which I ate too much of yesterday, and on the card we got a good laugh because she said that "grammy would have fun with fredward in heaven. I think she always wanted a guinea pig." Lol.

So today, I'm ready to get focused and put the candy behind me. I did track it all. All 14 hershey's miniatures that i ate last night.:scared1:

I took the dog for a long walk this morning, and jogged for a good part of it.
I hope to be back later to catch up on the qotds.

A big congratulations to all our biggest losers this week!!! :woohoo:

Thank you, Rose.:hug:

Have a great day everyone!!

:hug: for Fredward. Glad DS is handling it so well.


QOTD Wednesday, January 18
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?

I really should avoid chocolate, but it's so hard that I let myself have some every once in awhile so I don't go overboard when I see it :laughing: Chocolate is definitely my downfall!


Wow.... PA to TX is a big change! What field is your DH in??

The bookcase is now in DS's Lego room (yup, he has an entire finished room for that!!), and the "stuff" is gone to the thrift store.


DH will be graduating in January 2013 with a degree in Respiratory Therapy. He currently is an EMT and works in the ER at one of the local hospitals. There's really no jobs areound here and I could use a change. We are also considering FL and VA. As long as we go south, we're good. :lmao: We'll see...

So jealous of your Lego room! I have Legos all over my house. I am slowly getting them all in DSs rooms. But I still step on them daily!


Jill
 
Okay.... two toilets cleaned, 3 sinks cleaned, 3 beds made (had to change DD's sheets.... the bottom one was ripped :confused3), 30 minute workout done (sure it should be more, but I will try to get in another 15 minute tonight), mushrooms sauteed for soup, laundry sorted and started a load, did an odd bit of picking up here and there, checked email (woohoo.... free prints code from Shutterfly.... gotta get those done today!) Need to get the soup ingredients in a pot and get it started before I head out at 11:55 am to pick up DD after her English mid-term.

TTYL........................P

Once again, feel free to vacation at my house anytime! I have toilets, sinks, sheets, and a kitchen, too! Western PA is super nice :rotfl::rotfl:

Jill
 
I do want to prove the PA wrong. I'm still eating better (dry cinnamon Chex cereal for b-fast) and I know that I need an exercise plan. I will figure something out.

Hope everyone has a great day!

Ruthie: :hug: and I hope you have a great day too!

Now, for some tough love. ;) First, I want to say that you have received some excellent suggestions so far and I hope you find them helpful!

Here is some advice from a person who learned a thing or two the hard way. Read about the med(s) you take. Check for food and drug interactions. Some examples include limit soy products, do not eat grapefruit, and no aspirin when taking this mid. Also, I'd even make sure that one or more doesn't cause weight gain. I was on one (horrible doctor) that caused some people to gain 25 lbs. :eek:

How much water are you drinking? I would aim for at least 64 oz. a day. It may lead to a BL-style (on TV) 1st week whoosh. (Also, that would give you 7 Healthy Habits points!)

What interests you with regards to exercise? What do you think your body can handle? Running is not my speciality. That doesn't mean I'm not trying to run. I want to run. When I can, I feel so much better emotionally. So, I am working on walk/run intervals. And, I'm going very slowly and I'm okay with that 100%. :goodvibes

Do you work? Is there any way you can move more at work? Could you take the stairs to the 2nd floor and then the elevator to the 3rd floor, as an example?

Have you considered joining a gym? I belonged to one gym that had a women only room. If you don't work, going mid-day (like at 12 Noon) is often an emptier time at the gym. I belong to Planet Fitness and it is $10 a month plus a yearly maintenance type fee. There aren't any classes or a pool, but the equipment is well-maintained and clean, and it offers training on using the equipment and what a good starting point for you would be.

Now, for my eating advice, fwiw. Protein is key. I also need to have dairy in order to lose weight. I eat lots of veggie servings. Avoid fast food and takeout. It is filled with salt. At a restaurant, ask them to hold the salt. When I had to go low-salt, I learned a lot about food prep at a restaurant. We never season our burgers at home, but restaurants do that all the time, even the standard cheeseburger. Ask for no salt on the burger or fries. Sub the fries for veggies whenever possible. Last night, I made GF/lactose-free macaroni and cheese. I took 1 cup dry GF corn pasta and boiled it. Then, I drained it and added 1/2 cup lactose-free milk, a can of corn, and some leftover frozen green beans. I also added some lactose-free cheddar and parmesean cheeses. My parents liked it, I loved it, and it was an easy way to get in more veggie servings and less carbs while providing 1/2 dairy serving each.

Invest in some portioning devices. I'm not just talking about measuring cups. Get plastic ware (like Glad or Ziploc) that has the portions right on the containers. Take a cup of grape tomatoes or grapes for a mid-morning snack. Baby carrots can be bought pre-portioned or do it yourself. Celery hearts are a little more expensive, but you wasted less and are easy to chop into 1 cup portions. We have all sorts of containers. Some are freezer, microwave, and dishwasher safe as well. If you want, PM me your address and I will send you some coupons.

One last personal experience to share. I cannot go too low-carb. I need the carbs to feel emotionally sound. If you are drinking soda, I'd drop that somewhat slowly to help with potential withdrawal.

All in all, you need to remember to take care of yourself emotionally! :goodvibes
 
Same here!! :3dglasses

I think I actually preferred last year's special to this one, but this year's special was still pretty good.

I still think the two David Tennant specials were the best. But then again, I am partial to David Tennant... :lovestruc

Have you seen David Tennant and Catherine Tate in 'Much Ado About Nothing'? So funny! :laughing:

I agree with you about last year's special versus this year's. This year's had its moments, but it just wasn't as good, imo. I totally have to check out Much Ado About Nothing! I :love: David Tennant!!!



Another good day. I think that since I have finally resolved to really do this, it is so much easier.

I started the day with a 5.5 mile run. It was really cold (8°) and windy but I just layered up and got out there. DH and I took a route that had a lot of hills so it was a really workout. Our pace was a bit slower then I wanted but I am trying not to let it get to me because I have to remember that I am building up from scratch again.
Jen

Great job on the 5.5 mile run! I take one look at the cold and refuse to go out. :eek:

I have made baked potatoes, both white and sweet, this way for Thanksgiving the last few years. I put some foil inthe bottom so that they just don't sit on the bottom of the crockpot. Turn the crockpot on high and in about 3 to 4 hours they are done. I guess you could put them on low and they would take between 3 to 8 hours. Really pretty easy.

Another recipe I have to try. :) Thanks!

My favorite park is a tie- Epcot and Magic Kingdom! I like Epcot because of the World Showcase, and MK because it's so classic :goodvibes

EXACTLY this! :thumbsup2


I got new running shoes today! So exciting. They are a pink version of my current shoes which are blue! I have never had pink running shoes before. They were never the right shoe for me. But I love the shoe I am in and they were able to order me a pink pair! I am sooooo happy!:goodvibes I also got a new jacket and running turtle neck. I'm trying some different inserts for my shoes, which I am a little nervous about, but the ones from my pt are bruising my foot a little, so I'm going to see how these do. The girls who sold me the shoes have had the same injuries as me so we all shared war stories.:goodvibes

Rose&Mike, now that I've started walking/running to actually run/walk a race, I obviously need good shoes. Where is the best place to go, and what do you look for? (I'm really new at all of this.)

QOTD Monday, January 16th
Do you have any exercise planned for this week?

Last week I was doing 1-mile on Leslie Sansone's DVDs. This week is 2-miles. I also discovered that the library we go to has a lot of workout DVDs that i can check out for free!!! :yay:

Yep my bday is wed so u can serinade me then.

Happy Birthday!!! :cheer2: I hope you have a fantastic day!!!



Here we celebrate our progress and recognize our superstars.
First some stats

Biggest Loser Fall Challenge Week 2!
This week’s group loss = 78.3 pounds!
Average percentage of weight lost 0.72 %
Total group weight loss so far 184.8 pounds!


AWESOME!

Retention Rate (compared to the 72 participants we had sign up for our start week on January 1st)

Now let's get to the good stuff. Who were our superstars of week 2?

The WISH Biggest Loser Spring Challenge Team Donald Week 2 Superstars!!
#10- 1.40% - amykathleen2005
#9- 1.44% - dvccruiser76
#8- 1.52% - phorsenuf
#7- 1.61% - vitfamily
#6 - 1.66% - Rose&Mike
#5- 1.73% - cjdj4
#4- 1.83 - mommyof2Pirates
#3- 1.98% - dizzydrop
#2- 2.05% - happysummer

and now
The WISH Biggest Loser Team Donald Spring Challenge Week 2 Biggest Loser is:
#1- 3.03% - frndshpcptn

Quote from Dare2Dream: How is your week going? Are you OP (on program)? Are you exercising? Drinking that water? You know what to do to make the magic happen. Get on the wagon. We are all here to help you on the journey. We can do this one day at a time. One bite at a time.

Have a healthy day!
Congratulations frndshpcptn two weeks in a row!!!

Congrats to the Team Donald superstars!!! :banana:

This week's winning team with 33.95% is Team Mickey!!

Team Donald came in with 23.90% for the week!

Additional stats for the week!!!!

frndshpcptn won for Team Donald with 3.03% this week and was the overall Biggest Loser!!

Congrats to OctoberBride03 who was Mickey's Team winner with 2.64%!

Team Donald lost 78.3 pounds this week
Team Mickey lost 73.3 pounds this week

Team Donald leads the Total Weight Loss with 184.8 pounds, and Team Mickey is not far behind with 181.0 pounds so far

Both teams together have lost 365.8 pounds!!!! Amazing!

Keep reading, keep posting and most of all keep losing and continue learning!!!!

Have an OP week :goodvibes

Both teams are doing AMAZING!!! I'm honored to be a part of this group. :)

My walks every day. I started a map too, for my "walk to WDW". It's 1330 miles from my door to the castle. I am currently on the Mass Pike out around Springfield. :rotfl:

What a fabulous idea!! I'm going to have to steal this one.:thumbsup2

Hello - newest member to Team Donald here (he's my fav :goodvibes)

Welcome!

i just want this taken care of and my doctors dont seem to get that. despite being on a diet i love food and i hate being afraid to eat it. also we are going to disney in may, i know its still 4 months away but i want to have this taken care of. Plus if it is some sort of allergy, i know i need to call the restaurants ahead of time and let them know.

Thank you all for listening, im just so frustrated by all of it

I'm so sorry you have to deal with the frustration from the doctors. I've been there, and it is not fun. :headache: I hope everything can be figured out soon so you can enjoy your trip in May to its fullest.:hug:

I spun last night and ate OP the entire day!! Hit 585 calories burned on the bike in 45 minutes....ok, there was a problem with the heat in the spin room so I broke a sweat before we climbed the first hill....I've heard of "hot yoga" but "hot spinning" was a first for me!! Tonight I hope to get to the ellip after my nail appointment but the weather is really crappy here in NJ, which is my downfall for getting to the gym...boo on me!

Good for you on all the exercise!! :banana: Make each day count!

Good afternooon everyone!

We got home from Gatlinburg last night and had a FANTASTIC trip! This was the first time I have EVER gone out of town on the spur of the moment, and it was so much fun. The aquarium in G-burg is great. The boys' favorite part was the hot tub on the deck of the chalet, though!

Glad to hear you had a great trip!:thumbsup2

Good Evening Donalds!

I am coming to the end of my 4 day weekend. It was glorious. I did a whole lot of nothing. I did get the tree down, finally. And, I baked these AMAZING 147 calorie Brownies: http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/fudgy-brownies-10000002012802/ DH and DD loved them. Easy to make and I had all the ingredients in the house. DD & I got pedicures today, too. That was really nice. I try not to pay for them in the winter, but the weather as been so nice that I have ended up in sandals several times this year with scary feet.

On property, we have stayed at Pop, All Star Sports and Movies, French Quarter, and Corando Springs. I like them all. I think Corando Spring is my fav. Off property, I like Wyndham Bonnet Creek. We have Wyndham points and love staying there.

How do you like Wyndham? I'm thinking of buying in there.

Let me just start by saying that I hate going to the doctor. I hate going to any doctor. Why?? Well, as a "fluffy girl" I get the usual disgusted looks from the physician followed by the chat of "what are you doing to lose weight?". It's not like I woke up this morning and realized that I have 200 pounds to lose. It is very real to me what I need to do and I am not stupid to the adverse effect my weight can have on my health. So the theme of this story is that I hate to go to the doctor.

Of course, I had a doctor appointment this morning. I go about every 3-4 months for updated blood work and medication refills. I also needed the doctor to fill out some paperwork for me. My husband and I are trying to be approved as adoptive parents. My baby making parts don't work well. Combine that with my age, and well, adoption is a better option. The form basically states that I'm physically healthy enough to raise a child. When I called last week to make the appointment, I found out that my regular doctor is no longer with the practice, and would I like to see the physicians assistant. No, not really, but make the appointment. So I go in, do the regular BP/temp/preliminary stuff and the PA comes in. We go over my meds and as she is listening to my chest, I get "the questions". Yes, I am trying to lose weight. No, I'm not following a specific plan. No not really exercising - just trying to focus on better eating habits. No I'm not interested in information about weight loss surgery. Then I discuss the form I need her to fill out. She steps out of the room and comes back about five minutes later. Then she begins to tell me how she is not comfortable filling out the form. Basically, with my diabetes and high blood pressure and (here comes my favorite term) my morbid obesity, I am in a high risk zone. She is not sure she feels comfortable approving me to be healthy enough to adopt a child.

I'm too fat to be a parent. Gee, thanks.

So I have to go back in two weeks and she will make a decision by then as to whether or not she will sign off on the form.

You know, I try so hard and this is why I get so defeated. In a matter of 15 minutes this morning, I was made to feel like stepped on dog crap. I pasted a smile on my face and went into the office. And now I am sitting at home watching Biggest Loser. And I'm sad. And frustrated. And aggravated. And sad.

Not a good day.

That is terrible!!! As a b-mom, I'm so thankful that there are parents like you that are willing to love and raise children.

Third......... have you ever considered an alternative treatment? My DS had amazing help from a naturopath last year, after struggling with the same allergy/skin issues since he was 3 years old! We had tried to trust the pediatrician and the allergist and the dermatologist (including the special pediatric dermatologist I drove 90 minutes to see)..... and NO ONE EVER gave us anything more than temporary relief.... and that was with some really strong meds, like steroids! :scared1: But lo and behold.... one visit with the naturopath, a new regimen of supplements and vitamins, and he has had relief of the problems that have been plaguing him for 10 years!!

Yes, we did have to pay out of pocket for the naturopath and the supplements. And YES, I don't think that they can "cure" everything. But I think it would definitely be worth a try.

If you do find a naturopath that you want to try, be prepared for them to ask you many, many, many questions.... some that seems strange and would seem to have NOTHING to do with your symptoms, etc. But just answer them honestly and as completely as you can. Also be prepared to NOT be examined. DS's naturopath took a look at his skin/rash, but never had him strip for a thorough exam, never took a skin biopsy or culture.

Just throwing an idea out there for you. No matter what you decide, you DESERVE better treatment and less confusion among the treating personnel. "Very busy" doesn't cut it for me! Tell them that is an URGENT situation..... not an emergency, but certainly nothing that can wait for months. And if he can't/won't see you or fit you in, they need to recommend another doctor who CAN make time to see his patients! I HATE that doctors have become SO BUSY that they can't see their patients in a timely fashion!! What kind of medicine is that????
Best of luck, no matter what.
Feel better fast!

Just wanted to second the naturopath idea. I LOVE mine!! He's actually a naturopath/chiropractor. He helped my DD with a chronic problem (surgery and meds didn't work) and me with severe postpartum depression (didn't want to go on prescription drugs).


I'm really going to try hard this week to do better. My DH works at the headquarters for a local dairy here (Oberweis, anyone?:)) and all the ice cream is very tempting. I'm trying to keep it out of the house as much as I can, but you know...
I just have to keep telling myself, I CAN DO THIS!, and picture crossing the finish line at the Princess 2013 -- that's the goal. ;)
 
Hi all,

I am new here and not even sure where to begin with catching up. There seems to be gobs of information for dozens of pages so for now I will remain mostly a lurker/catcher up type probably. :surfweb:

Glad to be on Team Donald, though!


Jubilee
Don't even try to catch up! Just jump right in and let us know if you have questions! We are happy to have you.:goodvibes

I meant to get back on here last night and check in, but somehow I ended up looking at DVC resales. Anyone a DVC owner? Which resort do you have and do you think it's worth it? I tried to convince DH we should buy :rotfl2: A girl can dream!

I am off to get a few things done before my 1st class shows up (they have career class right now so I am delayed a period~yay). I'll check in later!

Jill
we have DVC. We own at SSR and BWV. We bought our two main contracts resale (before they made the change to only being able to use resale points for dvc properties--don't quote me on this, I can't remember the exact rule so I might not be remembering it exactly). Anyhow, we have also done add ons through Disney and all of our resale points were grandfathered in. We love it and for us it was totally worth the money. We wish we would have done it back in 94 when we first thought about it rather than waiting so long. But I will say, I am a hotel snob.:rotfl: The really nice thing for us--even the studios have mini kitchens and we have an owners locker now too. Please let me know if you have any questions. There is also a dvc part to disboards where people are happy to answer questions. If you plan on using your points to stay on property I think resale is a great option. My BWV points were deeply discounted.:goodvibes

QOTD Wednesday, January 18
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?
So before I went g-f last year I had a really good handle on this. I only ate my trigger foods out as a treat. My big trigger foods are french fries and potato chips--both with lots and lots of salt! Well, we very rarely eat out anymore and french fries out are a crap shoot--too many cross contamination issues. I now cook oven baked fries on my George Forman--makes them very crispy, but the problem--I now can have them any time in my house---so I have to be very careful to still look at it as a treat.

My other trigger foods--cookies--Oreos, etc. Well I can't have them anymore and gf premade cookies are ridiculously expensive--so I rarely buy them.

Being g-f and eating at home all the time, has made it harder for me cause I just do better keeping the junk out of my house. We have recently found this awesome bakery which always has a couple of gluten free desserts in stock. So we are trying to go there a couple times a month and see that as our new treat! And I try to save my fries out for when we go to WDW and they have dedicated friers!

Well.... there are definitely a few "trigger" foods that I have trouble being around. Sweet potato chips and peanut butter M&Ms come to mind first. But I CAN have them in the house, as long as the bag isn't open. But if I give myself permission to eat something like this (like having M&Ms at the movies) it is difficult to stay in control. What works best is if I preportion (using my handy-dandy digital food scale) the food into a ziptop baggie and ONLY TAKE what I can eat. Usually this means sharing a smaller bag with DD. The HUGE bags are just trouble for us!!

I do NOT buy these items any longer. I have NO control with the chips and I am the only one in the house who likes them, so best to not have them around. And the M&Ms only get bought if there is a movie on the schedule and I plan for the calories.

There are lots of munchie things that I have trouble controlling, but they weren't so wonderful that they were worth keeping in my repertoire, so I just gave them up...... trail mix, honey wheat pretzels, Lindt truffles (I will occasionally buy just 1 as a treat.... and I got a few in my Christmas stocking).... that is all I can think of for now.

That said, I do find room for a treat several times a week. It is getting harder to find "healthy" treats, since I am watching my carbs as well as my calories, but I am managing. Last night I had a carb splurg and had a TB of Nutella (DD's Christmas gift!), on a toasted low carb pita along with a cup of my special hot drink concoction. Too much sugar, but MMMMMM! It hit the spot! And a chocolate Vitamuffin makes a great treat too.

TTYL.........................P
I agree P, somethings I just still after two years can't control.

I used to see this as a weakness--but I have decide it is just an is.....It does not mean I am weak because I go a little crazy with some foods, (well maybe it does) but I am strong in that I have learned to work around it and still be healthy!:goodvibes

Rose I did manage to come up with some things I like about myself today (after a fellow team member pointed me in the right direction:lmao:)
1. I am kind-hearted
2. I am loyal
3. I am reliable and trustworthy

Perhaps not the most exciting list but waaaay better than what I had yesterday;)

My mum and I went and sat with my aunt again today (she in a coma but I think she senses us) and when I brought my mum home I made a healthy lunch and had bought ww cookies so I didnt binge on junk so I feeling quite positive today even though I know we have some tough days ahead of us as a family.
Thanks again for all your kind thought and words guys
That is a great list! I'm proud of you!:goodvibes

I don't know how to do the multi-quote thing! :eek:

I appreciate the words of encouragement from everyone after my disasterous day yesterday. While I wanted to detour to my nearest Baskin Robbins last night for a pint of yumminess, I didn't do it. I would have if we had the extra money, but we didn't, so it didn't happen. I woke up this morning feeling a little stronger and will hopefully have a better day.

I do want to prove the PA wrong. I'm still eating better (dry cinnamon Chex cereal for b-fast) and I know that I need an exercise plan. I will figure something out.

Hope everyone has a great day!
Hang in there Ruthie!
Baby steps. If you aren't doing any exercise now, start slow. Sparkpeople has some great articles about starting an exercise plan.
And I agree--try to add some protein to your breakfast. Why are you eating the cereal dry? Even skim milk would add some protein. You can do it!!:goodvibes

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When my DH was in the hospital last year after an accident, I really had to think HARD about how I was going to react to the situation (in regards to food). At the end of the day, whether I ate CRAP or stayed on plan, my DH was STILL going to be in intensive care, he was STILL going to have broken bones, and I was still going to be worried about him. But I could be worried, but not stressed about overeating..... or worried AND stressed about overeating and beating myself up for eating junk. I never for ONE MINUTE regretted eating healthy during that time. And I can assure you, it was the one thanksgiving week of my ENTIRE LIFE that I LOST weight!! :thumbsup2

Excellent post!
Did everyone read this????
Exactly what I needed to read today. Thanks.:goodvibes

Now, for some tough love. ;) First, I want to say that you have received some excellent suggestions so far and I hope you find them helpful!
Thanks for sharing CC.

Rose&Mike, now that I've started walking/running to actually run/walk a race, I obviously need good shoes. Where is the best place to go, and what do you look for? (I'm really new at all of this.)
The best thing is to ask other runners what store they would recommend. Do you belong to a gym/Y? Are there local running groups with websites than link to stores? If you can't get a personal recommendation, then I would look for a store that videotapes you running/walking so they can analyze your gait. there are also places that have mats that you can stand on to see what your feet are doing. I started off at fleet feet. I have switched stores to a local store, but only because of physical therapy I know what kind of shoe I need to be in--so I went for the service from this local store.

The other thing I would say--if you are losing weight, have your gait re-evaluated after you lose the weight. I was a pretty good pronator when I weighed 50 more pounds. When I lost it I stopped pronating and now actually suppinate a little. Well, being in support shoes brought on a nasty case of itbs! And it never occurred to me or the therapist that I was in the wrong shoes until I was taped again on the treadmill. When I asked the person at the running store what would cause someone to stop pronating and she said not much--maybe a large weight loss. Bingo!:thumbsup2

Last, a good running store will let you return/exchange your shoes. You might pay a little more, but this in my opinion is really important. While a shoe might feel great in the store, when you actually start going the distance in the shoes they might not feel so good. Once you find the right shoes, you can order replacement shoes online and then maybe just get re-evaluated every year or so or if you start having problems.

Hope this helps!
 
QOTD Wednesday, January 18
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?

Right now, I am avoiding soda. It's really the only thing I have crossed off my list, but it was kind of a big one for me. I love to just pop open a soda with dinner, and when I pass by the fridge in the recovery area at work, I always want one (in order to be discharged after a procedure, you have to be able to drink, and the fridge is STOCKED with little 8oz cans of Coke products.) But so far so good! The last time I had soda was New Years Eve, and I really don't miss it too much anymore. Maybe now I can start cutting out other stuff- starting with fast food!
 
:hug: Ruthie. I don't think it's fair that you should be judged by your weight in order to become a parent. Nor do I think the PA probably handled the whole thing in the right way. But, you got lots of great advice here, and you can do this! I know how easy it is to turn to something like ice cream when you are down, or mad, or depressed, etc. I do it. I'm sure many people here have done it. I'm sure we're all trying not to.

I was having a bad morning....I had an appointment that I drove an hour to, waited for 40 minutes, and the person never showed up, and I drove an hour home. I was mad. I got home and wanted to eat something. A lot of something. :rotfl2: So, I had some coco pops. They are these big rice cake like things. I had 5! Good thing they are only 16 calories each! :lmao:

Normally, I would have had something sweet, chocolate, really bad for me. Probably why my dr asked at my appointment last week what I am doing about my weight. It felt good to tell her I am working on it. I have about 45 pounds to lose, and I know it can be a struggle no matter how much we have to lose....but WE CAN DO THIS! :thumbsup2
 
Weight watchers and lots of plans say that you can eat anything and lose weight. (Moderation of course!) And for the most part, I think completely depriving yourself of your favorite treats is a recipe for frustration and even a reason many people fall off the wagon.

Having said that, is there a food you need to avoid? One that you just can't have around or you go a little crazy? Do you have treats worked into your healthy living plan or are you avoiding somethings completely right now?

Mine is McDonald's and Little Debbie snacks. A Quarter Pounder with Cheese and Medium fries is my weakness and used to be my go-to when I didn't want to cook. So I've decided not to get them anymore until I've reached my goal weight and after that, once in a blue moon. Or if I HAVE to have a burger or I'll go crazy, I'll just get a kid's meal instead.

Little Debbie's have been cut out entirely though. Instead we have the Miniature Chocolate or Mini Reese's that I'll eat one of if I HAVE to have it. But with a pound of grapes in my fridge that I don't want to go bad, I haven't touched that chocolate in over a week. :thumbsup2

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Interesting surprise when I counted my calories for yesterday; I barely made it over 1,000 calories for the whole day. I don't know what it was, but I just never really felt hungry. And for someone who was easily eating double that last year, it's really different. Even today, after having breakfast and lunch, I'm still at only about 550 calories so far for the day.

Is this normal? I used to be hungry all the time, now I've just been picking at my food. I don't feel hungry, so I don't want to make myself eat. But at the same time, I can't help but think that eating just 1,000 calories for the day is kind of low.

Plus, I feel more tired than I usually do. I do feel better after doing my exercise, but after about an hour, I feel like I need a nap. I do have low Iron, low Vitamin D and slight Anemia (which I take vitamins for) so that may be it. But I'm getting 7-8 hours of sleep at night and this is the best I've felt in years. Maybe it's just my body adjusting?

But in other news, got on the scale Monday and lost 2 more lbs! Now to just keep it off until Friday. I have a coupon for a free week trial at my local gym, so one of my friends and I are going to work out for a while together today. I'm excited! :yay:
 
we have DVC. We own at SSR and BWV. We bought our two main contracts resale (before they made the change to only being able to use resale points for dvc properties--don't quote me on this, I can't remember the exact rule so I might not be remembering it exactly). Anyhow, we have also done add ons through Disney and all of our resale points were grandfathered in. We love it and for us it was totally worth the money. We wish we would have done it back in 94 when we first thought about it rather than waiting so long. But I will say, I am a hotel snob.:rotfl: The really nice thing for us--even the studios have mini kitchens and we have an owners locker now too. Please let me know if you have any questions. There is also a dvc part to disboards where people are happy to answer questions. If you plan on using your points to stay on property I think resale is a great option. My BWV points were deeply discounted.:goodvibes

Thanks for this info. I would absolutely love and not hesitate to buy DVC, but DH isn't so interested. Although he loves Disney, he also loves traveling to other places. So far we have only stayed at Pop, and he cannot justify the price of DVC. I am interested in BWV and OKW. Those just appeal to me (as I look at pictures and weap lol). I tried to break it down yearly and it's more than what we spend to stay now, so I don't think I will be able to convince DH. But, I keep telling him that DSs will grow up one day and being able to have more space will be wonderful. I may do more research tonight :laughing:
I wish there was a way to buy without DH knowing :rotfl: Do you mind me asking how many points you started with? I tried to figure out a week in the summer with a one bedroom at OKW and it was 211 points. I figured that would be around what we might need. I just keep seeing Dh shaking his head at me :confused3

Jill

Oh, and by the way~the DVC part of the Dis is where I get sucked in and start dreaming big!
 












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